How to cope with this crushing loneliness?
Im 36.
>>18400533
I have no idea, but thought I'd keep you company
>>18400533
I don't think you (or people like us) were meant to survive into our 30s. were it not for modern medicine and hygiene.
>>18400533
I don't know my dude, you and me both.
>>18400533
At this point get a dog.
If you dont like dogs then some animal you can love.
Im not nogf but i have 2 dogs. You wouldnt believe how much you come to love these little fuckers.
My younger dog is almost 2 and ive had her less than a year. Shes an asshole and still shits in the floor and destroys my shit once in awhile.
And yet i love her more than my gf even.
You will find nothing in this world that loves you more, judges you less, and is more faithful and loyal than a dog.
>>18401017
I hate dogs.
>>18401033
Failsafe included when i said "some other animal". Rats are super smart, cool, affectionate and social. Pigs, cats, ferrets, theres limitless options.
If still no well i dunno man.
Better get on some social networking websites and find yourself a dungeons and dragons group or drinking group or whatever youre into.
Remember. Furries have friends. Lots of them. An entire international community, even.
I also knew an autistic guy with an absolutely insane train obsession in highschool. He now is part of a massive community of train loving autists.
A group exists for you.
>>18401038
>Remember. Furries have friends. Lots of them. An entire international community, even.
I've been considering that even though they disgust me.
>>18401099
Thats the point. Im not saying go be a furry. Im sayng they are top tier autistic so if they have an entire community, you can too.
Seriously get on pof/tinder/ any fucking app and just ask every fucking girl out. Every last fucking one.
For $500 I can give you 3 lines that will score you a date in the first 2 minutes and can be used to score infinite dates.
I've gotten very very good at picking up ladies online.
Some free advice - treat a whore like a lady and a lady like a whore.
>>18401319
Also I'm dead serious I have a set pick up line that works 8/10 times. It came from painstaking trial and error over a decade of trying to develop and smash as much puss as I can.
>>18401329
If you are serious, let me know.
>>18400533
>How to cope with loneliness
Don't cope with it. Change things.
Meet people. Chat with co-workers and neighbors. Join a club. Join a gym. Do volunteer work. Take a "useless" class (art appreciation, cooking) at a CC.
>>18401258
Are regular geek/anime things viable for the social retard anymore? It seems as though they've flooded with normies and hipsters.
>>18401017
OP here, i love dogs but i live in an appartment and dogs go crazy in such environments. also i like boxers, they need a patio.
>>18401319
tried the tinder route. just got a single date, but not even a kiss. she was kinda hideous so fuck it. the rest of the time it drove me crazy to watch such hotties and knew already i wouldnt be able to land none of that.
I'm 26, have never had a gf and don't have any friends since hs. I'm pretty lonely.
To deal I make small talk with people I encounter everyday, I have two cats, and I watch porn with stories that are more romantic. I also talk to my mom and brother when I'm feeling a bit lonely.
I have also made some mental changes, I've accepted that I'll probably be alone in life and that's okay. I focus on my career and doing things I enjoy.
DON'T turn to alcohol, I'm currently going through withdrawal and I shake like a motherfucker, it's impacting my work and it sucks. If you need some type of substance, use cannabis in moderation.
>>18401416
>Chat with co-workers and neighbors.
i have good neighbors. dont have coworkers because i work from home. having coworkers fucking sucked though.
>>18402003
I also shit post on an Egyptian penguin anatomy and physiology board, it does help cause you can be open and talk to people who identify with what you say.
I used to lift, meditate, do qi gong and yoga, but the alcohol has gotten in the way of that. I'm working on getting back into it.
Smoking cigars also helps me feel good too.
>>18400960
Get the fuck out of here asshole with that nonsense.
>>18401329
Not OP but what's the magic line?
>>18401339
>>18402059
>implying I would divulge my personal secret.
>>18402070
Yeah, sure.
>>18400533
-Visit close relatives (only if on good terms with them)
-music (Spotify as a big library at decent price)
-local language courses
Remember that being alone is better than being with shitty people.
Go find a dnd group to make friends. Consult tg about finding a group and fitting into it. Now you have friend making potential and game enjoyment potential. Winwin.
>>18402048
Nonsense?
have you never had friends/gfs?