My gf and I have been together for a few years.
So, the other night, after work, I went out for drinks with a female coworker of mine. I walked her home afterwards, and she invited me in for another drink.
I knew what was happening here, and after a drink and some heavily dancing around what was happening here, I said that it was late, and that my girlfriend was probably wondering where I was.
Nothing happened between us, but I can't stop thinking about her. I have never cheated, never even considered it. Now that the thought crossed my mind, my sense of self has been shaken. I can't focus on basic tasks, I feel disconnected.
Has anybody else been in a similar situation? How has it worked out/ not worked out? Am I a piece of shit? Is this line of thought normal?
>Am I a piece of shit?
Yes
>>18401466
No you're not a piece of shit at least you can control it. Just make sure not to fuck her.
>>18401466
Easy big guy everyone thinks this at some point. What matters is your actions. You didn't mess around so you're fine.
>>18401478
Shut up, retard
>>18401466
A man is the sum of his actions, not thoughts. As long as you never act on this fantasy, you have nothing to worry about.
Direct the excitement and sexual tension towards your gf where it belongs. It's totally normal to feel what you're feeling
"It's not who we are, but what we do that defines us" - Bane