Cant get over my ex-girlfriend

This happened to me a while back as well, id say about 3 years now. I would think of her when i was alone, imagine my life with her, even plan on how to get her back, it was pure torture, my mind knew i couldn't, but as they say, the heart wants what the heart wants

Anyway, eventually i told her how i felt, and made sure she knew. We both came to terms with it
she still didnt want to be with me, so i dropped it
about a week goes by, and i notice something
i like her less and less, i can finally see her faults and shortcoming
"an angel falls from grace"
after 2+ weeks im completely over her, whereas the previous six months i couldnt

TLDR: tell her, let it sit with both of you, reconsider after some time


worst comes to worst, time heals all

>>18375196
thanks, dont know if try it.
I affraid of talking to her, her grandparent died not too long ago and i might dislike her, but dont want to burden her with this.
Feel selfish doing that.

Just be honest to her that you still love her

>>18375180
In the same boat. I dated a girl for nearly 5 years and almost got married. I regret ever breaking up with her (I was scared of marriage...). It's been two years now and we actually still live near each other and sometimes talk. She doesn't seem at all happy with her life either but she's moved on from me it seems. Everyday I still think of her and I usually cry during my morning commute. I say her name to myself when I feel lonely in the evenings, maybe hoping she will appear to help me and comfort me again like she used to.

The reality is she is a different person now then when she loved me and that person will probably never return... but to me there is still no other option. I sometimes just want to move far away or kill myself. I'm in a very bad zone. Sorry, OP...

She was never my girlfriend, but I still have oneitis for a girl I was good friends with in college and haven't seen or talked to in 4 years. Similarly unable to get over her, no matter what I've tried.

My gf of 2+ years left me a few weeks ago. It's been a rollercoaster. My idle mind wants her back, but my active mind knows better than to try, and that I can be happy without her.

I've taken steps to fill my free time by running, working out more, seeing friends more.

I think the best thing you can do is stamp out the thoughts of your ex when you notice them coming up, unless they're thoughts of her flaws and of how you are enjoying being alone.

Was there ever a time I'm your relationship that you felt like you wanted to be rid of her? You should try to grasp onto that mindset and make a conscious effort to maintain it. Much like any mental condition, you can improve by using your active thoughts to persuade your subconscious to get on board. It's got a name, doesn't it? Some sort of behavioural therapy?

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>>18375180
Holy fuck same, its midnight and just turned to June 2nd here, and in 2 days marks the 6 month anniversary of her breaking up with me. Except I'm pathetic and we only dated for 1 month
>Was friends with her before and had a crush on her for a longass time
>She already found somebody else that she's much happier with
>Told me I'm "a really good friend" and wants to "keep in touch"
>"heheh yea sure thing Brotendo
>Never told her how I feel and how much it kills me inside every time I see her but already lost a lot of friends recently and don't want to lose another

(Also thought of the 50 years have passed intro in samurai jack as a comparison for time for me and have been thinking about how I'm already at 1% of that time) Are you actually me?

>inb4 I'm pathetic
Yea ik

>>18375196
same thing with me.

We got really into our lives and how much we felt for each other still. She even said we'd meet up soon. then blocked me the next day.

ouch, now really, fuck that shit. what kind of person does that? just to drive home the "fuck anon" parade? either way, my memory boner went flaccid.

>>18375180
You must find a way to return to the past and undo the future that is you