Have I ruined sex for myself

>>18397890
Tell her you're into X, Y and Z and tell you would not dare asking her but you feel like it could be a fun and intimate experience because you have always wanted to try it, and she is the one who could.
Give her some weeks to digest the news.
My gf is into sex in public places (forest, beach etc...), I am not into it because it's boring as hell but I make an effort. She probably has some of those as well, don't hesitate to ask.

Yes, congratulations, you are the equivalent to a woman who got off the cock carrousel and mysteriously finds that after living a life full of over the top sexual thrills she doesn't love monogamy.

Good luck trying to straighten yourself out. Sure there's no doubt improvement possible but the thrill of sleeping with an objectively gorgeous girl, the power trip of paying them and/or sleeping with new people all the time simply won't be there no matter how you look at it.

>>18397908
>Tell her you're into X, Y and Z

This works very well if OP's gf is ok with him doing model X,Y and Z while she watches in the corner.

>>18397890
Congrats, you've Flowers for Algernon'd your dick.

As with many other threads here, the matter you are facing is about making a decision. You want to win something new, but without losing that which you were having before. You are taken away by your own grief over some way of life which might end.

You have to choose.

It's not a choice that is once and for all or without room for negotiation, but it's a choice nevertheless, which means you gain something, but you lose something as well. And you'll have to cope with that loss, otherwise you'll get stuck trying to reconcile the two things, always negotiating and calculating how to lose less in every decision. Not only that, but perhaps if you stay long enough grieving about what you'll lose, it becomes harder for you to see the advantages of your current situation.

Anyway, you have to choose.

Jesus Christ she is hot.

>>18397988
that's a great line, I'm stealing that anon, thanks.

OP here

>>18397908
>>18397988

That is the thing. It isn't a fetish per se. Its the fact that I can sleep with these model escorts regularly. Lingerie, toys, lesbian shows, 3 ways... whatever I want with these beautiful women. Its like I am in a porno scene sometimes.

>>18397988
>>18397945
well fuck.

>>18397988
nice one

>>18398012
I want to make change..but its a voice whispering to me when I need to get my rocks off. I jack off and/or sleep with my gf...it goes away temporarily and returns.

I haven't used drug recreationally, but the feeling I have gotten with some of these escort models (complete euphoria, arms/legs going numb, head on cloud 9) must be comparable in some way to a drug addiction.

>>18397945
This. You have had the good stuff, and yo dick doesn't want to go back to normalcy.

>>18398085
>the feeling I have gotten with some of these escort models (complete euphoria, arms/legs going numb, head on cloud 9) must be comparable in some way to a drug addiction.
Yes, it's the endorphin rush you're hooked on.

I've been in a similar situation OP. When my wife and I first got married, we quickly became swingers. Threesomes, multiple partners, chick roommate we both fucked at our leisure, it was a lot of good stuff. Since then we've had a kid and things have calmed down. It's hard to get back to normalcy, but you can do it. Is the sex as good? No, but the love is still real.

>>18398914
>>18398914
How did this affect your marriage brah. You watched a dude plow your wife?

>>18397890
Yo,

Tell us more about how to make disposable income from website revenue.

>>18397945
Least Helpful Advice 2017

>>18397890
Have you ever reduced your usage of or quit a drug? See it as the same as going very nearly cold turkey. You've looked at the sun and now have to deal with the shitty afterimage. It'll go away but not without time. If it's really bothering you invest the energy into either your current girlfriend or your own sexual desire/need.

>>18399782
>>18399782
I have gone cold turkey.
I cut down on porn
I even read a sex addiction book

Trying new stuff with the girlfriend; but the sex isn't anywhere as good as some of the stuff I have done in the past. That's the kicker.

>>18399753
This op, no need to specific but.... be more specific plz.
People here are intrested in ways to make money.

>>18399753
>>18399813

youtube revenue, amazon associates niche sites and adsense revenue

standard stuff

>>18399805
No, I understand. I'm telling you that you have to see it as going cold turkey on a drug. You don't need to quit porn or anything, you should just try to maintain your normal life and if you feel like you need it try adjusting the sex with your girlfriend or your own masturbation habits to curb your sexual urges.

>>18399805
Why what does she do?
Isn't a vagina a vagina?

what kind of personality do you use with escorts?

>>18399805
Do you love her? You should be more focused on giving her a good experience than yourself . You've become a selfish lover which is death for a relationship.

>>18399913
supreme gentleman

>>18397890
Advice on making website revenue. What type of site you run?

>>18399835
Elaborate on the adsense and amazon niche stuff