ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

1. sup boyos

2. Do men actually care about women's finger nails? I look at nail polish and manicure prices while waiting at the salon and am blown away that people would spend that much money on those things.

Guys: How long does it usually take you to get over a relationship? I know you probably can't ever fully but when's enough time that you're feeling fine and can date again?

Any girls here actually willing to fuck other men if it was ok for your boyfriend?

I am short and very ugly, but I have a pretty fit body (visible abs, been lifting for 3 years now). Could I pull an average girl that just cares about my body? I'm so desperate I'd honestly wear a bag if it made her feel better.

>>18364810
No, I couldn't care less about nails in all honesty. I always assumed women did it because other women look.

>>18364814
Took me 3 weeks, give or take a couple of days.

>>18364817
How short and how ugly? Pics.

>>18364823
How long was the relationship?

>>18364816

Plenty of women would do that even if its NOT okay with their boyfriend.

That said, I wouldn't. I prefer guys who are possessive. """""Cucks"""" gross me out, and they get off on that anyway.

Women

Do you ever feel like cheating? And if so, why?

>>18364826
4 years, 3 living together.

>>18364831
I did once.
Because I was unhappy and lonely, and felt very bad about myself. I wanted someone to make me feel loved and desirable.

>>18364834
Wow and it only took 3 weeks? After all those years?

>>18364831
No, never. When I was dating my ex I did get a couple of crushes but I ignored them until they went away. I never felt the urge to cheat.

How do I make myself approachable? I consider myself pretty normal in terms of appearance and dress; I don't overdo it, but I try to keep in shape and wear appropriate clothing. However, I feel as though people naturally avoid me regardless of circumstances, even when I feel as though the conversation was going well. Am I just ugly? Could it be body language?

>>18364843
Facial expression, tone etc is where it's at.

>>18364831

Not REALLY because loyalty matters too much to me. I sometimes wonder if I could "do better" though. And I hate myself for feeling that way.

>>18364825
Shorter than most young females. No pics, but it's not acne or bad skin or anything like that, just completely fucked facial proportions, shitty beard, no chin, fucked up teeth.

>>18364843
Maybe you smell bad?

>>18364843
Smile and be nice.

>>18364839
I had/have a lot going on in my life. Done with uni, working full time, etc. What really helped was having a lot of friends, both men and women. Makes you realise that you can't focus on the past, you have to let go. It's the best for both of you. I still love her but I definitly don't want to be in a relationship with her.

>>18364846
I think this may be it. Thank you, my friends.

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>>18364847
>I sometimes wonder if I could "do better" though. And I hate myself for feeling that way.

>tfw think that about my gf every couple of weeks
>also not sure how i feel about her anymore and feel too guilty about those feelings to leave since shes such a sweet person

I just don't know what to do anymore. Maybe things would be better if she actually enjoyed sex and didn't hate so many movies and talk about social problems in the world so much.

>>18364854
My ex could have written something similar about me. He ended up cheating on me. If you have talked about your problems and nothing changed, consider breaking up. Resentment kills relationships. By the time I had become a better girlfriend he didn't care about me anymore.

>>18364806
Girls, my gf and I's bedroom romance is super dead. Like sex once every other month if I am lucky. I have talked to her about it, and she just withdraws from the conversation, or hides behind the most convenient excuse.

Of course she masterbates twice a week, waiting until I have homework or I am at work to go back and have a quick zip.

Any advice for how to bring the focus back to us? The lack of physical affection is making me depressed, stressed about my appearance, and its leading me to question my entire identity as a person.

I called female friend a slut in a playful way and she's super upset about this, my roommate called her a slut as a joke and she called him a sperg and it's like banters for them
wtf

>>18364862
I'm getting close. She's pissed me off a few times with some subjects she picks, her poor time management and her indecisiveness and has especially done so recently. I'm pretty sure her family thinks I'm just an annoyed and quiet asshole since usually when I see them I've been messed around and don't want to be social anymore.

