My girlfriend does most of the talking and shes getting bored. Says she doesn't want to "entertain me" all the time.
We had a 40 minute drive to the zoo today and she told me to do the talking, I went blank and couldn't come up with anything. Tried a childhood story, tried talking about some music but she didn't seem interested in any of it.
She seems incredible at talking about anything and making it seem interesting and exciting. I've always been a really mellow person and I can hold a conversation but when I'm put on the spot and told just to talk I go blank, I can't think of anything.
I think i'm a boring person, what can I do? Seems like this relationship is going to fall apart and I feel powerless to save it.
Best thing to do my friend it talk to her about it. Tell her your issues and be super nice to her. Im sure over time it will pass. Talk a little and then ask her some questions and pass the conversation back to her. Jedi mind trick stuff.
Sounds like your best bet is to break up with her, go experience life on your own and have some stories for the next one.
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I did, she basically told me to figure it out myself
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leaning more towards this, I've been really good to this girl and i'm tired of being disrespected. I need to learn how to be happy on my own.
i still have a lot of love for her though so i'm not sure what to do.