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(F) I literally am not confident at all.

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/b/, No matter what I do, I really just can't be confident. My whole life, I have felt ugly, fat and unwanted. My friends, boyfriend, peers and family tell me otherwise, but I just can't seem to shake the feeling.

On some days I'll feel slightly pretty, sure, but I want to be one of those girls guys drool over. I know that's weird because I have a boyfriend right now but it would make my self esteem better. i probably sound like a slut but whatever desu.

A couple years ago, I used to be a lot skinnier than I am now. I've gained a lot of it back since then, and although I'm nowhere close to fat, I still feel like I look gross all the time.

My boyfriend is an amazing person, and he cares about me a lot. He stopped watching porn for me, and did a lot of other things to make me happy. He's always there for me and we have been together for almost half a year. We watched porn together today and it made me realize how much I really hate my body and how I look.

I always degrade myself, and promise myself I will eat better and exercise, but I lose all motivation in two seconds. So, it comes down to me caking on makeup to make myself look better.

I'm 5'4, and 140 pounds. (Though I really don't look it. I have an hourglass figure.) Dirty blonde hair and blue eyes, pale as fuck. I am still in school (but i'm not underage :^) )

I will post pictures if they are really needed, but my real question is, /adv/, how do i gain more confidence?
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ignore the /b/ in the beginning im actually fucking retarded
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>>18409242

You won't. If you have to ask random anonymous strangers who constantly have motivational issues (ie: everyone's a fucking shut-in NEET), you won't get answers you'll like, or try.

You wanna work on yourself, exercise, get a better diet, stop comparing yourself to porn actresses. That's basically it. Guys are more likely to drool over you if you're a good woman, not if you're a hot slut. The slut part will attract them initially, and then repel anyone of worth, no matter how hot you are.

So be a good woman.
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>I will post pictures if they are really needed
>I want to be one of those girls guys drool over"

post some pics...if you wanna know how are you appearance-wise
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pls giv answer i am desperate
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>>18409327
i can post more
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>>18409334
You look like girl and your issue is non issue.

>i dont believe it is you
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>>18409334

You look fine, and if you keep wanting more you're just a vain slut.
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Coming from a fellow 4chan f with self esteem issues, it doesn't really ever leave you. You kinda just decide each morning whether you like the person you want to be today?

If that is an attention whoring slut I mean more power to you. If it is someone who wants to further themselves in wordly knowledge (whatever your skill) and spread the message of loving the person not the mirror image then also power to you!!
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>>18409334
Where are you from? Don't lie.
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>>18409242
>boyfriend
Why the fuck are you complaining ? You're surrounded by people who value you and you even have a living proof you can please to someone.
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>>18409334
Holy fuck why can't pretty people stop bitching about how """ugly""" they look and appreciate what they have.
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>>18409418

Because the grass is always greener on the other side. People will find ways to complain about everything in their lives if they're bored.
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Why wont OP answer questions?
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>>18409418
I know. We can't all be "society sex symbols". Most of that shit is photoshopped. If you have a couple decent features whether that be feirce eyes, lucious hair, nice hourglass shape, thighs that could strangle a man... own that uniqueness and people will too!
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why is there markers behind her eyebrows
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>>18409436
;^ )
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>He stopped watching porn for me
Girls, we need to have a talk.
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>>18409441
Nigger, where are you from?
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>>18409441
Are you swedish?
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>>18409334
>>18409441
You look normal, what's the problem?
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>>18409441

learn not to give about somebody elses opinion,
get a man, and then you won't have to worry about boyfriends (you look young)

> be me
> fat ***180 lb, 5'6
> black
> at an all girls school
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>>18409242
attention whoreeeeeeeee
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If your self-esteem is tied to your weight (at your height and weight you're probably slightly chubby but still pretty ok) get /fit/. It will be good for your self esteem and good for your bf. Go over there, read the sticky, and do the work.
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>>18409334
You have a beard, ma'am.
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>>18409334
>>18409441
Post more, it's hard to tell.
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>all these female replies
Take it from an actual guy, you're pretty attractive >>18409334
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>>18409334
You're attractive.

Now, post more pics.
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>>18409334
qt
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>>18409334
>Reverse image search
>0 images found
Idk there is nothing wrong with you
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>>18409242
>>18409334
>>18409441

>how do i gain more confidence?

well do you do anything that challenges you and that forces you to overcome a challenge? you have school but what else? sports? hobbies? It may be that you just need to overcome something to regain some confidence.


>I always degrade myself, and promise myself I will eat better and exercise, but I lose all motivation in two seconds. So, it comes down to me caking on makeup to make myself look better.

motivation is hard unless you are heavily vested in it. it could be easier with a partner. have you asked your boyfriend to join you? maybe try and hike walk every week?

either way you look fine.
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>dude I'm so ugly lol (:

jesus christ kill yourself unironically
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>>18409334
>>18409441
You're cute but not sexy.
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