I'm also afraid deep down that I won't find anyone else. Going out and dating again after 4 years just feels impossible.

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How do i not run out of things to talk about on a date?

>>18364830
>Plenty of women would do that even if its NOT okay with their boyfriend.
wtf do you mean plenty of women would reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

>>18364869
Talk to her. If nothing improves, leave. In the end it's the best.

Imagine if she dumped YOU first?

>>18364869
>I'm also afraid deep down that I won't find anyone else
Yikes, I'm pretty sure that's why my ex stayed too. Are you actually happier with her than you would be if you were single?

Also, I think she deserves the chance to date someone who actually wants to be with her.

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Alright so here is my flatmate problem

She is a girl, I'm a guy, (28 and 26)
>We are living together for 6 months
>Became good friends
>Little bit of sexual teasing
>Met a new girl, we hang out together with my flatmate in a bowling club
>Flatmate decided to leave in a hurry, I asked her jokingly if she is running to see her show on TV
>She lashed back at me that she has to work tomorrow
>At home she got really angry at me screaming to get out of her room
>When I asked her what did I do wrong, she screamed that I asked her very rudely about the show
>"if I can't go and leave anytime I want, are we inseparable?!"

She seems still pissed off, shes also on her period mind you, but is she getting jealous, was my comment just bad, or is there any reason why she is acting like that ?

>>18364884
I've talked to her but yet here we are again. I doubt she'd leave me though, she considers me the only decent guy she's ever met and is head over heels for me. Which again adds to my guilt.

>>18364885
>Are you actually happier with her than you would be if you were single?
Well I think I am. My days would be empty without her.

>Also, I think she deserves the chance to date someone who actually wants to be with her.
It's not that I don't want to be with her, I just wish she was, idk, better I guess? I know people make mistakes but I'm sick of friends pulling this shit on me as well and a relationship shouldn't be this way either. Is making decisions and being on time that much to ask from people? It feels like it is.

>>18364889
>It's not that I don't want to be with her
>I just wish she was someone she's not
So, you don't want to be with her.

How much have you talked about it with her?

>>18364895
Oh nvm, I just read what you said to the other guy, so ignore the last part.

>>18364895
>It's not that I don't want to be with her
>I just wish she was someone she's not
wow i didnt know someone being on time instead of late makes them a totally different person

GIRLS

I have recently started seeing a girl.
This girl has never texted me first, even though we're at the stage where we've had sex.
I have always been the one to initiate a conversation through text, and we usually chat for a bit back and forth with smileys etc.

Now, i started really thinking about why she never text me first.
Could it be because she gets satisfaction from me thinking about her?
Could it be because she is too busy?
If any of you have ever done this to a guy (ie. never really texted first, but just waited for him to text you), what was your intention in doing so?

Also, before you say she probably isn't into me, when we're together she comes off as really satisfied (laughing a lot) in my company, and she say i'm a pretty good lay, but i guess it's possible...

>>18364895
I'd just like her to try harder. She's made changes in other ways so it's not impossible for her to change but I'm just getting tired of it lately. I've ghosted her for the last few days to see if she'd bother reaching out but as yet there's nothing. I'm of course usually the one that has to make first contact with everyone I know.

I guess since I have to deal with this shit with friends, it just bugs me that my girlfriend is being just as bad with it.

From what I can tell, I am a good looking guy, but I have no confidence with girls. Wat do?

>>18364895
>could you please try to be on time?
>DONT TRY TO CHANGE ME I AM WHO I AM

>>18364900
are you kidding
the time someone does something is a major aspect to define a person

>>18364922
if someone is late to work theyre going to get fucking fired arent they, so what do they do? get fired or get there on time? being late isnt a personality trait

Girls

What dick size do you consider passable and what size do you consider nice?

>>18364932
Passable - between 4" and 8"
Nice - around 6".

