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Alright /adv/, no bully.
>be me
>diagnosed autist as a kid
>probably just a sperg, as new friends/colleagues can't tell
>married for >10 years
>get on great with wife
>wife used to have a lower libido than me
>wife has recently changed medications and increased libido
>our libidos are probably about on par now
>have never, EVER been able to last longer than about a minute
>tried cialis, dindu nuffin
>may have tried viagra, can't remember; if so, dindu nuffin
>pre-sex fap sometimes helps a bit, but not much
>changing positions doesn't help
>fucking again after 5-10 minutes helps a bit, but not much
>bjs usually last longer than sex, but still not very long
>wife doesn't complain, is never really concerned about it
>no, really; we've had honest discussions, she's not fazed, just feelsbad for me
>feelsbad sometimes because she rarely comes before i do
suggestions?
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>>18417301
Have you tried edging?
Surely you can tell when you're going to go. Slow down then and it'll take longer
Other tan losing sensitivity that's pretty much what I can think of
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My ex used to go crazy could I sometimes lasted 2 minutes, then other times 20.
For the 1/3 times I lasted 2 minutes I hoped she'd just shut the fuck up and accept that I have needs.
Anyways by the end of it I ended up hating sex because it was just a big paranoid mess of whether or not I would disappoint her.
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>>18417340
>Have you tried edging?
Not explicitly, no, but I have tried not fucking coming; it never really pans out, though, since by the time I recognise the signs, it's usually too late—if I slow my roll, stop dead in my tracks or pull out, I usually end up coming anyway.
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>>18417351
OP feels your pain, anon. While I can see myself in your position, my wife's blasé attitude helps reduce the self-resentment.
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>TFW my virgin vise-grip and prone masturbation may actually come in handy for duration if I ever get to have sex
Hooray my life might not be totally awful but it probably will
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>>18417301
quick shitty answer: ssris
answer that requires effort: learn ejaculation control through reverse kegels
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>>18418745
>ssris
Please explain.
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>>18419197
anti-depressants are cock suppressants
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>>18417301
>>18417351
Cocaine anons, its the only way
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Edge, go slower or discomfortably fast, but only edging will save you
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>>18419197
Most SSRIs or SNRIs make it harder for you to orgasm. Sertraline is a common offender.
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>>18418745
>reverse kegels
?
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>>18419529
tighten your core and bear down like you're trying to get the last bit of pee out or are trying to have a bowel movement
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>>18419519
I guess not everybody has the same reactions to drugs, but I've been on sertraline for maybe six months and don't notice a change in ease of orgasms.
I've also heard people say that anti-depressants lower libido, but the opposite happened for me: I'm always horny and always thinking about sex and jack off multiple times a day. I never even approached women before being put on meds, but now I hit on everybody I find attractive so long as it's not at a funeral.
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>>18417378
you just need more practice.
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>>18420314
Ok, thanks man, I'll read up on edging and give it a crack.
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Ejaculation can be prevented by pulling out and squeezing your cock a certain way right before you come - it's part of premature ejaculation therapy. IIRC you or your partner grabs your cock between thumb and forefinger right behind the glans, on top and on the bottom and squeeze. Apparently it makes the need to orgasm go away. if that doesn't help you might want to consult a professional sexual therapist
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>>18417301
Human males naturally cum 2 to 6 minutes after entering the vagina. It is unnatural to last longer than 6 minutes.
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>>18420806
Not true
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