I'm kinda new to the 4chan boards but i've got about nowhere left to turn... so here goes nothing...
>be me
>history geek, polandball artist, etc.
>met another awesome history geek at school, but just wanted to be friends
>he starts flirting with me
>super uncomfortable
(I'm low-key super gay, and only my comrades know. Of course, i had only been in a relationship with one other person and i loved her til death and beyond. no fooling around or anything though, she moved before our relationship could get to that point)
>we're kinda just good friends after that
>8 months later he randomly pulls me aside and drops the "L" word
>super uncomfortable but hate being gay and decide to go along with it
>it's okay for a while, hand-holding and snuggling is nice
>dates are super inconsistent (like once a month) so that's good too
>kissing is gross though
flash forward to early May of this year:
apparently he wants sex or something now...
yeah i know, it's been like a year we've been together, but i'm still just a child at heart PLUS i didn't want a another relationship AND ON TOP OF THAT i'm gay and i know for sure now.
I told him "no" and he respects my boundaries of course, but i feel like crap for stringing him along like this... mostly because i didn't think it would go this far...
I guess i just wanted someone to swap history memes with and i was afraid of losing him as a friend.
I know, "what a whore, amirite?"
>>18377036
OP is literally a faggot this time guys
From what I've read you are bi but don't like any of the gay intimate stuff??????
Like for most healthy people that have a sex drive, there are not a ton of people willing to put up with that. I'd stick to whatever you feel comfortable fucking anon because they'll want it eventually
>>18377044
>From what I've read you are bi but don't like any of the gay intimate stuff??????
It'd probably help you to know i'm a girl buuut a'ight
>>18377052
((lmao sorry for assuming your gender))
My point still stands, go with what you'd be comfortable banging, put yourself in his shoes, the person he loves won't be that intimate with him, which feels like shit. Dragging him along without any development will be hell for that guy, if you are 1000% sure you will never do something like that the only reasonable choice is to dump anon
>>18377091
((realized as soon as i posted there may be confusion, all my fault really. only thing i hate abt the boards ¯\_(ツ)_/¯))
i see your point and i'll do what I can.
really appreciate this, thank you.
>>18377118
I thought it was clear that you're a lesbian. Apologize for stringing him along, maybe tell him you're gay? I'm straight so I have no idea how someone would take that. Either way, you have to break things off with him.