>>18364911

I'm a guy, but I'll tell you something anyway. "Confidence" needs something to stand on. Think about what you are good at, and bring that confidence over to other aspects of your life.

Go somewhere where you can have fun, enjoy yourself, and you'll be attractive. Don't focus so much on meeting girls. Focus on being a good catch.

>>18364817
Girls care a lot about height and face, way more than your body.

>>18364930

Not that Anon, but really? You are going to compare your relationship to a job? Must be fun to date you.

>>18364940
must be fun to date you too if you dont show up on time. seeing a movie with you must be pure joy since we get to see just the ending.

>>18364948

Just saying, but if you know she will be late, why make it a movie date? What's wrong with eating out, netflix and chill, or any other activity with no time limit?

Females

Do you poop? Be honest.

>>18364953
Yes. One cool thing about being female is I'm already seated to pee, so I don't have to pee and then turn around (do guys do this?), and I can give a push while on the pot to see if there's a secret poop in there or not.

>>18364951
so you're saying to never do anything that has a set time because she cant figure out what a watch is?

Girls,

what would you do if you found illegal porn on your friends computer? (CP)

Would it make a difference if your friend was either male or female?

>>18364957
>so I don't have to pee and then turn around (do guys do this?)
Kek no, we sit and aim it down to pee then let the shit drop.

>>18364960

Or try to keep them to a minimum. As the other Anon said, if you want to change her, then you don't really like "her". She is always late, that's how she is. If you don't like it, fire her.

Girls
How important is it that the man is more of the alpha/provider.
It gets confusing become half the time women complain about wanting to be independent and yet they still feel like men should open doors or pay and stuff. Which would you rather have.

>>18364951
Are you being serious?

>>18364964
Actually we real men poop and then turn around and try to cut the log in half with out pee.

>>18364965
so workplaces should change to meet late workers?
theatres should just wait for people to show up whenever?

>>18364968

Dude, are you perfect? Do you really think she doesn't make compromises for you?

If you can't deal with her personality, then dump her. You are the one that brought that comparison, so own up to it.

>>18364970
*our

>>18364970
Lumberjacks are the manliest men.

>>18364970
Maybe if you're 12.

>>18364972

Is your relationship a job?

Also, this was for you. >>18364973

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>>18364977
Says the 11 year old

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>>18364973
>being on time is a personality trait

i just cut in front of someone at a 3way stop because i failed to see them driving a while. im pretty sure they took my plates. can they do shit about this if an officer was there? there was a witness there too

>>18364983

It's a decision. She knows she is late and she still does it. She wants to be like this. If you can't deal with that, again, dump her. But changing people NEVER works. Specially for something so dumb.

And again, are YOU perfect?

>>18364985
i meant if an office WASN'T there

>>18364810
no. i like natural nails.

>>18364810
Sup.

No. You need functional vagina. Pretty nails? For what?

>>18364814
Range from 1 hour to decades. Depends on how whiny the guy is.

>>18364817
Date her >>18364647 single moms need love and your money too. Or be more confident and see for yourself. Post photo?

>>18364843
Dudes are cowards. You may be too beuatiful or too ugly or too fat. Or you simply expect guys to hit on you on street. Too much estrogen in the water for that to happen. Try online dating and social events you hate.

>>18364863
It takes two to fix and keep relationship going. If she doesnt trust you, is super insecure or too lazy, only real solution is to drop her.

Do you even do oral on her?

>>18364865
Girls allows attractive dudes anything. You simply arent attractive. Bad luck bro.

>>18364872
Read a book. And remember that sometimes being quiet is ok too.

>>18364887
Girls hate competition. And being on period doesnt help either. Consider getting more stable roommate or give her the D and make her your gf.

>>18364903
It is mostly boys responsibility to ask girls on dates and keep the stuff going. Some girls are super passive. Dont overthink problems and ask her on date.

