I've been talking to this girl for over a month now, we were mostly on friendly terms and I was trying to flirt a bit until recently when we last hung out where she started talking about this "boyfriend," I kinda just shrugged it off and assumed that was code for "back off." That was 3 weeks ago and we still talk almost every day just friendly until recently it seems she is starting to low key flirt with me. I don't want to make any moves quite yet because I'm not sure about it and I don't have any time to do anything with her until next month. What do you guys think?
Tldr: Girl I've been talking to talked about this "boyfriend" last time we hung out, I backed off a bit but we still talk every day.
>>18396923
2 scenarios here.
1. She's in a relationship but she still talks and flirts with you daily. HUGE RED FLAG. You do not want anything to do with this slut. get the fuck away from her now.
2. You misinterpreted what she said, or she misspoke, or deliberately through that comment out there to fuck around, or she was seeing a guy at the time and no longer isn't. Any of these scenarios are possible and it's retarded that you're not manning up and asking her out on a date. Even if you don't have time until next month. Make your intentions known before she fucks off and gets a boyfriend for real.
>>18396933
It could also be that OP is shit at reading signals, and she isn't actually flirting with him.
>>18396923
>Do girls lie
Yes.
>>18396933
>>18396951
OP here, I prob am misreading her but I'll keep talking to her anyways.
>>18396923
It sounds to me like you're just being deluded.
She's being a friendly person and you're interpreting it as her "flirting".
If you haven't even stated your intentions yet, what the fuck are you doing.
>>18396923
details?
>>18396923
When guys try to flirt with me I tell them I have a bf (I actually do) so they'll stop. She's probably just being nice and you're interpreting it as something else. She's in a relationship, don't put any ~moves on her you dip.
Last time this happened to me, I convinced her to break up with him, because it was obvious she didn't like him very much anyway.
I would guess that if she's not telling you to back off, then she's presenting a challenge to you.