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Should I talk to my male friend about being distant? 2017-06-12 09:01:44 Post No. 18410542
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Should I talk to my male friend about being distant?
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2017-06-12 09:01:44
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Should I confront a male friend/coworker I've been hooking up with about being distant lately? We used to talk all day every day... I don't even know if he knows he's been acting weird but it's been really hurtful to me (b/c I am obviously in love with him)
We finally said a few words to eachother tonight after straight up ignoring eachother all week at work in close proximity. I want to talk to him abbout it and tell him how he's been acting has been hurtful but I don't want to seem crazy because we weren't in a relationship. Just very close friends...
What should I do? Do you think he even notices as much as I do?
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he wont give a damn that its "hurtful", atleast i didnt when i just backed off from my officefling
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>>18410583
You'd rather just throwaway a 2 year friendship?
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>>18410592
are you absolutely sure it is a friendship
or its what you want to believe, i knew her for a year and we were on good terms, but i would never call her a friend (which would also probably hurt her)
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>>18410594
Yes, 100% sure it is a friendship. We hung out outside of work and he has definitely called me a good friend of his to others and myself.
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>>18410594
Why did you just back off instead of being open about why and talking to her?
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>>18410605
because i worked with her and the truth was i wanted a warm body to sleep with and have sex with, everything else was secondary, if i say that to her she could cause trouble at work, which i didnt want
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>>18410603
then you should ask him, as a friend, if something is bothering him
not that hes hurtful, he has no obligations towards you
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>>18410542
I'd say that you should ask him why he's been so distant. Say that you're worried and want to know why he's been like that, try to at least not start too strong
There's a possibility he's trying to get out of this
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