>>18364911
Try no fap no porn. Use sexual frustration as motivation. Worth a try.

>>18364962
Adopt encryption or die in jail. Your choice.

>>18364966
Girls are illogical. They want both. So assert your dominance, spank them in bed, tell them to make you sandwich and sometimes buy them flowers and treat them like human beings from time to time.

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What is 'cheating' to you in a relationship/marriage?

>>18365058

If you feel like you have to ask that, then it's cheating.

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>>18365058
cheating is when the wife gets fat

>>18364983
Yes, it means they're considerate and value other's time. I doubt the only thing she does is being late, she's probably inconsiderate in other ways.

>>18365064
I'm asking where do you draw the line between cheating and not cheating. Your opinion.

>>18365073

What do you want to do? Or what did you do? There's a reason you are asking.

>>18365077
maybe it is the picture he attached? do you have a brain?

I swear, sometimes I feel this thread should be called "validate what I think or I'll get pissy".

>>18365087

Then he can tell us. I'm in no rush.

>>18365095
If you feel like you have to ask that, then it's cheating.

>>18365095
or it should be called "accept my opinion as the final truth or I will get pissy"

>>18365067
how is that cheating

>>18365077
>>18365107
What do I want to do? I want to ask people in this thread where they define cheating. What is your problem?

I had sex with this girl for the first time (a friend told me this qt had a crush on me so I made a move). She seemed into it more than I was, (wet, shaking, blushing and all), and that is good. Problem is I don't know how to politely say this but her vagina looks unpleasant to me. Of course I didn't tell her this, I still perform to the extent of my capability (all positions, stay hard, stay focused). I want to be a good lover to her, I like her personality, her look (except for her vag). How do I deal with her vagina looking kinda gross? I tried maintaining eye contact, and she was beautiful but occasionally I slipped, I looked down, it's like something is eating my dick. I sighed, she seemed to think that was me cumming, more like squirming. But due to training, I could still stay hard. But I don't want to break up because of this, I probably can't tell her because it just seems really mean thing to say to a young girl.

Girls, do you ever talk about anything other than Chad messaging/dumping you with your friends?

>>18365125

Oh, I thought you had a siuation to solve. Sorry to be a bother. Good luck in your survey, though.

>>18365170
Yes.
Depending on the friends - fun shit that happened to me, sports, politics, philosophy, books, trips, art, make up/skincare, sciencey stuff.

What themes can I bring up to chat with girls? I am pretty boring and find it hard to keep a conversation.

>>18365175
>sports, politics, philosophy, books, trips, art, make up/skincare, sciencey stuff
whoa

The conversations I have with my friends are about girls and, well, homework assignments. Don't have time for anything else.

Give it to me straight. As a black man, how fucked am I when it comes to women? I can date anyone as long as they're not black or asian.

>>18365191
I hate talking about relationship stuff with my friends, so I try to avoid it as much as humanly possible.

>>18365190
girls seem to like classical stuffs (art, mechanic, real analysis, music), I guess these are fundamental and easier to enjoy? like back then everything was simpler.

>>18365196
I am white. I wouldn't date a black guy.

>>18365200
not relationship
girls
like objectification of attractive females we know in our school
check out K's new instagram post, whoa look at those tits, ridiculous stuffs etc.

>>18365155
I mean this in the nicest way possible, but you might be gay. What's wrong with her vagina? what's gross looking about it?

>>18365206
Yeah my friends graduated from high school so we don't really talk about how cute boys are.

Girls

How do you feel about being cummed inside? Is it whatever, do you like it?

A girl peed in my toilet but didn't flush. What does it mean?

>>18365155
Don't hurt her, accept her. Be happy you have someone who actually likes you. Some of us wish we were in such a relationship, in which the girl ACTUALLY has feelings for you.

>>18365196
I'm the same thb

for men.

how do you live with yourselves after using women for sex?

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Hey girls and women, serious question:

Would you date or marry a NEET guy? If no, why? If yes, under which conditions?

