So I haven't had sex in over a year and last night I got invited to a girls house to stay the night. When it came to the point where we were about to fuck I couldn't get my dick hard. Ive never had this problem before and I still feel like shit over this. I really like this girl and I feel ashamed I couldnt satisfy her. I dont know if it was a mental thing or not. Lately I havent had much of a sex drive and havent gotten a good nights sleep since Ive been back from overseas. We also didnt really do any foreplay. I got it hard at first but once she mounted it went limp. What do I do /adv/?
>>18382527
Were you stressed and nervous?
Isolated incident does not establish a trend. Post this shit when you consistently fail to get hard.
>>18382527
>and I feel ashamed I couldnt satisfy her.
Wait, you didn't? At least finger and lick her to orgasm, when you cannot get it up!
>>18382537
I was pretty nervous from not fucking in a while. Im just worried that now that its happened once ill psyche myself out next time too
>>18382543
She gave up after about 10 minutes, I tried to finger her before penetration but she didn't want to for some reason. I thought about asking her if she wanted me to finger her or go down on her after but I was just embarrassed.