Need sexuality advice from gay/bi people

>>18389956

the 'slippery slope' doesn't apply to your sexuality. you don't turn gay. you're just gay. the reason you were able to get off to women before is because 1) men can get off to just about anything (im gay but i have fapped to lesbians in the last year) and 2) because when you are younger ANY sexual act is intense because oyu're not used to it yet. the older you get the less things excite you that you don't actually like.

all in all, you're probably gay but the only way to really find out is to go experiment.

>>18389956
there is a way of sort of figuring this shit out, you have to take the sex element out

for instance, I'm straight, but I enjoy sucking a nice penis here and there, it really turns me on, BUT, there is nothing beyond that, like I don't see myself going out with that person, watching movies together or cuddling etc....

With my present girlfriend I totally enjoy having sex with her, but I can be affectionate and enjoy hanging out with her, I miss her when she's not there, etc

some girls I couldn't get hard

You don't slip into gayness, it's not just about fapping and traps and dicks.....

Think of who you are attracted to, beyond that...

I hope this helps

>>18390154
Thanks for the response. The sex I want to be with and I see myself having a future with is a female, I'm just hoping attraction doesn't get in the way of that

Insults aside, you could be pansexual. Look it up.
You also won't psychologically solidify your sexual orientation until you're in your mid twenties (sexual peak). Also check out Kinsey.

I think that wanting to cum and wanting to be in love with a guy are totally seperate. If you can actually see yourself feeling all weird and lovey dovey with a guy then ur gay but if not then u just like makkng ur dick feel weird to anything. As a male ur dick doesnt rly care