ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

How often do guys get likes and messages on sites like OkCupid?

>>18401788
I get 1-2 likes a week, but messages never. I think I'm decent looking, but okcupid is also dead thanks to tinder, there's hardly any girls on it in my city.

So, absolutely nothing compared to a typical girl's 100 likes and 500 messages a day.

What are some classic signs of cheating from women? Been backstabbed several times and I need to learn what to look for.

I want to meet girls, but all my hobbies are solitary. I can't think of anything I'd enjoy doing that involves other people. Am I fucked?

>>18401820
Nah. Meet people online, through your friends, or through activities like volunteering, school, work.

>>18401796
>Hides her phone
>Constant white lies
>Doesn't tell you where she is/who she is with
>Talks to another guy more than she talks to you, even if she says "they're just friends"
>Thinks you are cheating

>>18401825
> online
Can you give some examples? I tried soc but there's never anybody even close to me.
> friends
They live so far we don't even meet up once per year, everyone moved away after jobs.
> volunteering, school or work
I graduated a few years ago, my job is solitary, and there are no animal shelters or the like anywhere close.

>>18401834
>Can you give some examples?
Dating sites - tinder or okcupid, or whatever is popular where you live.
I had success with 4chan, lol.

> there are no animal shelters or the like anywhere close.
Google volunteering in *your town*.
There is most likely a church, an association or a hospital that seeks volunteers.

>>18401838
That'd be tinder only, which I can't use since it requires facebook. Already on two dating sites, but they're dead.

> help people
I live in the ghetto, I've seen and suffered enough by the folks those organizations are trying to help that I want nothing to do with them.

I just want to know why she keeps me around still when she's obviously fucking other guys. I'm like the dude she does normal couple-esque stuff with but she'll go out with friends and do god knows what.

I found a used rubber in her room today which definitely wasn't mine and didn't bring it up.

I known I need to walk but I like playing with fire so much, I was such a lonely dude in my teens and it's a connection I don't want to lose. I get my heartbroken almost weekly now

Help.

>>18401867
She's using you for the emotional connection. Dump her immediately, for you own sanity.

>>18401796
Some stuff has been mentioned but it's really difficult to be sure. Eg both a sudden spike in sexual behavior, including wanting to try things they were never up for before, and lack of interest in sex and more conservative preferences can indicate cheating.

I'd say mostly look for sudden changes. Being secretive about their phone when they were always nonchalant is the token sign but other than that, focus on what's out of the ordinary for how you know your SO to act. Whether that's suddenly shutting up about their days or suddenly giving long-winded stories accounting for what they did and where they were.

>>18401867
Emotional connection absolutely. You provide limited info especially regarding what you officially are to each other (and/or whether you have sex as well), but it sounds to me like she got burned/damaged, and either (if you are friends) she uses you for her emotional needs and men she does not trust with her heart for sexual needs (like a female Madonna/whore thing), or (if you are dating) she uses you to get the relationship experience without being as vulnerable as she'd be in a real committed monogamous relationship.

>>18401874
I'm an idiot but what does it mean to use someone for the emotional connection? I'm so clueless to this shit

>>18401903
Sounds reasonable. Current girl seems pretty trustworthy. She's very conservative in sex to the point of me not having done it with her yet, but she's always been that way.

How do you make the moves on a girl when youre on a date with her at the movies?

>>18401911
Always taking but not giving. Things like
>pours her problems over you, but when you have issues or need support she's nowhere to be found
>expecting you to always be there for her
>acting like a gf except without the sex or intimacy

>>18401915
Yeah I thought I phrased it more clearly but the sexual behavior is also about patterns. Sometimes the rush and/or guilt of cheating causes people to want to "make up" to their spouse or release some excess sexual energy from the general spike in their libido. Or the opposite happens, and the sexual satisfaction elsewhere combined with being with someone else who is more "new" causes sexual interest in their actual partner to fade.

In either case, these can also be related to hormonal changes, medication, changes in mood/fitness level and so on. Which is another reason to not obsess over singular, isolated details but keep an eye out for the bigger picture.

>>18401908
We have plenty of sex and have been dating for a few months now, have used nicknames like babe and stuff, said I love you you, etc.

>>18401917
Escalate physical behavior step by step. Don't try to put an arm around her out of nowhere - it can work, but if it doesn't you need to be a certain kind of guy to still enjoy the rest of the movie and date.

Instead focus on sitting very closely (so that your arms just barely touch) and joking/whispering stuff into her ear. If she seems comfortable and enjoying it, put your arm down next to her so it touches. If she does not pull away, you can in some minutes either start playing with her fingers, or wait for a good scene to come up (aka kissing, anything sexual really), look at her/say her name, once you hold eye contact slowly lean in. Don't exaggerate it obviously, just do it deliberately enough that you can glimpse her reaction and she can pull away if she wants to.

If you're good at flirting, doing that in relation to the movie can also help to heighten the tension. It basically boils down to setting up "bait" where if she has zero interest, you'll know before you did anything serious. Like if you were to readjust so that your legs or arms touch and she instantly backs away.

Being kinda stupid rn
18 years old, signed up to a dating app just to look at girls in my area really.

Wanna put on a picture so more people will respond but I don't particularly want to show my face in case i get recognised by some friends or something gay like that

I lift weights and stuff but a picture of myself topless seems narcissistic as fuck and overdone.

Women, what should I have as my picture if I don't wanna show my face (only on my profile)

If I'm with a date and we are walking down the street and one or more men (or kids or teens most likely) show up and try to rob us, what am I supposed to do, as the guy?
Does it depend on whether they have a gun or another weapon visible or not?

>>18401917
Just be horny and act according to your instinct.
Few years ago I went to the movie theater with a group of acquaintances, I sat next to a girl who allegedly had a small crush on me (met her on the same day), I drank the bottle of water within my reach, didn't realize she also just drank from it, she gave me a strange look, I put my arm around her. I was horny so later we went back I asked her if she wanted to come to my room, then I fucked her brains out. Also she's from a different uni so when she went back to her school in a different city I didn't ask for her number lmao totally forgot, and she has her pride I guess, that's the end of it.

>>18401964
That makes it more complicated, I figured it was a grey area type situation. There's multiple options but most likely is that she just wants to have her cake and eat it too. The men she cheats with provide her thrills and variety she does not want to go without, but with you she has stability, romance and an emotional connection.

There's other options (having a fetish for cheating exists, if she is severely emotionally damaged she might not feel "safe" in a relationship with someone who could fuck her over unless she makes damn sure to fuck him over first and worse) but they are not remotely as common.

>>18401976
Try to protect her - put her behind her body, reassure her, calm her.
Do everything you'd do if you were alone, other than that. So, mostly, give the money if you feel scared for your life, yeah.

>>18401976
Personally the only thing I would care about is showing loyalty to me. Okay, life isn't a movie, if they all have guns and you see an opportunity to run for your life by all means go for it. But don't leave me stranded if there's no such obvious threat, and don't try to divert their attention to me.

Other than that, do what's reasonable. I care a lot more about smart vs foolish than about brave vs cowardly in actually dangerous situations. Which would usually mean cooperating.

>>18401976
push her into them, that will throw them off balance.
then strip to bare ass and start humping them. I assure you they will run

>>18401976
>tfw the robbers are the girl's friends. The only date OP got is a scam D:

My girlfriend just hit me after a big argument and idk what the fuck to do. I'm so conflicted right now.

>>18402149
Dump her. She clearly doesn't love you or respect you if she hits you.

If you don't care about yourself, just think that you don't want a person who tends to get violent around your children.

>>18402149
Take her to the ground and get a good mount then cum on her face

>>18402149
Leave. It's not about whether she hurt you or whether she could've hurt you. It's about what it says about her self control and her respect for you that she would physically attack you.

