>Be me, really like a girl >we have been intimate emotionally

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>Be me, really like a girl
>we have been intimate emotionally and physically/sexually
>she considers me a "close friend" that she can share her thoughts with
>talks to/hangs out with me on the regular for some weeks/up to a month before ghosting me for weeks/months at a time, rinse and repeat
>this kills the man.jpeg
>doesn't talk to me when other people are around but is very close when alone
>when i ask her whats wrong i get no answer
>recently tried to get me to go across town to buy her shit even though it would be faster for her to walk the distance both ways than for me to drive one way because she was too lazy to do it herself
>she has been doing this more and more lately
>tell her no every time because im not her personal slave orbiter
>Also lately whenever we hang out its on her terms, whenever i suggest something she shoots it down
>this behavior is really starting to annoy me
>feel like im being used

I really like this girl, but i am approaching a breaking point. how do i go about telling her to get her shit together or she can forget about whatever "relationship" it is that we currently have without sounding like a total asshole?

>pic kind of related

all answers appreciated