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I feel so detached from people. I was at a wedding today and

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I feel so detached from people. I was at a wedding today and just felt so weird. It's so ironic because I look decent/good and girls glanced at me, but I danced with a few and felt they can sense my autism and awkwardness. How do I overcome that? How do I become a normie? I'm fucking 23 and I'm losing hope. I'm drunk. Please don't fucking overlook this thread.
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>>18406186
>feel so detached
Please elaborate anon, what kind of detached are we talking about ?
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>>18406186
I know the feeling. Xanax is a life saver for social occasions, eat half a bar and you will be able to talk to people without any of those nagging anxieties.
Or get therapy.
Drugs are cheap, therapy isn't.
don't get addicted anon
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Save yourself OP. I'm 25. Its too late for me
>the most quiet at family settings like Thanksgiving
>dont engage people in public, just 'please...thanks...excuse me'
>friends have described me as 'the kind of guy you forget was there'
>never get invited at work to hang out and find out by their convos
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>>18406296
>the kind of guy you forget was there

I'm basically a ghost. I'm a fucking giant, but people still don't realize I'm there because I never talk and I move silently.
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>>18406186
you must kill the anxiety. how? i don't know but you gotta. dont let your blessed life slip away dont lose hope
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>>18406186
I felt detached from reality after I realized I wasted all of my fucking money on DGB, anon.
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>>18406283
I don't really want to take drugs. I used to do lots recreationally, like GBL or stimulants with alcohol (they'd surely stimulate me to talk to people.)
I have a therapist/psychologist but we don't really talk about my social life, mostly just about life in general.
>>18406296
>>18406711
It's not even about that, I'm mostly just afraid that I'm unlikeable or weird. I had this feeling throughout the entire evening yesterday and probably reeked of desperation. Though I'm also scared people wouldn't invite me to things.
>>18406269
I saw all the normal people with their gfs, doing things normally and I had a feeling that I'll never be a normie. Felt left out and out of place.

Yeah I need to break my anxiety. I did push myself to dance with the prettiest girls but should have done it more times and I don't really know how to dance or interact with people for that matter. Not sure how to learn that.
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anon, i dont know how to fix your problem long term, but i have an idea that if you get addicted to it might just be what your looking for, ill put it in greentext for easy comprehension

>acquire beer (not hard liquor)
>drink said beer
>blast some club music
>exercise the fuck out of everything
>do lots of push ups, squats, etc
>get pissed off
>drink more beer
rinse and repeat until your ripped
as for the socializing part, well id say the best possible outcome is that girls come to you but i dont think id be satisfied with that, so read more books while your at it (redpilled books preferably, this translates into ironpill btw)
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>>18409063
I have an ok body tbqh but I feel that I need to work on my personality or behaviour
I want to blend in with the normies as I feel weird and I'm afraid I'm unlikeable. Some of it is probably in my head.
As I said lots of girls looked at me with interest but they also seemed to be put off a bit by my awkardness.
Also I met a 18 yo guy with his hot gf and it brutally reminded me that I've never ever.
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