>>18402149
Happened to me on New Years Eve. It's a big big mindfuck. She was tipsy but still. She of course cried the next day and said sorry, etc. I still feel fucked up because of it.

>>18401976
Put her behind you

If you think there will be violence tell her to run and call 911 while you keep the attackers occupied.

DO NOT leave her behind
DO NOT let her get hit without hitting the person back

>>18402149
Holy shit, I have no plan if my gf ever hits me. How do you even react in that situation?!

I had this class with a girl I thought was cute, started talking to her, asked her to hang out after school.
She said she couldn't because she had to "babysit her boyfriend" then gave me her number and said we should hang out.

Got a beer with her over the summer. The conversation was great and she laughed at all my jokes and had lots of things in common, but she said she is moving into a new place with her boyfriend.
It didn't really feel like a date either so i figure she doesn't want the D.
Though she did ask me to send her my school schedule for next semester and said yea when I suggested we hang out again during the summer.
Thing is though I sent her a text a day later with a picture of a cool thing I own she said she wanted to see and it's been a week and she never texted me back.

She was cool in the id hang out with her even if she were a dude way.
I have no friends who are girls and would like one, should I still bother?

Also if I am a virgin will I get infatuated?

>>18401974
>i get recognised by some friends or something gay like that
Your friends will call you gay for trying to get laid?

>but a picture of myself topless seems narcissistic as fuck and overdone.
don't take one then dummy just wear a tight shirt.

>>18401974
>Women, what should I have as my picture if I don't wanna show my face (only on my profile)
You won't get anything if you don't who your face

>>18402382
>Your friends will call you gay for trying to get laid?
also your friends on the same fucking dating app as you lol

People, what the fuck should a guy do when his gf punches him? It's hard to wrap your head around it for a guy.

this is a question for anyone that wants to answer me:
what is your opinion on a 19 year old guy dating a 16 year old girl?

>>18402411
a swift roundhouse kick straight to the chesticles.

Guys,

I would like to get more intimate with my boyfriend emotionally. Physically everything is great, we have a lot of fun together, and I feel like he's someone that I can trust with my heart.

The problem is that I'm not the type of girl to prattle on about her thoughts and feelings. I'm on the more quiet and reserved side. How do I start more serious conversations with him so that he can get to know me on a deeper level? Is this even something that I should bother doing? Or do men just prefer to learn about their girlfriends through shared experiences?

>>18402412
Check consent laws in your state.

>>18402411

Dump her and never look back.

What makes a man, a man, according to you ladies?

Why do more and more women want to fuck multiple men while in a relationship?

>>18402444
there are no consequences and media says they are entitled to it.

>>18402444
Lack of emotional control.

Why do women get shit for sleeping around and not men?

>>18402463
Because for a man to get laid he actually has to have some sort of skill or merit.

>>18402470
So what?

>>18402477
Skills or merits are good things.

>>18401796
Number 1: Is a woman.

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>>18402463

Why would a girl flirt with me while she is at work?

I went to my complex's pool to see if anyone wants to hang out. When I got there I saw my two friends with another man. I chatted them up and the guy would stare at me every once in a while.

I started to notice that the guy I didn't know was holding his hands by his swimming trunks alot. I had some suspicions. After some peripheral spying I saw him playing with his dick.

At first, I was shocked. His friends were a foot away from him. I assumed he was on drugs of some sort. When I got back my room I found it to be hot and pleasured myself.

I am a little bit of a exhibitionist what he was doing one of my kinks. I have a boyfriend so pleasuring myself to other men feels wrong.

Would any of you done the same? Saw someone doing your fetish in person and relieving yourself alone, even if in a relationship?

>>18402514
She might think you are goodlooking.
Maybe this a way she bonds.
She wants to practice with flirting.
She could just be bored.

>>18402518
Your a terrible person, and this is almost as bad as cheating on your bf. Your better off breaking up with your bf before you inevitably cuck him

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>>18401867
Pic related.

>>18401974
You sound like stupid horny teen. Put your selfie there and buy condoms. Good luck.

>>18402192
What would your gf do if you punched her? Exactly. Do the same.

>>18402414
You are overthing problems too much. Wanna talk about something with bf? Just talk about it.

>do men prefer
See faq. I would ask you sooner or later about a lot of stuff myself. But that is not a rule.

Just talk to him really.

>>18402444
Open relationships, equality, degeneracy, lack of father figure in their lives (single mom upbringing), jews

>>18402507
Upvoted.

>>18402514
Because she wants the D.

>>18402518
It is cute how loyal you are that you are afraid of fapping to memories and consider it cheating on your bf.

I tell you what guys do. We see some hot ass. Then later in shower we rub one out thinking about her. And we never act on them or tell about it to anybody.

You are within tolerance.

>>18402528
T. Prude.

>>18402523
>>18402534
What's the point of her being a cocktease and me being forced to just take it when i cant ask her number or anything since otherwise i'm "pushing her in a corner with no way out" because she is at work according to articles online and even here.

What do you think about cock climbers?

>>18402563
>pushing her into corner
I dont know what shit literature you are reading boy, but when girl wants your D, you wont get clearer signals than this.

ASK HER ON DATE. Buy condoms.

>>18402528
I think this going overboard. I'm not going to cheat on my boyfriend. This is some guy I may never see again.

>>18402534
I don't know if I would say this is cute. It still feels wrong. Worse than fapping to porn, because it actually happened right there.

>>18402563
Maybe she wants to be a cocktease or maybe she wants to go out? Why not ask her if she is coming at you romantically, if you are interested in her? Take her out on a date. Or tell her to stop flirting with you if it makes you uncomfortable.

>>18402586
>pleasuring myself to other man feels wrong
Does your bf watch porn? Then he does exactly the same you do. If it really bothers you, just talk to him about it.

I am ex pervert currently in recovery, but what you did is absolutely in normies range. You saw something hot and later fapped to the memories of it. We all do that.

Talk to your bf. Maybe you will persuade him to pursure your exhibicionism with you. Go to restaurant and fap each other under table while ordering food. It will be fun.

>>18402607
why where you a perv?

>>18402463
Finding a guy is a buyers market for women while men have to work a lot harder to do it. Men have to impress and work their way into sleeping with a woman while a woman can just flat out say "lets fuck" and it will happen. It's all about working to earn it and since women don't need to work as hard to get it, it doesn't feel earned and therefore not as respected.

I'm not even trying to do any of the red pill bullshit or whatever, it's just kind of how it is.

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>>18402488
I came on here for advice not asshurt whinging from 4chan incels

>>18402518
To me it's kind of gross to do and I'd of found it creepy.

And I'm a guy too. I actually had a pretty attractive woman next to me on a bus masturbating once and as much as it was hot as fuck, I found it a little weird and uncomfortable. I didn't fap to it since it didn't seem like something to fap to for some reason.

>>18402570
Sounds like some kind of outdoor attraction

>>18402607
Good point. We both watch porn so it isn't really any different.

We do do some exhibition stuff. We are LDR right now so I have to wait another 2 months to do it again.

>>18402647
During the moment I definitely felt like this. I thought it was gross and shocking. When I came back home my whole attitude changed.

>>18402627
>why
Like i had choice in the matter.

Combine nerd, horny dumb teenager, lots of hormones, internet access and curiousity and BOOM: pervert is born.

I practically went full circle from the most vanilla to the most vile things most people even on 4chan doesnt know it exists.

Luckily when you cut porn from your life like cancer, in time most of your fetishes and kinks go away the same way they came.

And let me tell you, exhibicionism is nothing. Fapping to people you saw somewhere is nothing.

Stay cool.

>>18402644
You came here for (You)s with that type of question master baiter.

