Do you think about your crush when you masturbate? Or do you

I've gone to only thinking about my crush cause any other women seem either boring or gross.

Femanon here. I think about my crush when I masturbate for sure. What else is the point of having a crush? Lol

Girls usually masturbate looking at themselves in the mirror or while watching lesbian porn. Sorry to burst your fantasy op. No girl has ever masturbated over a guy in her life.

Female here, I think about my crush.

I can't think about my crush when I masturbate, I don't know why but it's so weird because when I'm not crushing on them I've masturbated to them before, when I do crush on them I can't. It's weird man

Used to think about a crush, then I realized it was unrequited. Last time I was fapping to porn, but as I came I thought about my most recent attraction.. though I don't wanna call her a crush, because she has a bf and I felt like a dick afterwards for it. I also have a ton of respect for her.. sadly temptation got the best of me.

>>18372827

This.

Guy here.
Shits weird.

If my crush wanted it, I'd be dtf, but generally I don't think of her like that.
For some reason, only women I don't give a fuck about are really sexually attractive to me. The moment I care it's pretty hard to keep it up.

I usually masturbate to the thought of anally or orally raping female acquaintances, I don't need any preexisting attraction to get going as long as they're not too ugly or fat.

But I could never masturbate to a genuine crush, I just don't have it in me.

>>18372412

I only masturbate to weird fetish porn in places like /d/, because a lifetime of being a lonely neet with no friends has lead to me desensitizing myself to normal pornography. Or just getting of to the fantasy of fucking normal, real life women in general.

Now I'm just worried that on the off chance I get my life together and find myself in a position to actually have sex, I wouldn't even be able to get it up.

>>18372412
Guy. I only masturbate to people I don't have a crush on (most specifically to weird fetish stuff) except for this one time I did masturbate to the girl I had a crush on.

>>18372412
Male here, if I crush on someone I literally can't masturbate to them and generally it is really hard for me to think about them sexually. My crushes are like Disney princess, if that makes any sense. When I need to masturbate to someone I generally think of a pornstar I know very well or something like that.

Male here, I refuse to masturbate to my crush because I am very superstitious. I truly believe that if I masturbate to my crush I will fuck up my chances to be with them.

Femanon here, what about if/when you're dating someone?

This thread makes me want to kick up my own habits, because even while I know my bf masturbates all the time with little boundaries (porn addict, lots of fetishes he doesn't talk about, like a teenager when home alone), I try to limit myself to only thinking of him and even avoid vaginal penetration to keep myself as tight as possible on the off chance we have sex. Should I drop my level of caring down to his, masturbate like a fiend to whoever I feel attracted to, learn my body in ways he won't take the time to and hope he notices and realizes he sucks as a lover?

How does who you think of while you masturbate effect those of you with partners?

>>18372959
Why do people like you bf get gfs? This is the real question here.

>>18372959
unless you both come to an agreement i dont see why you should confine your jerk off fantasies

>>18372962
He's had a lot of shitty relationships that resulted in him getting cheated on. So he was single for like 7 years I think before I met him. He says his high sex drive was always a problem in past relationships, and that he "doesn't want to bother me," so he gets up early to masturbate while I'm still asleep. Our relationship is great otherwise, I just feel sexually neglected.

(I posted a thread about this yesterday, to anyone who may be drawing parallels)

>>18372968
I'm going to role with this and invest in a nice little vibrator.

I'll be honest, I don't masturbate to thoughts of my husband. My b.

>>18372412
I always masturbate to a crush but never have with a guy I'm in a relationship with. I will masturbate to a crush even when I'm in a relationship. It helps with the fantasy and nearly always keeps me from cheating.

The (old?) theory was that women masturbate to thoughts of strangers while guys masturbate to women they know. As a guy I can say I masturbate to women and guys (I'm bi) that I know.

>>18372412
For a long time, I would not masturbate to women I knew in real life. The thought of it made me feel like a creep. I think this fucked me up, cause this only left celebrities, models, porn, and drawings. I'll fap now to people I know but the damaged has been done.

>>18372412
I don't really even watch porn anymore, I feel like it fucks my head up, lowers my sex drive and makes me complacent not getting pussy.
But I did watch it last summer, right before I met a girl I'm in love with. Instantly started masturbating to the thought of her. We dated for a while and I jerked it to her the whole time, then broke up in december. Hit the pussy a few times since then but I aint stop beating off to her.
I think regularly and especially exclusively masturbaring to your crush is actually bad because it puts them on a pedestal in your mind and can just fuck your game up a little. Not bad to do on occasion though.
Also, doesn't stop me from exclusively jerking off to the girl I'm in love with.

>>18372959
You can masturbate to whoever you want.
While in a relationship I rarely watch porn though,and never fantasize about another person. Because I just get really head over heels in relationships. Doesn't mean it's wrong to do otherwise however.

>>18372981
do you initiate sex?

>>18373134
I try to, but also our sex needs work because right now I feel like most of it is an act I have to put on for him. I haven't had a real orgasm in over two months.

>>18373155
if you don't take it upon yourself to fix this, your relationship will fall apart. go to counseling or at least sit down and have a frank discussion.

>>18373165
Thanks anon, it's a truth I didn't want to hear but can't deny, just gotta tell him I need more from him. If wanting more better quality sex is too much to ask for, then fuck it.

I don't think about my crushes, no, but I haven't had one in over a year anyways.

Like some other people have mentioned, my crush becomes a better person in my mind, someone to think about loving, not carnally fucking.

But that said, I have a lot of BDSM/non-consensual sex fantasies that I'd never ever bring into the bedroom, so when I fantasize, it's strictly about stuff I think could never happen.

I also jerk off to celebrities... But same thing, not gonna happen.

>>18372412
Guy here. I don't like masturbating to people I know that don't have feelings for me, it feels disrespectful somehow. Maybe I'm just a wuss though

>>18373184

I forgot to mention... I do sometimes fap to girls I used to date and such. Kinda weird. It's like, because the relationship didn't work out, I feel like I can think of them in a shitty way.