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Lies in a relationship 2017-06-02 05:11:23 Post No. 18377334
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Have you ever lied to your partner with a long-term lie? Did you come clean? What were the results?
>22 KV
>Ask a girl out for the first time
>Things are going smooth but insecure about lack of experience
>Lie about having sex before
Two months later
>Things getting really serious, develop mutual feelings for each other
>Turns out she's also a virgin
>Got some trust issues and takes people lying to her very hard
>Start to feel guilty about it
It's too late to come clean now because that would just mess things up. I don't know where this relationship is going but I am taking this with me to my grave.
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>>18377334
Lol why? I get she has trust issues but just tell her you felt really ashamed about being a virgin. I'm sure she'll understand.
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>>18377334
Why do people feel guilty for something like that. I lied about the exact same thing. Never told her and have been in a relationship with her for 10+ years. I don't feel guilty we are happy. It's such a minor thing.
Just don't make a habit of it. The best liars are the ones that barely ever lie.
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Around 85% of men probably lied that they are not virgins, being virgin is not cool at all for a guy (as opposed to girls)
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I don't get why people make such a big deal about sex it's honestly not that great or life changing
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>>18377454
That might be just the thing. I've been working hard on being honest with her about everything else and I'm doing a good job so far winning her trust. I've been honest with her about things that are hard for me to admit but I've made it a point to be as honest as I can. I just feel like I lost the expiration date of this lie and now I just know I'm better off keeping it with me.
It's just a sting of guilt I'm feeling because she brought up the subject of virginity today. She seems to think the first time is really really meaningful.
>>18377481
I never had sex but it's honestly not that important to me, at least so far in our relationship. I only lied because society makes people think there's something wrong with you if you haven't lost it by a certain age. I got insecure.
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