how to get over a girl

Bang a bunch of chicks

Get over it..You don't even have to do anything. Time will do it for you.
Easy fucking peasy

>>18410862
Not OP, but I'm in the same boat.
How much time? It's been 2 and a half years for me.

>>18411007
Anon, if it's been this long and you still think of her, your damaged goods. Your parents most likely didn't give you the attention you needed, and now you've grown up with a dependent personality. Seek psychological help

>>18411012
>All this projection
Nigga my parents were (and still are) fantastic. I'm just a hopeless-as-fuck romantic.
I don't need a doctor, just some advice that isn't "just fuck someone idk" because that doesn't work for me.
Also, *you're

>>18410706
>>18411007

I was stuck on a oneitis for absolutely ages. Couldn't shake her and all love for her became a torture. Would have pleaded for her to get off my mind.

Eventually life swept me along and I picked up several passions and hobbies which I became dedicated to and without me realising she eventually kind of vanished. Still every so often think of her but more as a fond memory rather than a torturing desire.

I think it will go on for as long as it takes to fill the void. How to fill it or when it will be filled can't really be said but it will be so don't convince you'll be left with some gaping part of your life missing.

This really is down far more to acceptance and moving on than anything. If you move on you'll accept the reality without realising it.

Go out, meet new people. Importnat thing is that you have stuff to do and that you meet new people. That's all

All the energy you're putting into the lust and love for this lost girl find a way to invest it into yourself.

You have to channel it towards improving your own life. I imagine you probably feel she is a necessity for your improvement and happiness but this is just demonstrably false.

Learn to love yourself the way you love this girl.

>>18410706
Keep yourself busy.

>>18410717
>Bang a bunch of chicks
Doesn't work for everyone. Especially people who have a hard time banging just one chick.

>>18411007
I had an unrequited crush thing that lasted for four years, after literally talking to this girl ONCE. I would see her in the hallways at uni, but never worked out the courage to approach her. I creeped her Twitter and she was very funny and had similar humour to mine, and I find it difficult to find hilarious girls. I knew it was unreasonable at the time and that there was no reason to be that obsessed with her, but my emotions don't always agree with my cognition.

It's funny looking back at it now… I don't feel a thing for her anymore. Even though I am now comfortable approaching women, I don't really feel "if only I could do this back then." I sometimes wonder how life would be different had I done that, but never with a sense of regret.

That was the last "long-term crush" I had. I'm still kinda stuck on a girl who ghosted me a month ago, but it's stopped hurting and I stopped feeling the need for "closure." It still sucks because she pretty much checked all my boxes, but the pain is healing a lot quicker than the pain of my psycho crush on that other girl.

>>18410706
>what can I do?
Block her on everything, delete her number, get rid of anything that reminds you of her (photos, videos, facebook posts).
Stop looking at her profiles or any of her close friends ones for updates involving her.
Go out and socialise with new people, this can be via sites like meetup, by going out with your friends, or even by taking up a new (active) hobby.

90% of life is showing up, you aren't living if you are sat at home checking on your ex who is definitely thinking about another guy's dick right now.