hey /adv/,
I've been dating this girl for about 4 and a half months now. sex is great, she's great, things are great. The only problem is her guy friends.
She has a lot of guy friends that she used to flirt with before I came along. While she has shut out the one/s(?) who had feelings for her there are still guys I am slightly concerned about.
The other day she asked me if it was cool if she could go out and have breakfast with one friend. I trust her that she's going to keep it platonic, but I know this dude has feelings for her. I let her go ahead and do it because I trust her.
My question is: in the future, should I let her have "alone time" or whatever with this type of guy? With any guy who's not me? I just don't want to ruin a good thing.
Thanks.
If she had the sense to cut off the ones she KNOWS has feelings for her, I'd say you're in the clear.
I flirt with all of my friends, male or female, but it's in a 'sassy gay man banter' sort of a way.
Are there ever situations where you're in a group together and she's doing it? Some good ways to determine the intention behind the flirting are:
>If she will do it openly in front of you/other friends.
>The terminology used. I'll call my friends 'mate', 'bro', 'shitcunt.'
For some reason men look at banter as flirting when a woman is involved.
>>18417310
She knows that she's prone to flirting and I'd say she really watches herself around me. And even watches herself when I'm not around, according to her best friend. When I'm in a group I tend to be her #1 attention but I don't talk much when I'm around her friends so she's involved with the group.
I'd say that she doesn't flirt with other guys anymore, actually, now that I'm looking at the whole picture.
>>18417322
Well I mean, there you go. Even if the flirting didn't mean anything to begin with, she still acknowledges that it's inappropriate while she's in a relationship.
You've got yourself a good'un, anon!
>>18417299
eternal guy friends thread?
eternal guy friends thread
>>18417299
Either you trust her or you don't. It really is that simple.
>>18417299
you suck at mate guarding and letting your girlfriend have backup males. that is very disrespectful of her for emotionally cheating on you and her being such an attention whore that she needs more attention from other men.
>>18417299
2 words 4 u op, fertile cumming.
>>18417469
I hope this is b8. Or else you are really a foul beta person.