Virginity

Why? Sex isn't a big deal.

Losing it with someone you love will be a far far better experience.

>>18398247
do it man its okay no scars for life bulshit its just sex

>>18398247
Don't man you'll feel like shit. Sex isn't so vital and important that you should fuck asap to get rid of virgin stigma. Having sex with someone you actually connect with is much much better. Fucking a random gets your rocks off sure but its practically just as good feeling as jacking.

No problem, I would answer, if you were 25+. At 18, probably not such a good idea.

I did it when I was 21. This helped me build the self confidence to start dating girls and eventually get a gf 1 year later through Tinder.

Actually it wasn't just that one, I fucked other 5 whores before meeting my gf.

In my first time I didn't cum and thought sex was shit. I never wanted to do it again. Then some 4 months later I went to another whore and it was great. Then another one, great again.

Then I decided to stop seeing whores. But I started dating a girl from Tinder and I wanted to have exclusive attention from her, while in reality she was just using me as a backup in case things went wrong with the other dudes she was fucking. I got angry and fucked 3 more whores in the 2 months I dated this girl.

Then I told her to go fuck herself and a week later I met my gf, with whom I've been for 1 year, and who taught me more about sex than those whores ever could.

Anyway, feel free to ask me anything if you like.

>>18398247
If being a virgin is preventing you from living your life the way you want to then by all means do it. Gotta do what you gotta do. Just don't let it be your only source of sexual intimacy in the future.

>>18398303
Also, me again. I think you're too young. Try meeting a girl you like somewhere first (college, work, Tinder).

If you don't get anywhere in a few years, then go ahead and fuck the whore.

>>18398296
>At 18, probably not such a good idea.
Why?

>>18398841
You lack the maturity and money. And many will refuse someone so young.

>>18398867
I have money and prostitutes in my country don't care about age
>maturity
Could you explain

>>18398247
Just wait till you don't have to pay and the person you are fucking actually wants you inside them. I lost mine at 19, did not see it coming desu, didn't really talk to girls too much it just happened.

>>18398874
I don't talk to girls at all and being a virgin contributes to my insecurity. Not OP by the way
If I have to wait until I actually meet a girl who wants me I'll end up a wizard.
The problem is that I don't know how I should go about hiring an escort in a country where it's illegal

>>18398881
Homie just pretend you get pussy, talk with confidence and let females know you are into the subliminally. Pussy will come to you bro.

>>18398882
>just pretend you get pussy
lol they can tell I'm a loser. Everyone can
>confidence
I don't have it and I don't know how to fake it

>>18398890
Just act like you aren't overwhelmed or doubting anything, like you don't need to feel the situation out or answer to anyone or pander to anyone, you just doing you and act like you know it's the right way even if its not and you don't.
Even losers can get tons of poon bro.

>>18398903
Yeah that's the theory but in reality I come off as a self-conscious unassertive mess. People have told me my body language and my way of expressing myself gives it away and I don't know how to fix it.

>>18398903
>>18398925
Like I did the whole "don't give a fuck, just do you" thing or whatever and a girl told me I needed to stop acting cool
They just smell it, there's no way to hide it

>>18398247
You've got time. Grow as a person a bit more.

I'm 18 as well.
I've thought about this and decided that it only makes sense if you're going to kill yourself shortly after.
I don't see why you would opt for your first time to be a cold and impersonal simulation unless you just wanted to know what it felt like before you died.

>>18398925
Just keep faking it just talk to yourself in your mind and make yourself believe it in the moment. People will believe you trust me.

>>18398247
>you're 35
>you're in bed with your wife of 2 years
>you're both mature about past relationships to care about jealousy
>she asks
"So honey, tell me how you lost your virginity"
>how do you respond?

>>18398927
Bro don't act like you are hot shit, act like talking flirty to a girl doesn't scare you, act like you know you doing fine, act like you aren't relying on her response for self-validation, that it's a whim. Be subtle.

>>18398944
By lying duh. I'd just tell her I met a skanky girl I kinda liked and we had a one night stand. I haven't ever fucked a whore so I'll never have to lie, but yeah that's what I'd say.

>>18398949
I really don't know how to do that. I'm almost a shut in now and even during my high school years it was really difficult to appear normal.

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>>18398247
Yeah. Don't be surprised when she takes your money and runs.
> Buh buh I'll call the cops.
That's a plan. Officer, the woman that I paid for sex illegally stole my money! Help.

If you want to throw away your money that easily, Paypal it to nigganeedsweed@gmail. Then jack off to some porn.

>>18398247
It's a lot better to do this and get the performance anxiety out of your system, rather than going on for 5-8 years before you find some fat girl and lose it to her and realize you have porn induced impotence.

OP your life IS NOW.

You sex drive when you're 30 won't be the same as it is today. You want to do this now. Doesn't matter if it's with a hooker or with some girl, they feel the same.

Most guys who telly you to wait lost their virginity at 18 or before.

t. former virgin

>>18398935
I've been with hookers in Japan. They offer a service, and it's almost like a date, except you're being treated like when you're getting a haircut.

Stop putting so much value into imaginations, thoughts and dreams. Stop thinking so much. After all, reality is this very instant, like the sound of a gong. It simply is.

You don't know what will be in 10 years from now. Im not saying planing is bad, im saying, instead of worrying and thinking, try to just live in the now. Try to sing and dance before life is over.

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>>18398874
Holy shit are you me?

>>18399200
>instead of worrying and thinking, try to just live in the now. Try to sing and dance before life is over.
Hedonism is a shit way of life.

>>18398253
If you follow this advice you'll end up pretending you love someone just so you can fuck them only to realize you don't.

Sex isnt a big deal, therefore it shouldnt be anchored on to something as complicated as love, just get your ass out there and figure out what you want while youre young.

>>18399276
Having your first time be with a whore is a pretty bad way to start.

>>18398247
29 year old virgin here. Considering this as well but they're so fucking expensive and I'm barely getting by as it is with a mortgage and all the shit that you have to deal with when owning a home. I don't have 800 to 1000 bucks to drop on a legal whore who I know won't have an std and won't be a cop.

>>18398247
I presume you are anxious about your virginity, since you're asking: go for it, if only to get that shit out of your head and get on with your life.