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my boyfriend talks about hot girls constantly in front of me, and ogles them online. He knows it's bothered me before (he used to be worse) so he's cut down on a lot of it, so now he's just doing what he thinks is harmless, I guess?
He talks about other hot girls constantly, talks about girls made for sex, etc. Is it possible that my insecurity and annoyance from earlier translates into this so I'm overreacting a little bit, and thinking he's turning himself on but really he's talking objectively? or is he on the autistic spectrum and thinks there's nothing wrong with it?
PS he's also a jealous guy so he wouldn't like me talking like that.
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>>18404975
Relationships should be about mutuality and knowing boundaries.
If you bring up that this bothers you and he continues to do it, he doesn't respect you. He's trying, it seems, but he's wired to not give a fuck.
If he wouldn't want you talking like that, you shouldn't put up with him talking like that.
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>>18404975
>PS he's also a jealous guy so he wouldn't like me talking like that.
Hate to break it to you but yeah, your bf IS a hypocrite. Honestly just dump him, I would based on principle, but most people seem to toleratr more in relationships than me.
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>>18406091
Just do this; it will save you a lot of trouble in the long run. Especially since he can't even take what he puts you through.
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He probably gets off to your lack of self worth and respect.
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>>18406243
you think so? You think it's that severe? I'm kind of on the fence of me overreacting, I don't want to come off as a fucking insecure mess so I have a hard time looking at it objectively. His behaviour does warrant it though, you think?
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