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>>18402664
Yes I did. (You)s that were actually helpful not just rampant sexism and autistic screeching.

>>18402661
My attitude didn't change much when I got home. I still find it weird even today that she was doing that right next to me on a bus.

As for saying it's like porn, it really isn't. This was someone in real life doing lewd shit right in front of you and since it was a friend of friends, you could potentially even meet them again. With porn it's just some video of a person you'll never even be in the same room or even state with but this guy was right there with you in person.

>>18402673
Why dont you tell us tldr signs about how you were cheated on? I want to hear concrete examples please anon.

>>18402675
You do have a point. I may meet him again at some point.
I don't agree with your contrast to this and porn. The porn I watch is basically a video of this man doing what he was doing (or my boyfriend's videos). Instead of him or someone else posting it on internet I saw it in real life.

I may meet him again. I don't have any romantic feelings toward him. Similar to re-watching a porn video. I might see it again, but I don't want to get to know that particular person.

>>18402681
I was pretty fucking dumb so honestly I dont know. All i know is with one I saw a fucking steamy text from a random, another I saw swapping DNA in the hall, and yet another I saw a nude that wasn't directed at me. Those are pretty fucking sure signs.
As soon as I discovered I threw each one onto the curb. I don't put up with that shit I'm no cuck.

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>>18402697
>I don't put up with that shit I'm no cuck.

>>18402694
I wish majority of girls were as honest and loyal as you. It is very clear how caring you are when such a thing makes your brain into overdrive about if this isnt cheating.

Stay safe femanon.

>>18402697
I bet you just dated too young dumb sluts teens. And as you told it, you were dumb. So even if you knew what to look for, you wouldnt notice or ignore it.

At least you werent cuck :-)

>>18402694
it's worth considering how your boyfriend will feel about you seeing a guy that you watched jerk off and that you then rubbed one out too. think about how you'd feel if it was him and he was seeing her again?

Girls: 95% of your hate facial hair (even well groomed), don't you?

>>18402579
>>18402586
Of course i should just say i want to date her, i was looking for excuses again and thanks for talking some sense in me.

>>18402723
I don't know, I'm only one girl. How would I know what every other girl thinks?

>>18402463
You know what I love the most about this? The fact that women are the ones constantly complaining about this "unfair double standard" yet they're the ones who fucking cause it. Guess what women, if you actually wanted to change it you could! The power is in your own hands.

But you don't want to fucking change it. If women started simply choosing not to go after those "slutty" men and shamed them then it would suddenly be even. But you won't, because when you see a hot socially competent guy and know that he's got women fawning over him all the and has fucked tons of them, your reaction is always to become another one of those women! You join in and lust after him too. "He's got all those other women, he MUST be great at dating, or in bed, or both! Oh I've just gotta go try and get a piece of him for myself!".

But you won't. You never will. You never want to actually fix your problems even when you have the means to, you just want to complain and have everyone else either fix the problem for you, or lie to you and tell you there is no problem.

>>18402723
No? I like scruff. Not a full on beard, and I've never seen a mustache I liked, and also not barely any stubble that's like a porcupine. Either clean shaven or some scruff

>To girls
I've been texting this introverted/antisocial girl for about a month now, we went out once about 2 weeks ago, asked her out again today and she said "yes" so will be seeing her again in about a week or so.

She seemed a bit distant over the last week or so but I think its just us getting past the "impress me" stage of the first week or two so we don't need to 'commit' as much to talking, we do talk every day anyway, just not as consistently as before (as in, we used to talk like 12 hours a day, not its 12 hours, but message every hour or so). She seems to want to see me again so I think we're still cool...

Anyway, now that some got some of the background story out of the way, here's my question:

How many more dates before I can ask her to be my gf? Not saying that she will definitely say yes, but I think she's too awkward and introverted to make any moves or to hint towards anything so it leaves me in charge...thing is, I'm introverted and awkward as fuck myself and haven't really done anything like that, I just don't want to ask her too soon or too late. We feel very comfortable with each other so it could only get better I think, I just need to know how do I get onto the 'next level'.

>>18402710
Thank you for your kind words.

>>18402715
I understand. I would be very jealous. I am already insecure about him watching porn. There isn't much I could do in that situation. I can't make him not pleasure himself while on an LDR.

If he happens to be in the same company, I won't be rude. I'm not very close with the other two guys. I don't mind avoiding them to avoid that man - if he comes around often enough. That seems like a proactive hassle to stop hanging out with some decent folks, because of a questionable masturbation session.

Thank you for bringing up the situation in a different light. I will avoid that man in private situations if any comes up.

>>18402728
Good luck!

>>18402736
Well articulated, but keep in mind that not all girls are sluts who will jump the chad's dick if they got the chance. Maybe it is 50%, maybe 5%, but you made shitty generalization.

And now go find source for your claim. How many % girls are cheating sluts. Do you have anything better than self reported survey like this
>>18402534 pic related?

Or divorce stats? 60% mariages are stable.
>do you have single fact to back that up?

>>18402752
I don't have any studies so sorry.

But be real anyone who's not intentionally blinding themselves to the truth can look out and see it for themselves. The "double standard" exists whether you like it or not, and if you won't accept my explanation you'll have to make up your own. Don't see anything else you could possibly explain it with beyond "waaahhh patriarchy just shames women's sexuality over men's", in which case there's no arguing with you begin with.

I have this superpower for being able to stay hard as long as I want while fuccing

but the side effect is that my dick takes DAYS to "recharge" after i cum

anyone experienced this type of thing

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I think I accidentally called the girl im dating fat without me evening knowing

>get text from her this AM
>"im 100% serious, we've been eating out too much and I gained some weight and im pretty sad about it. So tell me no all the time please"

>my response: I am sorry and , I think I got a little too carried away with that and it kinda fucked you over. Don't be upset thought because honestly you still look amazing to me but I understand if you are upset. I hope your day is good at least. Feel better :) its Friday and its nice out and I know youll work hard to lose them.

lol whoops

Are there girls with naturally light assholes? As in light in color? Every girls butthole I've seen is dark (not complaining) so I'm curious

>>18402904
How light is your own asshole?

>>18402907
I dont think I've ever seen my asshole

>>18402910
And funnily enough, neither have we.

>>18402915
>implying you haven't thoroughly examined your pooper using selfie mode on your phone

wait that might just be me

if i ask the guy I like if he would smash a girl, then I say I have an inferiority complex regarding the amount of male attention she gets, and he doesnt say that he would smash me, does that mean he definitely doesnt want to fuck?

>>18402958
stop being such a faggot and be direct with him
im assuming youre a bit of a nutcase, but if you look even halfway decent he will probably fuck you at least once

>>18402958
Fucksake, guys hate mind games. Just fuck him already. If I were him I'd probably just give up on you instead of dealing with this jealousy drama shit.

Femanons, how would you react if you found your boyfriend jacking it to a picture of you?

My boyfriend doesn't really ask me questions about myself. Is this normal guy behavior? Do I tell him to take more of an interest in me, or should I just talk about myself whenever I see him? I would feel self centered if I were to make more of our conversations about me, but his lack of initiative towards learning about me kind of hurts my feelings.

>>18403035
If we're living together, I'd be hurt that he didn't want to fuck me. If we aren't, that's flattering as shit

I have a beer gut. It doesn't show when I'm wearing a shirt, but it shows when I take it off. I'm self-conscious about it and I'm worried what a girl would think when I take my shirt off.

And yes, I am working on losing it. But in the meantime, should I avoid trying to sleep with any girls because of this.

>>18403047
No. a lot of girls won't care. And if you're proportionate then it might be good for cuddling.

>>18402981
i dont really see how im playing mind games...