Please be completely honest.

>>18365115
I didn't even participate in the cheating discussion, I agree that that's usually (if not always) the case.

>>18365225
It's not "being used" if you enjoy it.

>>18365196
I'm also black but I'm exclusively into white women.

fug

>>18364810
As long as your nails and toenails aren't all fucked up... I've seen girls do them quickly at home and it's good enough for me.

>>18364865
Maybe they are closer friends? Or he is Chad.

>>18364872
Talk about OKStupid's questions.

>>18364985
If there was no crash, no.

>>18365217
It means she is a pig.

>>18365211
It's the best feeling ever.

>>18365225
I once got head from a friend twice. Both times I had a nervous breakdown. I wasn't over my ex and I was a shut-in desperate to forget his ex. I felt like in a way, I had used her. But I did everything in my power to remain friends with her, and even told her eventually we'd be a couple, but I wasn't mentally stable enough for it then. By the time I was, she went off and fucked some guy she never told me about. Today, they're still together I think, and in a way, I find it comforting.

>>18365208
No, that's not it. I am attracted to girls. And I am 100% attracted to this girl in particular, when she has clothes on, or half naked . I watch lots of straight porn too.
It's hard to describe, It's fleshy and, I actually don't have problem with innies or outies. But this one isn't simply innies or outies.

>>18365225

How do you live with yourself if you can only see people as stereotypes? Not all men are the same.

There's this girl that I like but I'm a socially awkward, shy mess of a guy. I've only built up the courage to talk to her once irl but even then it was a brief conversation about college. We are both in a group on GroupMe, however, and I can privately message her through that. My question is then, is it creepy or weird if I send her a message through that? Something along the lines of how shy I am and that I've been wanting to get to know her. Maybe asking her to hang out sometime. Also I figured out her Snapchat username but I know adding her out of the blue like that is totally out of the question.

>>18365252
>but I'm a socially awkward, shy mess of a guy
Don't bother.

>>18365227

Nobody would date or marry NEETs?

>>18365208
also I've seen vaginas like hers in porn. I'm trying to remember where exactly. But it's good that she isn't having defects or anything

>>18365056
Yeah i eat pussy

>>18365263
rich people needing sex slaves

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How do I get a qt gf like this?

>>18365245
Maybe she's asking the men who do use women for sex? It's pretty darn common.

>>18365232
you fucking lied to me. fuck you.

>>18365271

So, not women, right?

Girl I'm dating got upset at me for not taking her seriously ( it was over nothing really but the principle of it made her mad). Went and got food and they forgot something in the order she thought so she wanted go back but I was confident they didn't so we went back to her place and she just called me out for brushing her off and not taking her seriously.

We talked for a while and she mentioned there were things she's starting to notice about me that annoyed her and maybe wanted to slow it down and not hang as much.

It's a silly situation I know and it's my first relationship I'm trying to work on but see something in it and don't want these small fuck ups to the downfall.

Talk to her more about it? She was kinda Drunk so I'm sorta not taking her wanting to spend less time together seriously because she says stuff that she doesn't really mean sometimes

>>18365227
Nope.

>>18365280
why exactly?

>>18365277
Show her you do take her seriously and respect her.
Instigate a debate about something and then appear to be swung by her opinion.

How do you know if it's okay to ask your SO to change something about themself?
The extremes are clear- like if you were dating a smoker and wanted them to quit for their health and your life together that's cool. And if you asked a girl to get a boob job that's not cool.
But I feel like it's a grey area around stuff like asking your SO to dress differently, or behave differently or something. Is there a hard and fast rule?

>>18365291
You don't. You accept them for who they are.
Unless they were different when you started dating them and then changed, you accept them for who they are.

You might compliment them or bring up how much you like them when they do X, but you don't ask them to change for you.

