if one of your closer friends told you they've been molested at the age of 6, would your opinion about them change or not?
Not unless I thought they were lying.
>>18409497
that'd be fucked up yeah. alright, i felt like i'd instantly be labeled as someone that's fucked up and kinda harm friendship
I might see them and their actions and personality in a different light, but it wouldn't change my positive feelings about them.
>>18409493
I'd feel sad and angry for what happened to them, but I wouldn't view them any differently. It's obviously not their fault.
>>18409493
I'd tell them Im there for them
And that they shouldn't feel guilty over what happened to them
>>18409501
Why would something bad happening to someone else as a child harm the friendship? How is that their fault?
I would in someways feel honored they have the level of trust in me to have told me.
The only reason my opinion would change is
>>18409497
Other than that get on like normal and maybe make a joke about it if it ever popped up the opportunity as god knows there's no boundaries when it comes to your best mate.
>>18409493
most girls I know claim to have been raped around then. what's up with that? they just wanna be edgy or what. and it's not attractive.
>>18409493
Yeah actually. Id think you were a whiny bitch and blowing shit out of hand. Youd have to explain the situation to me. If its shit like some old man locked you in a room and started touching you while you asked him to stop then extreme stuff like that is worth being scarred over.
Yes.!
..No?
It's not the persons fault..And you like them for a reason?
I'd probably wonder why the molester didn't choose me.