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For girls:

Met this chick on Tinder a little while back. Hung out three times. Made out and stuff the second time, kissed goodbye as well after walking her home. Third time we hung out and I had my arm around her and stuff but she seemed a little bit colder than last time so I didn't even kiss her. Was kinda weird.

Texted for the next two days, asked her to hang out a few more times but it never happened. Felt sort of like she was making excuses not to hang out.

Last time we spoke was two weeks ago, before I was going to be gone from our city for a two weeks. Back in town now and call me crazy, but I'm tempted to text her again.

Is this a horrible idea? Part of me wants to text her and ask why she wasn't interested and try to get some constructive criticism, because somehow this chick got me really in my feelings and I still feel like I have a huge crush on her.

Would it be super weird if I texted her again?

>>18403220

It's dumb. The trail went cold, and neither of you seem very interested in the other (her especially.) Move on dawg.

>constructive criticism

She's not going to give you a powerpoint presentation on what you did right and what you did wrong. You two didn't click, that's the only reason that there needs to be for anyone to try someone else. Are you worth another chance? Probably. Will she give it to you? Probably not.

Other girls will though. Move on.

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>>18403223
>neither of you seem very interested in the other (her especially.)
>You two didn't click
I was really interested in her to be honest, when we were together it definitely felt like there was something there. The times we hung out weren't awkward at all and we have very similar tastes in music and hobbies and shit. Conversation flowed really easily & really well too.

I just kind of feel like the odds of me finding another chick who ticks all my boxes like that is really rare.

Maybe I'm just being a pussy though, I donno.

>>18402507
I get that sex is easier for women but how does it justify it? Whenever something is easy that means it's ok to shame them for it?

>>18403234

>texted for next tow days, asked to hang out a few times but never happened
>feels like she was making excuses
>it's been over two weeks

And you two haven't even been in conversation during this entire time, at all? That's kinda what I mean by "you two didn't click." Otherwise she'd probably want to talk to you even if you weren't going on a date.

>>18403262

*two

For girls:

If a female is nervous around you and speaks to you differently than other guys, is she interested in you?

Also her pupils expanded last time I spoke to her.

>>18403262
Word, fair enough.

She didn't seem like a big texter though, although that kinda sounds like me trying really hard to justify it.

I think I might've turned her off by coming on too hard or something. I donno I guess part of me is just hoping there's a chance I could bring it back, and i'm really curious as to what made her go from "I'm going to hook up with this dude and kiss him goodnight and hang out with him three days in a row" to making up excuses not to hang out literally over night.

I almost prefer if she just ghosted on me, you know?

>>18403246
Nobody has to like you. If they aren't actually impeding your rights people can think and say whatever they want about you, and judge you and how you act however they see fit. Hurting your feelings isn't a crime. This is something the crybaby generation desperately needs to learn.

And if you want to complain about slut-shaming take it up with other women. They're the ones who are actually the most responsible.

>>18403300

Judging by how things are going, the crybaby generation'll make it a law to not hurt someone's feelings lest they get triggered and murder everyone within range - or try, when in reality they just throw a tantrum and flail their giant fat roll arms at you for about 30 seconds before tiring out and needing a McShake.

>>18403325
I wasn't the one who was complaining in the first place, or the one who used words like "right" and "justified" as if anyone judging my actions was a crime or some great moral outrage.

You are blatantly the triggered crybaby here. You asked a question and multiple people answered. Then when you didn't like the answer you demanded more, and once again got answers, which you once again didn't like. And now you're childishly insulting people and screaming "no nu" at them.

>>18403364

Neither was I, I'm not the guy who said anything about sex being easier for women. I just commented on the current crybaby generation.

Thanks for yelling at no one in particular related to the case, anon!

>>18403378
What gender were you implying the crybaby generation to be in your post.

>>18403386

Every person who was born within the last 20 years. Man, woman, child, apache helicopter, transgender, xie/xir/other random pronouns.

>generation
>as in everyone who was born during that time period

>>18403399
The "murder everyone within range" line made me assume you were a woman who was trying to call me a school shooter because I hurt her feelings by explaining slut shaming.

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>>18403407

21 year old femanon and I've had sex with 5 people. Is that a lot?

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You're all acting like morons toke a bit and shut up

>>18403467

It means you went through at least a few boyfriends over the last couple of years. I wouldn't personally call it a lot, most of the guys here think you're a slut if you sleep with anyone else at all, so...

Kind of in the middle? I'd say you're okay.

>>18403467
Not really. Although it would make a difference if it were in a really tight timeframe. 5 at 21? Kinda tame actually.

>>18403473

I'm getting ready to, give me a moment.

>>18403475
>>18403476
It's been between age 14-21. 4 out of 5 have been relationships that have been 1-3 years. Just one outside of a relationship.
Does that make a difference?

>>18403500
Nope. Sounds fine to me. I'd only raise an eyebrow if it was in the span of like a week otherwise I don't see a problem here.

>Start getting to watch some porn
>Give Chaturbate a shot, to see if there's something interesting
>Somehow I wonder what camgirls have in their head
>Google
>Find the testimonial of a girl who used to come to 4chan
>Girl mentions that she ended up being fed up of doing the same thing every single time and how guys would desperately jump at her showing dick pictures, and how she would get annoyed she wasn't making enough; in the end, she quit and found a boyfriend
>My empathy immediately fires up and get a massive turn off; cannot even look at porn now
What the fuck is wrong with me?

Girls do you like guys checking you out, do you feel hot and sexy?

>>18403623
You came to the realisation that women are people too.

>>18403631
>came to the realisation
Not like I didn't know anyways, and it's not like it was the first time I ask myself that. I just make an effort to ignore it and go full "whatever she's doing it willingly and I have sexual needs". In fact at one time in a thread I knew of a girl who, despite showing pics of herself in another board, really wanted a boyfriend she would commit to. I had to struggle hard to not act on my fatherly instincts, I'd come off as creepy.

Disclaimer: I don't have children.

What do women think of engineers?

@anyone in here
so I was talking about some plans to go on a short hike and take pictures, and then she started being interested saying I should take pictures of her on the trip and such
then I suggest a rough time span when we could go like
>"I was thinking end of june/july"
>"That could work"
then I suggest a place-holder day just to have something planned and she's like
>"Hmm let's see"

so ok I get that she's flaking out, w/e, but what would be a good way to react to this if I want to at least try again/not make it awkward?

also, if grill, could you explain what's actually going on pls

>>18403690
>the ones that are genuinely interested in engineering
Tend to be ugly and lack social skills

>the ones who are just doing it for the STEM meme
Great at making life choices that'll leave them miserable.

Both groups tend to have inflated self-importance.

>>18403723
That's a tough one bc it genuinely is harder to make plans far in advance.
What happens when you ask her if she wants to hang next week and just do something low key?

>>18403690
Any stable career is appealing to women aged 25+. It's not sexy though, so probs not appealing to younger gals.

>>18403623
I kinda identify with this.
I'm a grill but I find I'm really reaching a breaking point vis a vis sexual cognitive dissonance.
I get turned on by all the usual stuff women are into, rape and non con and shit.
But as soon as I come I just feel a wave of hatred for the kinds of men I'm masturbating over (obviously). Don't feel shame or anything, just like... it's getting harder and harder to get in the mood when my cerebral thoughts are 'ew'.

>>18403467
I'm 22 and I've had sex with eleven :/

>>18403467
If you go to university it's not.
Though I doubt anyone here does lol

>>18403467
If your bf asks, say you had 2 bf unless he can prove otherwise. Keep babbling abour your exes to minimum.

Deny any one night stands.

>>18403630
Only if you are attractive.

>>18403828
>Though I doubt anyone here does lol
University is the ultimate refuge of the deadbeat. It's exactly where 4channers are.