I still live with my parents (24 y/o, not neet, but London's a bitch). I'm starting to date someone (she's a year older) who has her own place. Usually we hang out there, but sometimes at mine when my family are out.
Here's the question: should I invite her to hang when they're in? Don't want to be like super fast meet the parents, but don't want to make it seem like a big deal either, or like I'm hiding her.

>>18365294
I think that's a bit idealistic. My dad used to have anger issues, my mum told him to sort it out and change that part of him. Problem solved.
My ex was really messy. I said I didn't like living in the mess and could she be more tidy. She managed to keep the messiness out of the bedroom at least. Again, problem solved.

>>18365273
Why can't women be qt anymore? Just look at that.

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>>18365273
Soon.

>>18365277
my gf is quite young (18 and a half), I think I might have had this problem, but it sort of went away when I taught her "serious adult" mathematics, I told her only professionals use these techniques. That's not quite a lie either, I taught her enough to deduce the rest of third year analysis course while she's a first year bio major. And I don't know much about what she studies, so I ask her about those occasionally, she's usually very enthusiastic to teach me what she knows.

Girls

If you were to have sex with a guy that happens to be a virgin, would you prefer him being a virgin or having some experience? I'm seeing this girl and I'm a virgin at 24, so I'm considering just getting a hooker to get the nerves out for the first time with her.

>>18365291

You can't tell them to give up smoking. You can ask then not to do it at home, but they can smoke where it doesn't bother you if they want.

>>18365308
Don't get a hooker. No girl wants a guy who's been with a hooker.

>>18365311
I don't know about that. If I'm in a serious relationship with someone, we're planning on marrying etc, I don't think it's unreasonable to expect them to take care of their health.
I don't want our potential children's parent to die aged 55 or some shit from lung cancer.

>>18365312
lol good thing I didn't tell my girl

>>18365317

You knew she was a smoker from the get go. If she doesnt want to stop, she can keep the habit.

>>18365312
This.

Why exactly, are black men into white women?

>>18365319
This was just a hypothetical. Maybe I didn't know she/he was a smoker. Anyway, everyone smokes when they're in uni/young. I don't think expecting someone to put aside a dangerous and expensive habit is too much to ask as you move into a mature relationship, planning for the long haul.
I'm a smoker (and female) and I'd give it up for a guy in a ltr.

>>18365323
>>18365312
what if it's just a high class student escort who happens to go to the same university.
This chick is giving me a really tempting offer, also I only have to pay 30% of her usual fee. And she's super hot.

>>18365324
Apart from most people liking a variety of races as long as the person is attractive, and falling for individual persons;
>white women are most universally depicted as desirable and beautiful, and what we are attracted to is influenced by exposure
>the taboo factor of a black man with a white woman

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>>18365324
What do you think? Like honestly?

>>18365308
Okay first of all, when people talk about "experience" they aren't talking about the literal mechanics of putting your dick in a vagina. Chances are you'll blow your load in this paid girl in no time, you'll feel too awkward too ask for feedback or she feels pressured to go "oh no, you were great" (or just kicks you out because she doesn't get paid for constructive criticism) and whereas you might (MIGHT) experience a mental difference from technically having fucked, you will not have gained any worthwhile experience whatsoever. What's more, there's a good chance that you will still feel as nervous with the girl you're dating because you have an emotional investment and her judgment/satisfaction holds more weight to you.

It is also true that most women are entirely turned off by the idea of a man having paid for sex. I personally don't have fucks to give as long as it wasn't some child hooker but it has sleazy and desperate connotations to many.

>>18365331

I don't smoke and never had. I'm 25, finishing college. Not everyone does it.

Also, how do you get into a serious relationship and only then notice your patner smokes?

It's fine if you are willig to give it up, but don't make that choice for others. This applies to any habit you might want to have them change.

>>18365334
Even more no.
>anonymity compromised
>she may blackmail you
>more of a betrayal to your girl

>>18365350
Obviously 'everyone' was is a hyperbolic sense.
Again, it was a hypothetical but people do hide these things.
Not being willing to change a habit like this endangers your relationship and makes you a bit of a dick imho.

