Trust/Intimacy issues

>>18389638
stop being a pussy
don't date whores or superficial people / date nice and honest girls
acknowledge red flags when you see them

nothing risked nothing gained

Say fuck it and just get used to being alone. It's really not that bad if you stop being a bitch about it.

You'll be dead eventually, anyway.

Listen to The Wall a few times

Well, this was about as helpful as I thought it would be

well you already know your problem is because you'll have to make yourself vulnerable. so it becomes a trust thing, you need to learn to trust that people aren't going to hurt you. it helps if you get down a system of dealing with that stuff when it does happen so you don't have that fear of "well if that happens I know it's going to be like a year before I get over it". bring down the stakes. if the risk of being vulnerable is being a blithering mess for years you'll never do it. you need to get control of yourself and handle that so that you're more comfortable with what you're risking. then, make sure you put that trust in trustworthy people.

>>18389770
>if you get down a system of dealing with that stuff when it does happen

What kind of system? Like what does a more normal person go through when things don't work out?