Girlfriend met a guy for dinner

>>18402767
>My girlfriend met a guy from her old work for dinner without telling me, I only found out after the fact.
So what?

>She's sober too
Oh, I see, she's a degenerate "former" drug addict too.

I would say GTFO of there, but you are probably trash too.

>>18402790
>you are probably trash too

That's not nice.

She was into alcohol but not drugs.

>>18402767
This for me would be a huge red flag. Not that I think she was cheating on you with this guy but essentially what she was doing was lying to you. She was spending a significant amount a time on someone other than you. Also, trust is the cornerstone of any relationship. The question is why would she jeopardize that over something like this? The other concern is that as a former addict, hiding and sneaking around would raise my suspicion about relapsing and hiding it.

If she was cheating on you, why would she tell you this?

>>18402826
I kind of doubt she's actually cheating but she met a guy multiple times at his work and then once for dinner and only told me about it when pressed.

I guess I'm just asking if this is red flag behavior and emotional cheating

>>18402832
It could just be that she knew you'd get butthurt about it and figured it's easier to do what she wants and not tell you.

>>18402848
This. Seriously you sound like an insecure person OP.

red flag, there is obviously something more to it if she didn't tell you. i don't know why you're posting this here though because you're not going to listen to anyones advice

It would have been polite of her to tell you.

That's the thing couples do, since it's the responsibility of each to make sure the other is comfortable with various situations. I wouldn't be happy.

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>>18402767

>He is bald and fat and has face tats while I'm tall and make a lot of money

You had me up until here.

3/10.

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>>18402767
2 words nigga, fertile cumming

>>18402767
if you're getting cucked by a fat fuck you deserve it

>>18402848
It doesn't matter what she thought he'd feel - if she's intentionally witholding information from him then it demonstrates shame or guilt on her part, which means she knows something she is doing is wrong yet does it anyway. That's what I would have a problem with. A strong relationship does not exist without great communication and compromise. It doesn't seem OP's gf was willing to provide either of those this time.

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>>18402767
i dont have time to explain but you need to cut all contact and get out of this relationship IMMEDIATELY. youre being cucked

>>18403273
This

People who hide things just to avoid possible confrontations can't be trusted, also going to a dinner with another man while being in a relationship is something that you just don't do, if you didn't got cucked this time, you surely will in future, also...

>former alcoholic.

nope.

Cheating doesn't have to involve kissing or fucking. What she did was cheating. Why hide it if there wasn't a reason to?