>>18403630
I would say yes, it makes us feel empowered and in control. we can manipulate you into doing things because you find us physically attractive

>>18403467
It's not a lot a lot, but it's enough to make me think a little bit when I hear about it. You're reaching my upper limit, but you're not there yet.

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>>18403859

>>18403858
Nah. According to many threads the highest education here is mostly Community College or high school, hence the hate for proper university and the lack of getting laid.

>>18402723
I like it if it suits you. I've never been into long hair AND beard combo but I can't speak for all girls.

>>18403868
how about long hair and balding?

>>18403871
Is that a joke?

>>18403865
Huh. Well I'd be interested to see a statistical analysis of 4chan users.
I always picture them being middle class, middling intelligence but low ambition, a bit autistic and spotty.
I suppose I see it through my britfag lens, wherein university attendance rates are pretty high and uni's not that challenging. I feel that people doing vocational stuff have better things to do than be on 4chan. Idk.

>>18402723
Nah. Different faces suit different looks.
But hipster facial hair, or facial hair when you can't grow it fully are both cringeworthy.

>>18403874
nuh uh

>>18403875
According to
http://www.4chan.org/advertise
most 4chan users attended or are currently enrolled in college.

>>18403871
What kind of balding? Thinning or receding

>>18403882
both?

>>18403875
The demographics here vary greatly. Obviously the shittier boards are where the more stereotypical users are but most blue boards like /adv/ /biz/ and /mu/ are usually fairly educated and intelligent. But I'm pretty sure every board appears somewhere on the autism spectrum, there's no escape from that on any board.

>>18403811
last time I asked that it was more or less the same story and then it kinda drifted off; but she again showed interest and then when it came down to actually setting something like a day/time she flaked, so I don't get why she shows interest in the first place (like literally saying smth would be cool/fun to do)

saw her again recently and then started talking about photography and such

I guess I'll let it be and ask her again a week in advance or smth

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>>18403881
Cool. The more you know.

Girls: how would you feel about being married to man with another wife? Like a sister wife situ.

>>18403896
How the fuck do you think?

>>18403875
In a proper university students are typically busy with coursework and clubs/social activities, there are literally daily emails inviting you to social events, concerts, seminars, sometimes fashion sales (you just need the student id to attend). Even if you try to dodge most of them, some are just too attractive to skip (like literally getting free stuffs and make friends). People can just hang out at the lounge of any faculty building, read book, play chess, discuss math, almost anything beside jerking off. Most facilities are free for booking (gyms, pools, tennis courts etc). It's hard not to meet new people and befriend fellow students or join clubs, some clubs come with certain privilege and connection (most questions along the line of how to meet new people girls guys etc. means it's not from an actual uni student). It's astronomically rare for one such student to spend time here i.e. non-hobby boards. So I'm not talking about boards like sci, g, cgl, tg,... But who knows, maybe dropouts count as "attended" uni, and CC certainly counts as college.

what do girls think about virgins?

>>18403923
Damn boy, what uni did you go to?! Sounds like you had a good time.

I went to Edinburgh, which is ostensibly world ranked no. 19, and I found uni was mostly cotching and getting high/drunk desu.

Only had three contact hours a week, I volunteered, did political stuff, was in a couple of societies, was in a writing group all that shit. But I still had an abundance of time for shitposting on 4chan tbqh.

I imagine there's probably quite a range of experiences ofc.

>>18403930
If you drink their blood you can remain forever young.

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Here's a question for you girls.
I apologize in advance for the complexity

My best friend (female) and I always talk about love and what not. We've come to the conclusion a few years ago that I've never truly been in love with a person. Regardless of the fact that I almost proposed to my ex.

Anyway, we always talk about the subject when we discuss Game of Thrones' Tyrion X Shae relationship (we're rewatching it).

She always says Shae loves him and she cared for him. I say no, she just used him and Tyrion only loved her.

We go back and forth about it, and my argument has always been the whole cliche, if you truly love someone, you do whatever you can for them. To make then happy or smile or whatever.

Their life, happiness and well being comes first. Before your own. And if they love you, they come back to you.

(Like when Tyrion tried to send her away so she can be safe and happy. Because he loved her)

Where she feels that stupid and that it's impossible to be happy if you let them go. If you love someone, you fight for them, no matter what.

To which I agree to an extent. But I don't know what to call it, but whenever I'm in touchy situation like that, my chest feels warm and I always do what's best for them. Regardless if it hurts me.

Idk, call it stupid pride or beta loyalty.

>tldr
Do women put the needs of themselves first instead of their partner in regards to happiness, stability and general complex situations?

>Sorry it's really hard to explain this question. She had to go to bed and likes to leave me hanging cause she knows it kills me to not be able to support my argument.

Thanks /adv/

>>18403952
yes.

On a sunny summer day, two attractive guys introduced themselves to you, after getting to know them and became friends, 1 month later, on a (friend) date, they say they want to DP you. (serious, not a joke)
Yes or no? would you consider it and why

>>18403883
No go :/

>>18403964
what kind of balding is good for you?

>>18403963
Great porno script m80, 10/10 originality.

>>18403981
that a yes?

girls (or guys): what are some indications on tinder that a girl is just after something casual/one night stand stuff? most seem to have vague allusions to it but i can never be sure

also how the fuck do i get the conversation going that way without being a total sleaze?

>>18403963
Well obviously they run it on every girl who agrees to hang out with them

>>18403963
Fuck no.

>>18403886
>>18403811
>>18403723
bumping for attention

Question for girls:
Would you send revealing non nude pics to someone whom you are not interested in sexually?

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>>18403963
...I am one thirsty girl that just can't get any so take what I say with a grain of salt.

>consider my own values; what if they became my friend solely to eventually DP me in one month?
>think about whether or not they're actually my genuine friend and how much I value the friendship
>realize that the friendship is going to be too awkward now regardless so it's doomed anyway
>go back to step one and ask myself how much I value the experience and pleasure, is there any way it might go wrong? Will I feel guilty about it?

Ultimately I don't know what I'd do. Realistically, I'd probably say no while hating myself for giving it up.

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Guys, what are your favourite ways that a woman has shown that she likes you?

>>18404076
Asking me out. Seriously. Don't just wait for the world to come to you, be proactive.

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>>18404056
>>18404060
aren't you at least curious how it feels?
though I understand it requires a lot of preparation since they aren't gonna fit in there, but assuming they are patient and gentle (in the beginning). But once it's in and wet, it's balls deep and hard pounding

Also, throw in a nondisclosure agreement :))

>>18404073
well depends on whether you had anal sex before, and did you enjoy it. Girls who hate anal, hate DP

Friendship isn't gonna be awkward for them, they will still like you, even more than before, the special girl who said yes.

Also whether you choose to date either of them or both is optional.

>>18404084
It's not about the act itself, it's about the guys. I'm not some toy and since you're just two guys off the street it's obvious it's all you want, no matter how long we've been talking. I'd tell you both to fuck off.

>>18403963
>>18404084
>Friendship isn't gonna be awkward for them, they will still like you, even more than before, the special girl who said yes.
>Also whether you choose to date either of them or both is optional.

i was already going to say no but now its no x4. what a disgusting thought.

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>>18403963
>>18404084
are you being serious or are you really this stupid

>>18404051
>hello antoannette
>how are you?
>what are you looking for on tinder?
>have you found it yet?
>insert random meme and lame joke based on her profile
>would you want to have dinner with me? I will pay for it if you smile.
>ok, what is your phone number?
>because i want to send you <emoji> each night and you need option to tell me if you changed mind
>see you antoannete.

Easy. Buy condoms.

>>18404069
Stop behaving like horny teenager and ask her on date.

