Girl gets Friendzoned

>>18393089
have some drunks

get alone, cup his balls, make out with him...

either he goes for it you is balls deep in your mouth... don't make a big deal about it or he might freak out the next day...

do it again, then you go from friends to FWB, if you want a relationship after that... not a big step

If he's not into you then you need to accept that. There is no "I'll just be his friend and eventually he'll come around and we'll be lovers." That way lies madness.

I agree with his advice that you should check out a dating site. It's almost disrespectful of you to hang on your crush when he's willing to have a productive friendship with you.

Everyone needs love, and your need is not being satisfied. There are plenty of wonderful guys out there, so get looking. I'm willing to bet that if you go out and get a boyfriend and get some love and affection, your friendship with this guy will be much closer and happier.

>>18393133
Do not do this. It is rapey, or at the very best it's manipulative and scummy. The decisions a person makes while drunk are not the decisions they will make while sober. If you don't like being rejected, imagine how you will feel when he wakes up, freaks out because he doesn't want this, and blocks you from all aspects of his life indefinitely.

Even if it "succeeds" and you end up FWB, you will go mad waiting on him to invest in you as emotionally as he has sexually.

There's a saying.. Don't meet your heros.

Basically, People who you like or look up to may not be what you expected face to face, no matter how many times you video chatted. Go to this concert as a friend and treat him as a friend and nothing more. Actually spend real time with him and then gather your thoughts and relocate on how much like him as a partner.

Since you're going as a friend this time and not putting any pressure on him about your relationship then there's no reason for him to be put off of another meetup later down the road.

I had this experience too, more or less. There was a guy which I was in love with since childhood but he always saw me as a sister, I accepted and wouldn't let myself feel more than that. After I got much older I saw that he grew fond of me, but he never actually confessed to me and by the time he made it clear I met someone else who had the courage to be there for me in every way.

It's a bit sad but what I'm trying to tell here is, don't wait up for someone if they are not or will never be sure about you. I can guarantee you that there will be a man who loves you just as much and will fight for your hand. Don't stick around a dream.

>>18393089
>I have bipolar disorder
Jesus Christ you should've started with this

How about just kill your self right now instead?

You sounds like he's the only male left in the world. If it hasn't happened in three years, move fucking on

I think you missed out a pretty important bit of info. When he flat out said no to being your gf, what was his reason?

>>18394092
He's most probably not physically/sexually attracted to her

>>18393089
I would never date an independent, successful person. There's never time to do anything, and personality is usually shit.

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>>18393089
Cut all ties and move the fuck on. He already said he isn't interested in you, so doing anything to "win him back" is a total waste of time. Get in your head, no matter how much you want something, you aren't entitled nor destined to get it. Accept how to deal with it and appreciate the men who actually reciprocate your feelings.

The coldest solutions are mostly the best ones. WIth that written: stop being an insufferable pussy and swallow the bitter pill of reality. Either that or just off yourself already, because you know how it will work out for both of you.