I finally have a child which is a miracle because I wasn't supposed to be able to but um the father left me and I hate being a single mom... I don't know how to cope and I'm afraid that it will affect my mommying any advice?
P.s my son looks so much like his dad
>>18400421
good luck i hope ur not megan p
ur fucked lol
i don't have any children yet so i'm just guessing here but...
take all the things that you liked about your parents' parenting and do the exact same thing with your son. make him the light of your life regardless of whether he looks like the dad or not. as long as you have lots of love and encouragement towards him everything will work out
>>18400466
Hahaha I could be Megan...
>>18400469
Actually I haven't been in over a year and I am going crazy
>>18400470
Thank you! That is sound advice. I love my son very much I just fear that I will lose patience with him as he gets older. I will be trying hard at avoiding that. I just need tips or tricks to not lose my patience
>>18400421
That guy is quite the piece of shit, hey. Going balls deep unprotected and not sticking around or not paying for abortion.
Well. Move to your parents' place and become a house wife for the next 10 years.
Then get a job or something.
Get him involved with your family as much as possible. Being around my relatives really made up for the gap that not having my dad around left, and gave me a good sense of identity and belonging.
Also, make sure you feed the kid well. You don't have to be a master chef, just make nourishing meals. No kraft mac and cheese dinners, fuck that.