>>18404076
She smiles at me, kisses me, grabs me by my dick and rapes me on spot. Asks me if i am single.

>>18404097
clearly serious and not stupid enough to mess up a simple logical connective :))

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>>18404099
You always post advice to many and for that I like you, but at the same time it's always sarcastic and not actually helpful.

>>18404106
>sarcastic
If they give me (You)s and ask for details, i will provide them. Too bad like 50% questions here are from trolls not looking for advice and rest hardly ever bothers to respond.

And being straight to the point is not sarcastic. Ask stupid short question and you wont recieve anything but short (stupid?) answer.

>>18404076
Telling me she likes me and/or asks me out. Even if I don't like you back I respect your forwardness and will still find it flattering.

>friends with girl for a long time
>100% nice and supportive of her all the time
>she said that im important to her
>tell her i have feelings and want to be closer to her
>doesnt even answer back and completely and utterly ignores me after that, only paying me courtsey in like social settings with our friends around

what is the rationale for this? what is the girlthink behind doing this? why not just tell me she doesnt like me that way instead of not talking to me? girls in here, why would you do this? i dont even want to do anything about it. im moving on emotionally. i just want to understand the '''''logic''''''' behind it

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>>18403931
Princeton.
Yes, I did. After this summer I'm thinking of doing an exchange semester at Cambridge for muh imperial flavour

>finally meet TW Korner
>finally study in 500+ years old buildings
>maybe visit Hardy's old office
>tripos part III + Euro trip

The glass looks really nice from this side.

Signing out now.

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>Kind of a man slut
>Pickup and bang random woman a lot
>And then just vanish and never talk to them again
>Sister's best friend starts talking to me
>She adds me on Facebook and talks a lot
>Asks if I want to hangout this weekend
>I say sure and we plan to meet
>Sister calls me and is pissed
>Tells me not to fuck with her best friend
>And that she will never forgive me if I hurt her
>Meet up with her friend anyways
>We go out for drinks and just hangout
>We go back to my place and watch TV
>End up fucking on the couch and falling asleep
>Morning comes and I wake up to her playing with my hair
>Asks me when our second date will be
>Ehhh...
>I ask her if she could get my mail while I change clothes
>Lock her out of the house and jump in the shower
>She leaves after an hour or so
>Sister came over to my place and pounded on the door
>She was screaming so loudly the neighbor's came out
>Meanwhile I'm eating eggs and watching TV


Alright, hear me out, I KNOW I fucked up, but I honestly can't help myself, I admit I do a lot of asshole things, I lie to women, I fuck and dump them, I have very little respect for them, how do I change this and how do I fix things with my sister?

>>18404236
Shoulda told the friend first what you would do to her before you fucked. Also shoulda known shit would happen like that as it did. Really should tell her before yall did it what your game plan was.

Yup.

>>18403821
>I get turned on by all the usual stuff women are into, rape and non con and shit.
Hold on, I know girls like this to an extent but... "usual"? What the fuck

>But as soon as I come I just feel a wave of hatred for the kinds of men I'm masturbating over (obviously).
Why? Why hatred? What are your thoughts, why "ew"?

Sorry I'm making too many questions.

My case though isn't hatred or anything. I just get empathetic and caring with ease. If I see, say, a girl getting responses from desperate guys I don't even try to talk to her, because I don't want to bother her more than what she's already having.

Girls

Would you think a guy is weird if he doesn't do the hook up culture? I don't think sex should happen outside of a relationship.

>>18404308
Yes, that's pretty weird and questionable. Next question.

>>18404312

Oh..

>>18404314
They're being sarcastic dude.

>>18404308
im a guy so i wouldnt know for sure but there are girls out there not into hookup culture

>>18404080
>>18404099
>>18404124
Are most guys really into being asked out? I thought that if a guy flirts but doesn't ask me out either he flirts with everyone regardless of interest or he doesn't want to ask me out. I don't want to ask out a guy because I want the man to take the lead in the relationship desu.

>>18404236
ur a dick keep it in ur pants bro

>>18404320

It just seems like most are

>>18404321
>Are most guys really into being asked out?
Not all of them, but some of us definitely do.

>I thought that if a guy flirts but doesn't ask me out either he flirts with everyone regardless of interest or he doesn't want to ask me out.
Not necessarily true.

>I don't want to ask out a guy because I want the man to take the lead in the relationship desu.
That's sexist, why should we always lead?

>>18404321
Not really, if a girl asks me out I'd slap her and beat her pussy up.

>>18404321
>into being asked out
We dont know because that never happens. But i know two girls who basically obtained their husbands by literally hunting them down.
>they are still happy after 20 years of marriage

Feminazis claims equality. Some girls have better jobs and education already, why wouldnt you hunt down your own boy? As simple as we are, it should be trivial to seduce us.

I'm a really shy and introverted guy, but I want to meet new people to get my ex off my mind. I believe I'm pretty attractive and I dress well, so I don't think I come off as a weirdo.

I'm not in school anymore and I can't meet anyone at work. I've tried online and it didn't work (my city is too small for that to work).

I'd feel so out of place going to a social event by myself and would be really depressed if I ended up not talking to anyone.
Does anyone have any suggestions?

>>18404321
>Are most guys really into being asked out?
I love it. Knowing that she wants me so bad she went against a social norm is an awesome feeling.

>>18404308
Nope. Would just make me feel that you would be more loyal and trustworthy.

Should you ever tell a girl that she's pretty? Under what circumstances?

>>18404436
5 seconds before you ask her on date.

25 and starting to bald. How do I make this look as attractive as possible?

To the girls. Have a friend that I said I wasn't interested in and have told her I see her like a sister yet she is persistent. Don't want to lose her as a friend but I don't see what other ways I can convince her I don't see her like that. Any advice on friendzoning her?

I texted something flirty too my female coworker, she didn't respond, now I have to face her on Monda and I feel shame, which will make me act weird but I don't want things to get weird between us...what do ? Or feel?

>>18404491
Wear a hat, hair style to cover it up, shave it off, hair implants

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>>18403045
Bumping this question

>>18403045
>>18404552
have you considered the option that he doesn't really give a crap?

at least I only ask stuff when I'm curious/interested; or maybe he's just boring that way

either way I'd advise just asking him _nicely_ and talking about it without accusing him; just matter-of-fact like

>>18403045

Imo he either doesn't know how to interact with you cause of lack of experience, or the opposite ,he is way too experienced and knows that he can replace you fast and plays hard to get so you stay interested,

Of course there is always the hurtful one, he doesn't care, in which case you should dump him, but if you feel you are the one who loves more in the relationship then I'm inclined toward the experienced option

>>18404508
About this one , anyone?

>>18403045
Perhaps he's nervous or too shy to pry? Perhaps you could offer information in a casual way through conversation. Ask him if there's anything about you that he's wondered about. Play a game to learn about each other. It's not being self centred to direct a conversation, I think most guys would appreciate it.
But if none of it works, just let him know. Start a dialogue. Perhaps it's just he doesn't care, or he doesn't realize it's one of your needs.

>>18402788
whoops indeed

>>18403280
Sounds like you need to relax

>>18404600

What did you say

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>>18404236
What the fuck why did you just lock her out you fucking manchild are you really that afraid of confrontation 10/10 did kek

>>18404436
Yes. Do it when they least expect it.

>>18404585
>>18404587
>>18404610

Thanks you guys. I don't think it's a matter of him not caring. I guess he's shy/inexperienced since I'm only his second girlfriend.

>>18402904
Mine isn't I'm also brown so that might make a difference.

I'm curious now.

Girls, I had cancer, does that make me more unattractive? No, it didn't leave any scars besides on my neck, but does it worry you so much that you might not date me?

>>18404702
No, not at all.

