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Balding at 19 parents in denial

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Basically my hair has begun thinning since last year at the back and front and my parents refuse to acknowledge that I'm starting to go bald. Every time I try to bring up the subject they say " you're not going bald!" and begin to get angry when I persist. Why are they in denial? How can I get them to start helping me deal with this? Both of them are emotionally immature and whenever someone disagrees with them they see it as a personal attack on them, latest example, I try to get them to see I'm going bald, they say no, I insist I am, they accuse me of being moody and rude towards them when really all I am is worried for my thinning hair. I'm not asking for a baldness cure, I just want them to acknowledge it as a problem I'm going through and supporting me. Pic taken a few months ago, my hair has come back a bit with Rogaine so it's not *as* bad but I'm still gonna shave it off eventually.
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There's a world of difference between being bald and being balding. You just need to make the transition. Embrace the buzzcut + beard and never look back. Trust me, I used to have hair to my shoulders, but I didn't miss it at all after the first few months.
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>>18412563
Free life lesson: Never rely on others to help you.

That said; at your age hair loss is more likely caused by stress or poor diet. Unless your grandfather on your mother's side went bald early too and then it could be hereditary.
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>>18412563

Fuck rogaine. Go to ebay, purchase minoxidil with finasteride. Also, go to gofybr.com and order that stuff. Style you hair with wax and add gofybr. Start looking into good hairpieces.

People told me to go bald, I don't like it. In fact I hate it so much that I choose to wear a headpiece. You know what, I fucking love it. I don't give a shit about what bitches want, people are going to see me as a man with hair til the day I fucking die!

I get laid with both twinks and babes. Not because of my headpiece, but because I feel good about myself. I don't feel good about myself when I'm bald. Everytime I look in the mirror is a punch in the face from God.

Also, I can tell from just seeing your head that you have at least 19% bodyfat. Start working out you ugly fuck. Clean up your nutrition, keep candy and shit-food to the weekends, start doing push, pull, legs and get enough sleep.

Not for the women or guys, do it for YOU!
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>>18412630
Just curious how could you tell my body fat?
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I had the same situation. If your hair is just thin and not completely balding and you want to keep it, find a really good barber and have your hair kept short. Makes it less noticeable.
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>>18412563
I was in EXACTLY the same boat when i was 19. All i advise is work out and dont fuck with finasteride - brain fog and dead libido arent worth it. Like the other guy said, people dont generally care about superficial shit if it's apperent that you feel good about yourself.
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>>18412688

Your head is not as proportionate as mine. I'm at 11%. My face has gotten thinner, more defined and therefore, more attractive. Your face looks soggy. You need to change up your nutrition, go on an intermittent faste for the rest of your life. Or you will always be ugly.

Also, a smart tip. If you couldn't be a hot gay person, you're not hot. Look up some pictures of what girls shlick it with online, to see what they want a man to look like.
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>>18412563
Ain't a big deal. Shave it off.
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>mfw i'm in my early 40's and not bald.
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>>18412997
What's your secret, genetics?
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>>18412630

i side with you. people are always like 'oh you don't want to get a hairpiece, everyones going to judge you'.

fuck people, having hair ,even if bad fake hair, feels a whole lot better. if girls can wear make up i can have a hair piece.

not looking forward to going bald. I'm like OP but not nearly as bad yet.
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>>18412563
>>18412563
OP you are balding early. Shit tier genetics.

Options:
Shave (likely become a 4-5/10), but tan and get /fit/ & good job

OR. Minoxidil and propecia. You can use Toppik (hair filler) or hair piece. If you are willing to use propecia and some concealer..then opt for a hair transplant when 25.

But it isn't going to be easy. Losing you hair young is like watching your looks and youth vanish. Tough blow, especially at 19. Girls your age love nice hair, it matters.
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Just shave it, dude, or at least wear it close (like a crew cut). You'll feel a little goofy for a while (and maybe look a little goofy until your scalp gets a decent tan) but ultimately you'll look and feel better. Despite what the guy above me said, plenty of girls really like the bald look; yeah, it works a lot better if you're in pretty good shape, but you want to be in good shape anyway.

It does depend on what kind of face & head shape you have, but for a lot of guys, shaving your head for the first time can be the closest experience to what girls go through when they get breast implants (or do something else that drastically increases their sex appeal; personally I don't like breast implants).
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>>18412563

How old are you? Almost all men have some hairline recession in their late teens/early twenties. Look it up.
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>>18412563
>Go to doctor.
>Get doctor to write thing saying you are balding.
>Show to parents.
>Flip them off while you walk away.
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>>18412726
Ignore this guy. He ate the /fit/bait.
The top of your head has like fucking zero body fat.
You might be a lardo but I can't tell based in that photo.
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Shave it.
I never looked back.

