I used to be really into this girl, but was too pussy to ask her out (and she seemed to constantly have boyfriends who at multiple points were my friends).
Eventually I overcame the crush and we left school, but rewind to 7 days ago and it all of a sudden came crashing back.
I've felt severely depressed for the last 7 days as I keep telling myself I will never see her again and she is the only girl I have ever felt a strong connection towards. I haven't seen this girl in over a year and haven't messaged her online for over 3 so randomly pming her now would be extremely awkward. Please help me out /adv/.
bumping for advice
I'm facing the same problem as you I haven't seen the girl i had a crush on after talking to her every day and growing closer to her except I was a freshman and she was a senior and she's probably attending college by now i honestly don't know bro.
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Don't leave it too long like me man, I saw your post: go after her even if just as a friend. When you leave it too long and then it comes crashing back is the worst fucking lingering cluster of feelings.
I'd say to at least reach out, even just as a friend. Human contact can be nice every once in a while
>randomly pming her now would be extremely awkward
Well, shit op. Try overcoming this first. Imagine how she'll feel if she get a text from you telling her that you saw a thing that reminded you of her and that time when something fond memory happened, and that you miss seeing her around, hoping she's fine.
Could be a good thing, don't you think? Write her from the place in your heart where you can connect to a positive outcome, not from a place of misery and melancholy, and build from there.