Boyfriend addicted to porn

>>18370352
>10 videos a week for months
lol what a noob

Sounds like my old room mate. I would just break up with him, he prolly has skitzo

Talk to him

>>18370372
go back to /pol/ this nigga has a mental disorder you're not going to fix

>>18370360
At least ten a month, I noticed on days he's home alone and I'm at work that can jump from anywhere between 5 and 10 videos a day.

Also he masturbates in the bathroom every morning before work for like an hour, he's not even discreet.

>>18370377
I don't know how or when to start the conversation. I was going to last week, but he kept inviting our friends over for dinner and movie nights and stuff, since then I lost what little nerve I had. I understand some of it is just from stress and lack of convenient time to have sex, but... damn. How are you going to wack it so often when you have a willing woman nearby wanting to blow your mind? It's either he's too tired, in which case I usually massage his feet and he passes out early, or I'm too tired and I go to bed frustrated.

>>18370397
are you unattractive?

>>18370352
>how do i tell him
Realize that boys arent girls and are well than capable of withstanding critique. Made up your mind. Do you like living eith manchild? How much do you love him? Did you know that when boys care about his girl, he will do his best to find compromise?

Tell him he cant continue like this and be prepared to pack your/his shit and leave. He has to realize how is he behaving and that it is not good for both him and you. Try to show hin this site.
https://yourbrainonporn.com/

>skips foreplay
>pretend to get off
Dont do this. Ever. Again.

Tell him that real sex is different and protest if he wont want to change. Make a compromise about his fapping habits. Who is more horny? You or him? Maybe forbid him to watch porn while you are home?

Seriously, use your COMMUNICATION skills and demand actions from him. And seriously dont be afraid to threaten break up.

I bet he is at that point where sex is too much bothersome compared to sex. Consider break up.

>>18370401
I do love him, and wouldn't necessarily call him a manchild. My problem is that I've pretended to be into calling him daddy and putting up with lame sex for a few months now and don't know how to break it to him that something has to change. I don't know how to approach the topic of his addiction to porn without him feeling guilty, because he told me he developed "odd tastes" when he was single for 7+ years, and I was just like "lol okay babe, it's fine." Because I'm not against porn or masturbation, it's just... he indulges way too much and I know hearing that is going to probably upset him, even though he will know it's true. I want to have this conversation as easily but directly as possible and don't know where to start.

Besides our slowly dying sex life, we're a great match, we still cuddle and say "I love you" genuinely and have real talks about the future otherwise. I feel respected and cared for in every other way besides sexually.

>>18370438
If that is true, there is no way you can hurt him so much he wont be able to recover.

You are afraid of shattering his ego by telling him he has no clue how to please you. That you were pretending he was good for few months. But guess what? Tell him it bluntly. Break him a little. Then offer him "private lessons" in exchange of him dropping his porn habits. I see no reason why wouldnt it work.

The sooner your break him, the sooner you can rebuild him. He is a man, he has ability to improve. Make a lessons for him about what you like and what you dont like.

Maybe even forbid him masturbating so much. Maybe once per day and if you are home, offer that you can give him handjob instead. Find a compromise. Addiction to porn is real.

And stop being passive. If he truly loves you, you cant hurt him so much he will leave just by being honest about his shit sexual skills.

Be assertive. Upset him. Tell him he has no clue how to make you cum. Offer to teach him and limit porn consumption in exchange for personal favors.

>>18370486
Thanks anon, I will think about "lessons" and try this.

>>18370496
And be careful with the porn usage. As you both will grow older, your bodies will one way or another change (yours even more after birth) and he can fap to 16 girls all the time. It can really get to the point where the sex will be for him worse than masturbation. And you may become insecure about your own body and that you arent attractive for him anymore. This is how dead bedrooms marriage l are made.

In ideal world, you both should asociate sex and orgasms with each other, so when anybody gets horny, they seeks the other for release. And even if you are tired on period with sore pussy, you can still do quick handjob for him and vice versa in case of erectile dysfunction.

Never allow him or yourselr to grow insecure to be sexual around each other.

Good luck on your lessons. Even if he starts raging or something, just give him space to chill out and repeat the offer.

>>18370398
Bulls eye

>>18370521
Thank you for the advice. I'm not insecure, that's why this situation is so frustrating. If he ever does stop finding me attractive, that's moreso his problem for sure, but right now I still look pretty young, he says I'm perfect for his daddy daughter kink... I do see a long-term future with this guy and I'm pretty sure he's at a point where he's scared to be alone for the rest of his life. So yeah. Communication. Gotta get on that.