Sorry for the long post. How do I deal with this situation? Am

>>18366057

>amy, emma and kylie
>coulda just said 'my ex and my new gf'
>emma doesn't even exist in this story

>>18366057
Where tf is Emma?

>>18366080
>>18366111
guys OP is in the middle of writing his story
get your popcorns.

Continued

I was already having trouble with my current friend group and didn't need people who could potentially be friends think I'm an asshole. So I unblocked Kylie, just to try make things civil and friendly. Here comes my mistake I changed her name on my phone so Amy wouldn't notice. I just didn't want Amy to come across it and it to cause a fight. I literally just did it to try and make things civil.

Anyway Amy came across it eventually and lost her shit with me. Even though she read the messages and nothing was dodgey at all. Fair enough, I was wrong for hiding it from her but I wasn't really doing anything wrong. I just didn't want her to be irrationally upset and I didn't want my ex to be spreading shit about me and influencing other people's opinions of me before I've even met them.
I explained this all to Amy and eventually everything calmed down. I thought it was evidence enough that I turned Kylie down 3 times.

Now let's talk about Emma.

Emma and I took the same classes a few years back and she was good friends with some of my friends. We drunkenly made out like twice 4 years ago, but other than that it is a pretty platonic relationship. I'm pretty good friends with Emma and have been for 3 years. We talk to each other about family stuff, work and try give each other relationship advice. Just nice to have a female perspective on some things.

Anyway when I first started dating Amy, I introduced her to Emma and my other friends. I just wanted her to like my friends and for everyone to get along. I used to chill with Emma every now and then, sometimes study together. Amy seemed totally chilled with it, until one day when Amy wasnt in town and Emma asked if I could help her move some stuff into her new place. I helped her out, she said her family were going to the beach later and invited me. I had nothing else to do and Amy wasn't around to invite or do anything with. So I went, Amy asked what I was up to, I told her
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Look man whose sucking dick and swallowing I don't gives a fuck about all that other shit. Tell one of them bitches to Tex u on one of those secret apps jerk face

>>18366126
Amy proceeds to lose her shit with me. Basically tells me that she feels like I spend way to much time with Emma and that she feels like I'm emotionally cheating on her etc.

This is all bs. Amy basically lives with me when she's in town.

Amy had this one guy friend who asked her out a couple of times and she rejected, when we started dating he used to come over every now and then but he would blatantly try and flirt with her infront of me, so I told Amy that it makes me uncomfortable. She asked what she could do about it, I said nothing it isn't her fault I'm just telling her because it makes me feel uncomfortable.

So Amy brought that conversation up that had with her and said that she had stopped spending time with that guy(I didn't ask her to) and now she wants me to not spend time with Emma because it makes her feel uncomfortable. So we have a huge fight and reluctantly agree to not spending one on one time with Emma .

Fast forward 2 months or so. We bump into Emma at a bar. She tells me that we don't spend time with each other anymore and she doesn't know why and feels like she's losing friends.

I feel bad and have been spending way too much time with Amy so I ask Emma if she wants to meet up and get coffee and go study somewhere. Amy asked me where I was going and I lied and said I was meeting up with a guy friend (I just didn't want to cause unnecessary drama) Amy then goes through my phone later on and finds out that I lied to her and completely loses her shit with me.

I don't know what to do. Why do I feel like I have to lie when I just want to spend time with my friend? What can I do? Am I wrong?

>>18366148
Put a password on your phone.

>>18366157
I did. She sometimes asks to use my phone for something so I have to tell her the password. If I don't it just makes it look like I am hiding something

here is some advice: learn to trim your fucking story. you do not type fast enough to justify this much fucking text.

for example
>break up wtih ex
>start seeing new gf
>exwants to be friends but i dont
>i pretend to be friends to keep it civil
>new gf doesn't like that
>i block the ex
>later unblock her cuz i dont want her gossiping about me behind my back
>new gf sees this and loses her shit
>when new gf is out of town i go hang out with platonic female friend by the beach
>new gf throws a fit about this too

done.

>>18366162
Sorry English is my 3rd language so I guess I sometimes struggle trying to summarise things while still getting the point across

>>18366177
English is my 5th language and I just gave you an example.

>>18366148
Your two and only mistakes are
>lying to gf
>not letting gf know that you will do whatever you want to, and if she gives you shit for it, when you tell her not to worry, it's no contact time