Sexual problems

>>18393077
Why is it so bad? Why do you judge yourself so negatively? Everybody's got their weird thing. I've got a thing for bestiality porn. I don't beat myself up about it because I can't help it, it's just what gets me going.

>>18393077
Obviously you need to quit watching porn

You are desensitized anon. You don't have to stop masturbating just try to cut it down your consumption of porn.

>>18393077
Go cold turkey.
Delete all your porn and don't beat it at all for a while. Re-sensitize yourself

>>18393087
Because I hate the cucking fetish, just as much as anyone else. I feel it's pathetic and dangerous and just embarrassing if I would do it. I feel I would be a literal idiot if I did it.

>>18393101
I've been told that but I feel that would only fix my first problem, not the fetish one.

>>18393159
Are you sure that I'm desensitized? again, I've had bestiality and underage fetishes so wouldn't it make sense for me to go the other way around? from cucking to underage and bestiality? that's what I never got an answer for when people told me I'm just desensitized.

>>18393221
Same for what I've said to 2nd and 3rd anons, I feel that's more helpful towards my first problem and not the second, as well as the fact that I've been into "worse" fetishes than cucking so I don't know how I'm desensitized, because it seems like the other way around.


I've thought about it being my over exposure to porn that's doing this, as I've moved from one fetish to the other along the years until now, which stopped on cucking/interracial/etc... But does overexposure to porn ALWAYS mean that I'm desensitized? couldn't it just be that I'm getting bored of fetishes regardless of how weird they are? or is that not a thing?
And how about you guys? how long have you been masturbating and how frequently do you do it? did you also gain and lose fetishes or did you just end up with a few of them permanently?

(I'm also going to use a name to make it easier to identify OP)

I've been into underage stuff (I was also only 16 at the time), bestiality,, water play, then I got into amateur stuff for ages (which is pretty wholesome, really) and then back onto underage very briefly then bestiality again etc etc while dabbling into other things here and there. My advice is just see things out until you move onto something else (not the BEST idea) or start restraining your porn habits. All porn is pretty much a form of voyeurism so it shouldn't be surprising that a lot of porn is going to start leeching voyeuristic traits into your reality.

>>18394267

Unfortunately I lost the first half of my post, it basically just said the progression of porn kinks isn't necessarily linear.

>>18393077
Stop watching porn. Forever. It is made for adults and you obviously are mentally strong as 5 years old baby.

Stop fapping for 30 days and STOP WATCHING PORN!
https://yourbrainonporn.com/

>>18394267
So you're saying my case isn't desensitization but rather random fetishes coming to me the more I masturbated? I wanna be sure.
And how long will you say the cuck fetish will take time until it goes away? both from me continuing my large masturbation habit and me quitting or at the very least reducing my porn intake. Or will me quitting or reducing porn not help get the fetish off?
Also I'm not sure about the voyeuristic part for a few reasons.

A Let's start with the ones that I guess confirm it:
1- I remember not being so much into PoV as it usually never included what I liked such as big butts or boobs from a good angle or a voluptuous body in certain clothing. The only POV I remember liking was a video of Taylor Wane giving a big dick a blowjob and another of Cody Bryant's big butt on a dude's dick, and even those I just liked the visual of it and not wanting to be the guys in the videos.
2- I rarely self inserted as someone before and thought of myself going at it, rather just watched what was infront of me whether it's a video or drawing of 2 people do something I like such as a horse on a smaller guy or a dude groping a girl, and solo stuff like a voluptuous pony for example or an erotic dance of some sort. Can't recall me enjoying self insert that much but rather enjoyed what was infront of me (save for a few fantasies here and there AND that I've been self-inserting more than ever with this whole cuck fetish such as helping the 2 out or joining them in a way, for some reason).

B Now the ones that I guess deny it:
1. If it was just voyeuristic, wouldn't I be content with just voyeur porn or even porn in general instead of wanting it to go as far as cuckolding? because correct me if I'm wrong but I'm sure that cucking is more than just watching, especially for me.
2. If all porn is a form of voyeurism, wouldn't that mean far more people would be into cucking? because alot of people are really not into it, infact the opposite.

You don't have a problem, you are just living in a bubble and need to get laid ;)

>>18394645
Thanks but that doesn't help alot.

>>18394645
>have some of OP's problems
>try to go out and get laid
>can't get it up
This only makes it worse tbqh.

This is fixed very simply.

Stop watching porn. Cucking is a fetish that has evolved from watching too much of it, i.e. becoming more turned on at observing than actually participating in sex.
Luckily you're still young and rewiring your brain shouldn't be too difficult

>>18395054
Again if watching too much porn leads to a cuck fetish then the fetish would be the biggest fetish in the world by now. Watching 2 people have sex or whatever =/= watching your loved one have sex.
Thanks anyway though.