I'm supposed to move in 5 days to a different country (Europe->Europe) to live alone, work and go to university, all in a foreign language.
At first I decided to do that to try and save up money while at uni, I wouldn't be able to do the same in my shitty poor slav country, but holy fuck I'm not ready to do this. I'm 20 rn. Haven't yet gone to uni. The funny thing is, I spent a year not working or doing shit, but learning the language.
I have already arranged a place to live (haven't signed the contract yet), but I haven't got a job arranged. That, and being completely alone there. I'm not social so I don't really care about not having 10 friends, but my family was making up for it.
What the fuck do I do? I hate my country for doing this to me.
Bruhs...
>>18388393
I had a similar issue (moving from N. America to Europe). It was difficult for a month, and it's only getting easy months later. I didn't even have a place to stay, much less a job. For a full month before I actually did it I thought I wouldn't, but eventually I found myself on the plane.
You'll get over your fear, and you will appreciate it later. Yes, you could stay. I mean, you would survive, maybe you would do well. But there's more to life than just surviving and being comfortable.
If I had stayed home, I know I would be in a worse place mentally and probably physically. So I'm glad I did it. I don't think you have anything to lose, especially at 20. Learn as much as you can first, then you can decide to say no to the world, knowing you have nothing more to gain from it, instead of saying no out of fear and insecurity.
>>18388393
Which country?
I mean... you can just try it, can't you?
I recommend going to all the normie social events in the beginning. I refrained because I was a teetotaler the first time I tried going to university. And I didn't get to know anyone. And I hated my life for one year, before dropping out and moving back home.
So yeah. Move, but try to socialise. I'm sure everything will work out.
>>18389055
how did you move to europe without a place to live or a job?
I would fucking love to do that, but all the non-shithole countries would deport me
>>18389201
I don't need a visa to enter the country. I arrived, got a hostel for three days, found a longer term room, applied for a long term visa after a month. U can do it anon. Even if you go to a shithole, there are still no border checks in most of the EU. If you're in one, you have access to the rest.
>>18389220
yeah but what country?
and how did you find a job? do you speak the language?