My boyfriend accidentally hit me when he sat down last night. I have a large couch with three cushions and was seated on the right. He flopped down at the other end and somehow his fist came down and punched me hard in the leg at the same time. It pissed me off more than it hurt but he wasn't very sorry. He didn't ask if I was OK or seem to care. It was only 7 but I just didn't even want to hang out with him anymore and went to bed. If I punched him by accident I would be sorrier than that. Am I overreacting because I'm already thinking of breaking up with him or is he a clumsy asshole?
Idk, tell him about it, but it's possible he didn't even realize it hurt that much
I'm always shocked by these type of questions because it's unusual that this is the first time something like this has happened.
Has he always been this rude? Did you say anything to him about how he should have responded?
My guess is he's been an insensitive jerk the whole time you've been dating and now you're getting tired of it. Tell him m either to man up or get out.
>>18400878
Stop being oversensitive. Women have a much greater threshold to pain. You're just mentally trained to think otherwise. You're overreacting.
>>18400878
He was just clumsy.
My boyfriend is clumsy as fuck, he hurts me quite a bit because he's also a foot taller and 60 lbs heavier than me.
I always look like an abused wife because I'm full of bruises everywhere.
He doesn't profusely apologise every time he hurts me, we mostly laugh about it.
>>18400878
You don't know how many times I punched my gfs in bed. This is so hilarious how clumsy I was. I don't anymore because I Kinda got used to have a crystal maiden occupying my bed all the time. You have to tell him regularly, this is a manufacturing defect for some guys.
If you can't find peace of mind, just slap him hard for no reason next time you see him, it will be the first reminder
>>18400878
>his fist came down and punched me hard in the leg at the same time. It pissed me off more than it hurt but he wasn't very sorry. He didn't ask if I was OK or seem to care. It was only 7 but I just didn't even want to hang out with him anymore and went to bed
kek women
you should keep this bottle up inside and tell your guy friends you're being abused, like how you're telling us
>>18400878
My gf elbowed me in the nose so hard that she almost broke it and I ended up spraying blood on her and then had a blood nose the rest of the night.
You're overreacting. I didn't give a fuck at all since I knew it was an accident and she apologized.
>>18400891
I'm going to bring it up with him later today and just lay it all out. Mostly bothered me that he didn't care he hurt me. I just wanted some different opinions. He has a history of being insensitive and doing shitty things by mistake but it's mostly because of inexperience.
>>18400919
What a fucking pussy ass bitch you are.
>>18400919
dump him so he can find someone that isnt an overly sensitive idiot.
>>18400878
Break with him, you sound like a mental case and I'd hate to be tied down to you
>>18400878
Just tell him that for each fail like this he has to eat your pussy and apologize after.
Be creative and dont be passive aggresive. That leads nowhere. You have to train boys like dogs. Instantly they do something wrong: slap, yell, give them clear direct signal they fucked up. And also when they do something right, hug them, cuddle, smile, praise, give them hand job etc.
>>18400930
you wish faggot.