Guilt Trip

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Guilt Trip 2017-06-09 05:05:41 Post No. 18401726
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Guilt Trip OP 2017-06-09 05:05:41 Post No. 18401726 [Report]

Ok, guys, there's a woman in my life, and long story short, she spent a year or more being a meth-head and opioid addict. She says she got clean all on her own and has been clean for years.

Well, I love her and we've been seeing each other, but lately she's been asking me for money. Not much, but it's been accelerating. Now she tells me her old drug dealer showed up to her house demanding a bunch of money and she is asking me for the money. I tried talking to her about it, but if the conversation doesn't involve me giving her money, she gets upset, angry, and defensive.

At this point, is there any chance she is actually clean? I mean seriously? Is it me or is this pretty much 100% an indication that not only is she not clean, but she's still buying and using just in secret?

What the fuck can I do other than give her money to keep her from getting her arms broken or something?

Anonymous 2017-06-09 05:08:07 Post No.18401731
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Anonymous 2017-06-09 05:08:07 Post No.18401731 [Report]

>>18401726

send her to rehab

OP 2017-06-09 05:11:10 Post No.18401739
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OP 2017-06-09 05:11:10 Post No.18401739 [Report]

>>18401731
She says she's clean, m8

So, as in, I ask her and she denies it and lays a guilt trip about not trusting her on me.

Anonymous 2017-06-09 05:17:02 Post No.18401747
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Anonymous 2017-06-09 05:17:02 Post No.18401747 [Report]

>>18401739

so? you clearly dont believe her. so either do something to actually help her or get out of the way.

Anonymous 2017-06-09 05:17:05 Post No.18401748
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So, I guess the big question is how the hell do I help someone who won't even admit there's a problem because she's been "clean for years" and is proud of that, and so uses drugs in secret now?

Anonymous 2017-06-09 05:17:40 Post No.18401750
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Anonymous 2017-06-09 05:17:40 Post No.18401750 [Report]

>>18401748

dig. sneak. spy. also, talk to the people in her life.

OP 2017-06-09 05:19:24 Post No.18401751
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OP 2017-06-09 05:19:24 Post No.18401751 [Report]

>>18401747
>do something to actually help her or get out of the way.

lol, I don't know what you're imagining, man. Like, kidnapping her and taking her to a Betty Ford center? Come on.

#1. Again, I have no proof she's using and she denies it
#2. She's proud of being "clean for 2 years" and even the suggestion that she's using again drives her into an insane tirade.

Anonymous 2017-06-09 05:22:18 Post No.18401754
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Anonymous 2017-06-09 05:22:18 Post No.18401754 [Report]

>>18401751

>i dont know what you're imagining man.

see:
>>18401750

i don't know why you're acting like your only options are are leave things be or kidnap her.

Anonymous 2017-06-09 05:22:37 Post No.18401757
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Anonymous 2017-06-09 05:22:37 Post No.18401757 [Report]

>>18401739
If she is guilting you on not handing over all your cash, clean or not shes a cunt and you need to leave her.

OP 2017-06-09 05:24:02 Post No.18401761
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OP 2017-06-09 05:24:02 Post No.18401761 [Report]

I guess I need to think more outside the box on this, thanks for the advice, guys.

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