I just got rejected by a girl who was my first real love and who I thought really liked. I'm having a really hard time dealing with it and not spending all of my time thinking about her. Can someone please share on what I should do to get over the sadness? Should I continue pursuing her if I think I'm really in love with her?
she's just playing hard to get.
find out where she lives, her habits, her brand of toothpaste, how many times she wipes when she shits, etc.
leave her notes in places she's on the way to and include a photo of her on the way there only minutes before.
slash her tires and conveniently offer her a ride.
kill her dog, frame the neighbor, and buy her a puppy.
poison her food and swoop in to save her life.
she'll be so in love with you, my guy.
>>18403037
>You can't force love my friend
>>18403060
Sound like a great idea
>>18403037
give up. there is no hope left OP...
You definitely shouldn't keep pursuing her if she's already rejected you once. She's already developed her opinion on you and there's no way she will change just because you are persistent.
As for how to deal with the sadness, there's a couple ways to do it. You could try to find another girl to satisfy your desire for love. Alternatively, you could try to improve yourself in some way. Learn to play a musical instrument or to speak another language. Start working out and eating better. When you better yourself you will develop more self esteem and you won't feel so bad all the time.
Hang in there. This same thing happened to me last year around this time. You'll feel better eventually.
Today my girlfriend. Well, I guess ex-gf told me that she didn't love me anymore. So we are both heart broken together bud.
>>18403236
same here man, it happened last month(long story)
OP for now you should go ahead and forget about this girl. There will be plenty of other girls in your life. Don't worry about it so much she only rejected you she didn't do anything horrible or fuck you over its not the end of the world....try talking to other people, go out, do the things you normally enjoy, find a hobby or get creative.
same happened to me
we're both sad
just go jack off a bunch and go do something with your friends, keep your mind occupied, you'll get over it