Girls,
would you date a guy with HIV? he truly loves you for your intelligence and personality and will never cheat on you.

>>18404236
>how do I change this and how do I fix things with my sister?
There is no simple way to fix this you nonce.

Your sister tells you not to fuck her up and then you lock her out of the house because you can't deal with conflict, then yet again you avoid conflict by hiding in your room while your sister is banging on your door.

This reads like a comedy sketch, its too retarded to believe.

is it annoying to talk to a girl every day?

I feel like we're stuck in this 'forced reply mode', where one of us sends a message and the other kind of feels like they have to reply otherwise they'll piss of the other person...

We're both introverted and never done anything like that so its all new to us and I don't want to upset her or annoy her.

We've been talking for about a month now, been on one date which went perfectly (surprisingly since it was the first time for both of us) and we're going on another one next week.

Please, help me out here, this is the one thing I don't want to fuck up, she genuinely seems to like me and I really like her too but it feels like I'm walking on thin ice here...

None of you can convince me that girls aren't princesses. :(
Why do you fail me?

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How do I get a great gf like this?

>>18404702
Yes, even if you recovered from cancer, it shows that you were weak at one point which dries up my pussy.

>>18404702
what type of cancer? I am concerned that I may have brain cancer. Also no, its not unattractive at all

>>18404831
>I am concerned that I may have brain cancer
wtf man
how? I mean what's the symptom?

>>18404702
If anything it makes the girls want you more cause sympathy.

>>18404831
>>18404834
im also curious as to how you reached that conclusion

>>18403963
maybe?

>>18404834
It's not surprising really...

>>18404834
>>18404845
constant debilitating headaches, fatigue and memory loss, and I have great difficulty understanding speech most of the time

>>18404865
RIP

This girl I'm seeing asked me why I follow so many hot girls on Instagram.

Is this something I wasn't supposed to do either? Like looking at girls at the street for more than a second or watching porn?

Guys

What do I do about my boyfriend who thinks I'm being passive agressive when I tell him to ''go out and have fun''

He's at a party with friends and I replied to him like above. How can he assume I mean the total opposite of what I'm saying to him?

>>18404888
No, you're not actually supposed to be a cuck.

>married with pregnant
>kissed Girl from work a couple times
>Catching feels and pretty sure she has them too.
Thing is I don't want to string her along as I'll never leave my wife while she's pregnant. My question is how do I tell this girl at work nothing can happen and that it can't go any further.

>>18404896
huh?

>>18404896
Tell him you're not being passive aggressive?
Or just say 'ouch'.

>>18404909
Do you really need advice? Just say what you just told us.

>>18404916
does anyone here need advice ever

>>18404754
Maybe just don't reply too quickly/ follow suit in her reply times?
Like if you're each sending one message a day, that doesn't seem annoying. If it's every hour or so, maybe too much.

>>18404710
Wow I was literally just thinking about this.
I don't know to be honest. Is that awful? I'm sorry.
From what I hear, once you're positive your dating pool is generally other positive people.

Yeah that's what I told him. That he misunderstood and that I want him to enjoy his evening. But he comes back with ''I can tell when a woman is being passive agressive''. I'm his first girlfriend by the way...

>>18404702
You can definitely play it to your advantage, act like you've been on the brink of death and stared hades in the face etc.

>>18404927
whoops meant for
>>18404912

>>18403047
Women have more subcutaneous abdominal fat than men usually, so it probs seems normal.

>>18404918
touché

>>18404931
Well in Cosmo it says the best way to diffuse an argument is to say 'ouch. that hurt.' Idk though I can't imagine being in a relationship wherein I wasn't being deliberately passive aggressive constantly so your problem seems pretty out there.
I wonder why I'm single...

>>18404927
Tell him you weren't since there's no need for you to be passive aggressive and then directly insult him.

>>18404265
Oh, I guess our problems are kinda different then.
But yeah, rape is the most common female fantasy. This is backed up by a plethora of data. Obviously it doesn't mean they/we really want it.

>Why? Why hatred? What are your thoughts, why "ew"?
Well on a cognitive level, men treating women badly is 'ew'. But in the id, on a purely sensory level, it gets me going. It's just hard to keep this parts of me in harmony.

>>18404941
>>18404948
Think I'll let him cool down. He's always very blunt and he can come off as cold when he doesn't mean too.

Why aren't girls qt anymore :(

How do I approach the wife about pegging without her thinking I'm a bufty.

>>18404987
Because you're a cunt?

>>18404920
I try not to look desperate so I take my time replying or even reading the messages.

We talk from like 6pm to midnight, messaging every 30 mins to an hour, I think its mostly because we sit at home doing nothing so we talk because we've no other distractions...

>every hour or so, maybe too much.
See I can never tell, she seems to enjoy our conversations and asks questions, I think if she wasn't interested she wouldn't ask me anything and just vaguely reply to me

>>18404997
How did you land on that conclusion?

>>18404927
He sounds like a dick thqh. I mean, there's two possibilities

>you actually want him to hang out with you instead of talking to other people
being called "passive aggressive" is not the correct response as it is insulting invalidates your feelings
>you actually want him to talk to other people instead of hanging out with you
being called "passive aggressive" is frustrating and demeaning

That said, girls who do say "no, go hang out with the boys..." while secretly hoping you dont do that are incredibly frustrating. Not saying you do that, but its true.

>>18404999
I think you're overthinking it m80. It sounds like you're both really into each other.

Is it normal for a guy to NOT have morning wood? I've had two LTRs and they both consistenly had boners when they woke up.
Started seeing a new guy recently and it seems he never does.

>>18405007
I think I am, I always overthink everything... I think we might be, we've been at it for a month now so I suppose...

>>18405015
I've beard that it has to do with testosterone levels. I'm not trying to meme you, but your new boyfriend might literally have low-T. It could be nothing, and no morning wood is hardly the end of the world, but I'd suggest getting a checkup just to be sure. It can only help.

How come I only attract white women?

I'm not interested in them, but they seem to be the only ones that come my way and Im not flirty with them at all. Im into asian and indian girls, but sometimes I can get an asian girl, but I dont see too many.

>>18405112
>How come I only attract white women
>ask in thirst central - the thread - with the hope of it reaching some white grill

yeeaah
arent you that guy who complains no white girls look at him etc. some threads ago

If I asked a friend out and she rejected me is it okay if I have no interest at all in still being her friend and if I want to stop seeing her?

>>18405127
no i havent been on 4chan in months, who can't get white girls? lol they are by far the easiest race of women to fuck in America.

I've a receding hair line + thin hair so it always looks flat. Turn off or not?

I'm not the best looking guy but apparently have a pleasant 'personality' but I'm awkward as fuck so don't believe people, I make everyone laugh though, but the hair thing is making me uncertain and think it might bother the girl I'm seeing in the long run...

>>18405132
You're completely in the right to just cut contact, liking someone and being friends with them is just painful.

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>>18405134

>>18405112
because you're white?

>>18405162
>inb4 anon is from >>>r/AsianMasculinity

His posts pretty much fit their mobius operandi
I really miss that AMWF poster

>>18404927
See I could totally get how he could interpret your text that way because there's a ton of body language you're missing out on. It's a pretty classic response for when a woman is actually feeling that way.

But when it reaches the point where you're insisting that you want him to have fun and he insists that you're being passive aggressive and are mad at him all you can really do is let him be an idiot until he gets over it.

Why are women allowed to put their feet over the seat when they sit on public transport or on a public bench but men aren't?

>>18401778
looking to beef up my tinder description. Here's what I got. Feedback would be appreciated
"Recent grad. Love swimming, movies, drinking, and the beach. Swipe right if you like lame movie references and to find out if I am a secret millionaire"

>>18405242
who is the governing authority?

