I don't have any friends, I don't have any money I don't have a job, I don't have a girlfriend, I don't have any qualifications or skills to get a job, so I play my xbox everyday to try escape from my life but at the same time I realise I can't escape and I'm only wasting more time and this has been an on going process my entire life and I just don't know what to do and I'm posting on this anonymous message board because I can't talk to anybody about it without them saying something like my problems aren't real problems, other people have it worse etc, I understand this but I'm still depressed everyday and find it extremely hard just to smile. I keep it all to myself because I don't want anybody to think I'm soft, weak or pathetic, i dont know what I'm doing or meant to be doing I feel lost
>>18408230
Welfare state everyone.
Just get a job.
It doesn't get better.
>>18408230
you are unchallenged, unmotivated, unplanned, disorganised, and without goals, yes?
>>18408230
Time passes by really fast this way and it's very scary if you ever move away from distractions like vidya and think about it real hard. 20s 30s only go for so long and then suddenly you're middle aged.
At least get a job, I got a security cert, loopholed my state's laws which make it really fucking hard for non-normies to work in security and got a license, which let me get a job working security. It's not too shabby and it's a step at least.
Pick up momentum doing the basic things at first, you will fail constantly you just need to keep on waking up and try again. The alternative is waking up as a 40yo with fucking nothing in my life and if that happens I'm just gonna step in front of a train.
>>18408230
First of all you do have real problems. If you wanna know what exactly you have to get a diagnosis from a psychiatrist. When you know this you can try working on things. Some people can be helped, some can't.
Just know whatever you do you deserve a place in the world as well, even if all you do is game. You know there's people who work and ruin people's lives. Who's a worse person? Just to put things in perspective.