Holy fuck help me

i want to fucking end my life im so disappointed by how i did a 180 and have just complete disgust towards her now when before I was so attracted and really liked her, and its all my fault not hers

you hold her to a high regard because you like her
then you see that she has kind of degraded herself by sleeping with slimey dudes

nobody wants to be with someone who has no self respect

i dunno dude. would you feel this way if she slept with 19 attractive, nice seeming gents?

>>18379164

Still no. I'd be grossed out either way. I mean christ... in only 20 or so months... FUCK

>>18379168
the point still holds though dude
i don't think pursuing that many people in such a short time is a signal of health

>19 dudes within roughly 20 months
gross.

>>18379183
That's almost a dude every month.

She must have a short attention span.

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>>18379145
The natural instinct of all living things is procreation, the spreading of the species; this comes first and foremost, and second-most is the desire to pass on your own DNA above all others. This is why the natural reaction to female promiscuity is one of disgust, because when a man has sex with 10 women there's chance for 11 people to pass on DNA and when a woman has sex with 10 men there's only chance for 2. That's just in your genetics, like it or not you (as an individual) and we (as a species) can never erase that instinctual reaction, regardless of our intellectual and free-thinking ways, regardless of the fact we know the sex isn't for procreation anyway. That said it can be ignored or overcome with considered meditation, exposure, or training after understanding this, like fear of the dark or f/light reflex (which is why cuckoldry exists).

Point being, your reaction is completely natural. The reason you're so disgusted with yourself is solely because you got on your high horse about it before (with your intellectual free-thought) and now you realise you're just an animal in the mud like the rest of us, congrats. The real question you should be asking is whether this is actually a bad thing to begin with and whether this girl is still worth pursuing now you know all this, and your immediate reaction is going to be yes she is and just because she slept around a lot doesn't change anything about her, and I want you to think long and hard over it before reaching any decisions. But feel free to call me a woman-hating piece of shit if it at all makes you feel better for the moment.

>>18379192

Fuck dude I don't even know if I can respect her just as a friend, like do I even want to associate with that? I sound like such a fucking conservative or crazy radical islamist or some shit now

https://i.gyazo.com/c54c666af980c05ec775ee9349e55820.png

Hey everyone! This made me want to not kill myself a little bit!

>>18379145
Chastity has been viewed as a virtue in western civilization for thousands of years for a reason. It is only recently that we decided it's cool to be a slut.

Congratulations op on waking up.

>>18379203
The fact you're thinking in those terms (if I dislike a slut for being slutty I must be like a crazed conservative or Mussie) is part of your larger problem. You're not an idea, you're not some caricature of a political movement, you're just a human being; you have some thoughts that naturally will overlap with groups you overall disagree with, that's fine. That isn't some monstrous thing that makes you evil, you fucking idiot.

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>>18379192

Pseudo-intellectualism 101.

>>18379227
how not to be taken seriously: when you are so lost for words you just grab the nearest phrase in your dictionary of routine insults.

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>>18379227
Faggot-buzzword 90210

>>18379221

I know you're so right i'm still so lost I feel like giving up on sex and girls and porn forever they're all so gross now

what does she look like?

>>18379283
Just calm down mate, the sun's still coming up in the morning and the world's still spinning, brood for a few days if you need to then just get over it. If you no longer desire her that's fine, if she disgusts you to the very core that's fine, if you want to be her cuck slave that's fine, just sleep on it, mull it over a bit, and whatever decision you come to is fine, life ain't gonna cease to exist because of it.

>>18379294

Fuck dude I just want to be her friend but im grossed out and apalled by her. Please I don't want to think like this about her shes genuinely nice.

>>18379296
Why does it matter if you're not also going to fuck her? You'll get over it.

>>18379299

Help has anyone else ever felt this way? How do you get over it I can't just quickly have sex to forget about it, I wouldn't even want to have sex anymore with girls since they're probably all promiscuous nowadays in america

>>18379145
what is wrong can't handle a strong independent women with miles of cocks.

>>18379296
>I just want to be her friend
Why?

>>18379306
stay the fuck far away from American women. they are spoiled children because of the welfare state and the laws. they treat men like shit because the government is their new husband and they get free shit at the expense of male taxpayers.

>>18379332
but if i live in america how can i avoid them

>>18379326

Because I actually like her as a person you fucking faggot

>>18379145
ya i hate changing my beliefs too when i meet someone that is the complete opposite and i end up liking them, but then i realize i was wrong for believing them in the first place.

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>>18379409
>I actually like her as a person
>But I'm grossed out and appalled by the whore

One of these things isn't true.

>>18379413

what do you mean? please elaborate i don't understand the last part of your sentence

>>18379418

SHE TREATS ME LIKE A HUMAN BEING AND CARES ABOUT ME AND TALKS TO ME UNLIKE MOST GIRLS

IK ITS BECAUSE SHE CONSTANTLY HANGS AROUND GUYS AND PREFERS THEIR ATTENTION COMPARED TO GIRLS (SHE SAID SHE DOESNT LIKE TALKING TO OTER GIRLS) BUT STILL FUCK

shes a good friend but her lifestyle is apalling and I'm trying so hard to overcome this. Its like being a homophobe but you find out your friend is gay. its just such a 180 and youre trying to figure out how tf to think

>>18379425
I don't understand. It's clear you do not want to date her. So why does it bother you if you only want to be friends from now on? That's just weird. I wouldn't care if she's my friend because it does not change her as a person and it's not like I will put my dick in her. This is normal for people her age. Barely anyone is a virgin or has a low partner count. Get over it. You will get used to it when you are older, trust me. In a few years you will meet people that have a partner count even higher than hers.

>>18379145
If you feel grossed out by that, it most likely means you feel insecure about yourself and your own sexuality.

>>18379437

This. Thread over.

>>18379477
>You're just insecure if you don't want a slut

No, to men, your value as a female goes down with each sexual partner you have.

This is actually how it works, they might not tell it right to your face.

>>18379477

Tell me how are girls like her gonna NOT compare you to previous partners? As soon as your dick goes in you're either better or worse than the rest of the chucklefucks that stuck their dicks in her

>>18379425
You don't actually like her as a person. You like her because she 'treats you like a human being' and 'cares about you' and talks to you unlike most girls. You like getting attention from her. That's it. You don't like her caring personality or her exciting way-of-life, you don't like her desires or ambitions or wants or needs, you just like that she talks to you while other girls don't talk to you.

>SHE CONSTANTLY HANGS AROUND GUYS AND PREFERS THEIR ATTENTION COMPARED TO GIRLS (SHE SAID SHE DOESNT LIKE TALKING TO OTER GIRLS)
And you didn't see this coming? Jesus fucking Christ.

>>18379494
And if you were secure about yourself and your own sexuality... you wouldn't give a fuck, which is his point.

>>18379501

EVERY fucking girl that hangs around beta orbiters is a fucking attention whore. Remember those 7/10s that hung out with a group of nerdy guys in HS? Attention fucking WHORES

>>18379510
I'm assuming you're still OP, I want to reiterate that you gotta calm the fuck down, son. You learned something most people have to learn this exact same way. Sun's still gonna rise, Earth's still gonna spin. Deal with that shit instead of flying off the handle like a goddamn woman would.