Hey Yall,
So, I've been with my guy for a little over a year now. We work at the same part-time job. Lately, we haven't seen each other outside of work and we haven't been having much sex. I told him that he seems different and all he can tell me is that he doesn't mean to. I know he works a lot more than me. I hope he's just tired. What can I do? Should I be worried?
He's cheating.
Why aren't you seeing each other outside of work any more? What happens when you try to initiate sex?
You said you both work at a part time job? Does he work somewhere else too? Maybe he's tired and stressed about something.
>>18367847
I don't really know. We just moved into the same neighborhood. When we do see each other it's just for a few hours before one of us it tired. The last time we had sex it was short and unfulfilling.Sometimes the request just gets shrugged off.
>>18367863
He might be depressed. Or just not interested you anymore. Or a combo of both.
It is not normal for a guy to brush off sex, even if he is tried. The most exhausted day laborer will summon the strength to fuck his bitch. Your dude's got some problems. If you can't force him to confront them for your sake, and the sake of your relationship, then it's on you to bail and find a dude who isn't being a clammed up bitch.
>>18367851
He works for the local parks. He keeps invasive species at bay. He does work a lot and keeps active. But I just want him to put some energy into our relationship.
>>18367873
I know he had a relative pass recently. He did say he was grieving...
Keep trying to communicate with him, hug him, kiss him, try sucking his dick. Show that you care.
If he doesnt change, then you might have a serious problem.
I have the same problem with my *girlfriend. But our relationship is death. We live together, our communication is minumal, no intimacy. Sucken sucks. I tried to ask her what was wrong but she didnt open up.. :/.
Best of luck
I'm coming from a place of pain but dump him. Aint no dick made of gold and all.
>>18367927
Cool I'm heart broken too, wanna fuck?
>>18367931
Oh poor baby. I bet you want to get pegged
>>18367937
Wait wtf how did you know
w-what's your name
>>18367937
Nothing wrong with that :/
>>18367817
he has other pusy
im sry OP