My girlfriend took a picture of her laying on a guys shoulder (should I be mad) I know if I were to do this shit with a girl she would flip?
>>18385535
Honestly, no, you shouldn't. You also shouldn't be with a girl who flips because you take a picture of you with your head on a girl's shoulder. Talk about it rationally and calmly. Don't freak out.
>>18385535
ask her about it
if its a problem for you, tell her that
chicks don't' get a free pass on what is right and wrong just because they have vaginas. lots of women are hypocritical about what they can do and what you can't do, not cool,
>>18385539
>You also shouldn't be with a girl who flips because you take a picture of you with your head on a girl's shoulder
annon is right, this is a major red flag of insecurity
also are you actually angry, or are you angry because you know she would be?
Op-I don't want to leave her but I don't think it's right and if I try to talk to her about it she will say "I'm sorry won't happen again" but I know it will
Op- Me personally I know right from wrong and I would never take a picture of me doing that I respect her
>>18385535
Always talk with her first, and ask her without looking like a jerk (seriously, it's just a photo. I've girls as friends as well and it's not an issue)
I just want to thank everyone for the advice really means something
>>18385547
By "talk to her," I didn't mean "tell her it's wrong." Ask about what's up with that, explain it made you feel a little uncomfortable, but approach it relaxed.
>>18385550
There is no "right from wrong" here. It's not about respect. It's probably something innocuous.
Hell, she posted it... I'd be a lot more mad if I walked by my girl and saw her head on a guy's shoulder without making it clear.
>>18385535
I would ask her about it in a calm manner first.
Accusations will 0/10 help any situation, but maybe its just a close friend