>>18405286
Women?

>>18405162
I assumed they preferred darker skin, opposed to my pale skin. That's why im a little confused here.

>>18405351
Are you sure you're not Asian?

>>18405356
Im 100% white, my family had our DNA tested. My ancestors were Lords of England and came to America in the late 1600's.

I'm into pegging. How do I bring this up with my girlfriend?

This place has scared the shit out of me.

>>18405407
It's a gamble.

>>18405407
You don't. Some girls might like it and think nothing of it, but most girls will assume that you have latent homosexual urges, or that you are weak and effeminate. Like someone said in one of the pegging threads, your girl will change her perception and will, maybe even unconsciously, see you as a lesser, less manly man.

>>18405244
Bit too generic vis a vis interests? Add something a bit more esoteric.

>>18405407
Really good advice >>18405462

>>18404508
Poker face. Pretend that nothing happened.

>>18404702
You dont even have to tell her.

>>18404710
Undatable.

>>18404754
Text less and date and sex more. Easy.
You as introvert should know that you dont need constant attention in order to work properly.

Keep going on dates with her. Simple as that.

>>18404865
Go to doctor and request scan of head.

>>18404888
Tell her jokingly that you are trying to find gf this way and if she wants, you will delete them all if she becomes your gf.

Easy.
>porn
>>>/gif/ and https://yourbrainonporn.com/

>>18404896
>>18404927
Just leave him be. And next time you see him rape him as an excuse for being passive aggresive. He will love it. Angry and apologizing sex are the best ones.

>>18404909
Simply dont ever flirt or kiss her again.

>>18404987
They still are. You just suck at finding them.

>>18404995
>>18405407
Tell her.
>this bate is getting stale

>>18405015
Under 30? No. That means his diet or condition are shit. Force him adopt sport and unfatten him.

Morning woods are sign of top health and virility for boys. This is his first step to become limp.

>>18405112
Because you look like bitch boy.

>>18405132
Within tolerance.

>>18405139
Being insecure guy is huge turn off for girls. Drop that mindset or shave your head. Sooner or later you will be bald anyway.

>>18405242
Never heard such a thing to be acceptable from any gender. Source?

Girls.
So there is a "I wan't to go out with you" flirt and "Hello how are you" flirt. Where is the line?

>>18405491
>Never heard such a thing to be acceptable from any gender. Source?
Not him, but why are women allowed to occupy nearby seats with their fucking bags and shopping bags. Literally saw it on the sub today. I gave up my seat and shit to another lady and she continued having her shit on two (2) seats when everything else was occupied.

>>18405501
If you were a man of principle, you would tell the bitch to make space so others can sit down.

But you were probably another weak pussy whipped boy afraid of conflict.

Next time put some manners into bitch.

>>18405496
You have to be 18+ to be here.

>>18405505
I'm really shy, that's true.

>>18405515
You sound like gf material.

>>18405520
Back off, he is mine.

>>18405515
Dont worry, sooner or later you will grow up and learn how to stand your ground.

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>>18405515
You sounds like the cuck that I shit on at work and that no one respects.

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I met this girl online and we have chatted occasionally since Easter to around a few weeks back. We met once and went for a walk and she asked questions about lifestyle things like smoking and so on. She also complimented how good looking my pants were. The thing is that I felt really nervous that time and I believe I didn't show her that much of interest. After a walk I offered her to come to my place in case she was thirsty, that she was. I was somewhat quiet there if I compare it to what I'm normally. She tries to strike an conversation with me but I just felt a bit awkward because of my nervousness so the conversation falls a bit short.

After she had left and a few days after, I asked for her number because I'm stupid and forgot.

We have been kind of chatting since then (a few weeks) using whatsapp. I'm usually the one that starts the conversation and she's really not that great at keeping up the conversation (or she's not interested?) with somewhat short answers with little follow up.

I have asked her to meet again but she's pretty busy. One evening I asked her if she was interested in meeting again the next day and she said yes.

The next day we didn't end up meeting since she had went to a picnic with her family with short notice. Later I told her that I would appreciate if she told me that the meeting was cancelled since she never really informed me that the picnic would take the whole day.

The next day she asks if I have an instagram.

She doesn't seem to be that bothered about me contacting her daily, because I asked her and she didn't say it bothered. (Was it stupid to ask this?)

Oh right, she lives around 300km from where I do. She only visits nearby whenever she's visiting her parents.

I would like to tell her about my crush on her. Do you think it would be appropiate to do it thru text since we have been using it most of time, or should I just keep my feelings until we meet again?

>>18405491
>>18405112
Because you look like bitch boy.

how do i not look like one?

>>18405548
Post pic and we will tell you.

>>18405511
Ok, I'll be more specific.
Recently I started working in an office where I have to interact with women. When I speak to them I try my best to not give out any interest nor affection. I just put on my "professional" facade. However, since I am cold towards them, they logically start to be cold towards me and it creates this strange heavy atmosphere. This makes me kind of sad because I don't dislike them or anything.

So I guess that since flirting is what makes woman feel better, I would start with that without creating some misunderstandings.

>>18405581
Did you know that you can talk to girls about stuff without actualy dating them?

Make them talk about themselves. Ask them what they do, family, friends, hobbies, fashion, gossip, whatever.

And dont fear of them intercepting your talking as flirting. Girls are unable to assert dominance and ask you on date themselves. Even if they will want to, all they will do is getting smiley and touchy with you.

Ignore it and keep talking to them. Mention you have gf so they get the picture. Easy.

>>18405599
>Did you know that you can talk to girls about stuff without actualy dating them?
This isn't possible.

>>18405536
just give up

>>18405581
If you think being 'professional' involves giving people the cold shoulder, you're not going to make it far in any career

>>18405621
Why?

>>18405619
Even if the girls will think you are flirting/dating them, they cant escallate it anyway.

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>>18405652

>>18405655
>posting photos saved as png to waste bandwidth and space
If he keeps the pants on, the girl cant do a thing to him.

We dont call them submissive bitches for nothing.

>>18405657
>We dont call them submissive bitches for nothing.
What the fuck are you talking about?

Get out of here.

How much do you care about your bf/gf? How often do you think about them during the day? Is s/he the most important person in the world to you?

I feel like I will never have a relationship where we are both mutually the most important person to each other and I don't think I want one that isn't like that.

>>18405667
Once or twice per week is enough. I love my gf but I love my work more.

>>18403727
while all of these might be true (depends on factors including where you live, big city or bum fuck nowhere) I really doubt they could be uglier than the average thirsty anon typically found here and definitely more educated, also without a doubt they are more sociable.

I have no love for engineers but the prejudice against STEM education here is just silly. It likely comes from inferiority complex.

Girls, I have a penis that when erect ranges from 4 to 4.5 inches in length. I have never gotten around to measuring my girth but I'm its kinda skinny. I have no problems with performing cunnalingus. I just want to know if I perform vaginal or anal on a woman will I atleast be able to make her feel ANY sort of pleasure or satisfaction. All I care about is her needs in the bedroom. Serious answers only please.

>>18405667
Multiple times a day, a lot of silly things throughout my day made me think of her.
When she left me I realized I might have been too dependent.

>>18405709
>It likely comes from inferiority complex.
Lmao you keep telling yourself that

>>18404321
If I'm into the girl, it would take a huge load off my shoulders if she asks me out.

>>18404342
Go to social events. Then when you're there, make it your goal to talk to at least one person. ("Hi, I'm ___", "Have you been here before?", "What did you think of ___?", etc.) Doesn't even have to be dating events - any type of social event can help you practice your social skills.

>>18405931
>engineers
vs
>4chan thirsty NEET

More like the real world tells me that :))
It's funny you can't address any other point I said, because it's true.