But I have to also agree with >>18412630
You have to do what feels right for YOU. If being bald fucks with your confidence then try something else.
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>>18412563
OP, you're the one immaturely sperging out over your hair. You aren't even a girl, but you're sure acting like one.
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>>18413568

LOOK AT HIS FOREHEAD WHERE IT MEETS THE EYEBROW. The bone structure is covered with a thin layer of fat, the body rarely stores fat in the face before it has stored a little on the arms and stomach. ALSO, LOOK AT HIS TEMPLE, it doesn't sink as much into the skin as it should. You're supposed to see the structure of a well proportioned face. This gives symetric edges that are attractive.

He should go on an intermittent fast, take his multivitamins, eat all his calories for evenings, thus limiting the chances to fuck up his diet to a three hour eating window. He should take cold showers during the week days, he should work out at least three times a week, specializing in the musclegroups each day. Like monday is leg day, wednesday is pull day and friday is push day.

Also, girls love guy on guy action. Check the comment section on any yaoi picture nightcore remix vid on youtube. They love it. These are some hot girls too! Check their google account. I've gotten laid with some crazy hot women through my twink friends, bisexual hot women, I've had threesomes because of this.

I'm not saying become gay and have gay sex. I'm just saying that if you wanna know what women fantasize about, you need to look into yaoi. Because it is made by women, for women. It is an indept study in how they see us as sexual objects.

All I'm saying is that the guys in these comics dress that way women like men to dress, they talk the way women want to be talked to, they fuck the way women want to be fucked. It is a deep in-depth study into what women want. If you don't want to learn that because you want to prove how straight you are, then go ahead, I'll just have to fuck all these women all by my self.
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>>18413788
It's just gay anime you fucking dweeb
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>>18413963

No, it is emotional porn designed to trigger all the right feels in girls.
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>>18412630
Agree to your post 110%

Fuck yeah!
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>>18412726
>intermittent faste
Can confirm. After a week your body will not crave for any snacks and you save time and calories while being able to enjoy all the shit usually only fat people can eat till they burst.

Fuck normie-meals.
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>>18413788
>Also, girls love guy on guy action.
No.

t. gril with many gril friends

You're just a degenerate weeb.
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OP here, just wanted to say thanks for the advice but a few things

-I'm not a lardo, I'm average weight and do eat pretty healthily, but my face is pretty round with big cheekbones so that might've caused confusion.

Gonna go with shaving my head and seeing where to go from there I guess.
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>>18412563
When I was about 17 I had hair down to my shoulders, cut it to donate and by 18 I was balding, ended up choosing to shave it and stuck with that. When it actually grows out a bit you can definitely tell I'm balding and I'm 22 now, lovely shit tier genetics. But like others said just do what feels right to you
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>>18412563
They're taking advantage of you. Its the stress dumbass or theyre poisoning your food. Out smart them and move out
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>>18412630

OP DO NOT USE MINOXIL OR ANY SORT OF HAIR RESTORATION SHIT, it will make your heart explode, lol.
Seriously, look up the side effects of this stuff before using any of it. Hair restoration medication was initially invented for HEART RESEARCH. It is a serious detriment to your entire circulatory system, and for what? Hair? Cosmetics? You trade 10-20 years of circulatory health for hair. Not worth it.

Think of it this way: you have hair, but your dick doesn't work. Got it?

These other guys have the right idea. Either get plugs, shave your head, or something else, but do not use any pill or any topical substance that is going to ruin your entire body. Good luck, fellow baldy.

PRO-TIP: WORK OUT.

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>>18413712
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Worse comes to worse you could tattoo your head to look shaven.
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It might seem odd to cut off some of your hair when you feel like you're going bald, but do it.

Long, thin hair just ends up falling flat against your had since it can't support it's own weight, making your hair seem even thinnner. It also comes out more easily, meaning you'll lose even more of it.

Cut your hair shorter and wash it more often while using conditioner every time.
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>>18413168
That's more than just recession, m8. It's really bad thinning.

OP, I hate to break it to you but it's most likely male pattern baldness. That's what it is the majority of the time. Just to double check, see a doctor to check your thyroid and other stuff to look for deficiencies that could contribute to hair loss. I'm not ready to bald yet but I am thinning so I'm on finasteride. I don't care about the potential side effects. Look into and you may also think that it's worth it. Be strong, brother. I'm also quite young (23) and this shit is killing me inside since I'm also 5'7.
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>>18416130
>Cut your hair shorter and wash it more often while using conditioner every time.
No. Neither washing nor conditioning will make it more healthy. It will only make it get greasy ealier. The more you wash, the more greasy your skin will produce to counteract the dryness. The more you stress your hair follicle, the earlier they will fall out.

Also: Conditioner is useless. It will only add silicons to your hair which make it more glossy but will also let it fall flat due to weight and can additionally fuck up your skalp due to sealig it of. Simply use acidic water which will tighten up your hair scales, resulting in the same gloss. Just wash your hair normaly and rinse with 1L of cold water in which you mix in some splashes of lemon concentrate. Cold water will additionally tighten them up.

Changing from silicon heavy bullshit to non-sili might take a couple weeks in which your hair will lock shitty due to all that crap coming down and showwing your real at that point fucked up hair. Might as well shave it all off and use a peeling on your scalp.
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