I'd greentext but i'm not really in the mood
basically today i found out that one of my best friend's fiance is cheating, she's coming over soon and I know i'm going to break the news to her but I'm not quite sure how to start, I'm going over my options but regardless of what I do i'm ruining a 4 year relationship and i'm probably never going to see her again because she'll probably move back home. I'm keeping myself calm but I could use some advice.
Do you know absolutely for sure? I wouldn't break it to her without hard evidence supporting it. Not that she shouldn't trust you, but with matters this delicate there shouldn't be any gray area, for you or her.
It would be better if the fiance tells her. Can't you talk to him and say that if he doesn't tell, you will, but that he really owes it to her to tell her himself. Your really shouldn't be the one to do it unless there is literally any other way and the fiance absolutely refuses to ever tell her and wants to keep on lying.
>>18416720
I'd reccomend this, and if that goes to shit, tell her directly.
>>18416720
This is why murders are a thing.
Dont give sociopaths motivation to dispose of you.
>>18416720
Yeah, fucking give the fiance time to make up a story about you to ruin your friendship with the bride-to-be. Then he can claim any allegations you have of his cheating as lies meant to slander his character.
Don't be stupid. Just tell her. You're not ruining a relationship. Her fiance already ruined it.
>>18416720
Do this, but record your conversation with the fiance in case >>18416866 's scenario happens and he makes up a story about you
"Your fiance is cheating on you."