>>18365273
>>18365344
Who are these?

>>18365304
I think a key element here is that you are talking about pretty much universally undesirable qualities here. No woman is going to love anger issues in a man. Hell, no employer or friend is going to appreciate it, either. Sure it can be hurtful if someone points out to you that you have a flaw you need to work on. But if you're a mature person you can also appreciate that someone is pushing you to grow and be better.

That's entirely different from wanting a person not so much to improve on something but to change from A to B because you have a preference for B.

If someone starts dating me I assume that they are okay with the way I carry myself, dress and so on. Voicing a preference is fine, as long as he legitimately leaves it to me whether I want to do anything with that information. And as long as it's still feasible - telling me you love curly hair and would be all over it if I curled mine, is entirely different from being vocal about a preference for a certain type of body I simply cannot ever possess. In the latter example there is potential for resentment, insecurity etc building, whereas there is no positive outcome at all from letting me know I don't fall in your preferred category concerning something outside of my control.

So for me I guess the difference is mainly whether you are putting it out there and seeing what she thinks, or -expecting- her to become someone she never used to be to fit an ideal in your head. And ultimately the person you are dating gets to have the last say. Some women are entirely fine with their husband buying them fake tits.

>>18365353
Sorry I'm not the virgin anon with a gf. My last relationship was 2014 though. I'm just curious about this escort girl at my uni. Are you saying that will blow my chance with some other girl I'm having a crush on?
I mean I intend to ask her out, but I also like to try the escort girl first before I got in a relationship (she's very attractive and expensive but I got student's price lol)
Also she seems nice and professional, blackmail?

For boys, could you ever see yourself with a woman who has a child?

>>18365357

Why? Also, I've never met a smoker that hides it. They usually smoke whenever they want and are pretty mindful as to avoid bothering others.

But as you say, that's hypotetical. Tje thesis is: if they don't want to change, you can't make them.

>>18365368
whose child?

>>18365225
for women,

how do you live with yourselves after being used by men who don't care who you are, what your life is about, and only want you because they want to release an urge?

>>18365373
You cannot be used for sex if all you ever wanted from that person in the first place was sex.

>>18365324
It's a problem in the black community. Ask a black woman and she will tell you all about it.

>>18365155
Does it really matter? Just pick your duck inside it and don't worry what it looks like unless it's smelly.

>>18365372
Not yours.

>>18365376
I wanted something real and meaningful. All he ever wanted from beginning to end was sex.

>>18365344
who dat

>>18365196
>>18365224
>>18365235

>*/pol/ here*

No white woman with any self respect would touch a hideous ape.

>>18365312
Why is it so bad? Surely beats fucking up.

>>18365378
it doesn't smell bad, in fact it smells good
And yes, inside her feels good, that is why I was hard. Sex was still very good. In retrospect, we are not hopeless or dysfunctional, just minor inconvenience.
You are right, that's what I did, too, I tried not to look at it.
I'm considering blindfold if she asks me to eat her out. Hope she's into that.

>>18365196
>>18365235
Why can't you guys handle a queen?

>>18365391
It's a combination of the key and lock type of logic (a real man wouldn't have trouble seducing a woman for sex, let alone stooping down to compensating her financially for putting up with him) and just the general sleaziness associated with prostitution - STDs, drug addiction, the idea that you're putting it in a pussy that has seen god knows how many dicks that very day etc.

>>18365392
I think you are more likely to grow used to it if you don't give in to your distaste. It's not like you get a good overall look of her pussy when you're all up in there eating her out, try to focus on her smell, softness, wetness etc. It is still unclear to me what exactly is wrong ("meaty"?) but the human mind is flexible. Try to have good experiences interacting with her pussy and it should grow on you.

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>>18365386
Why would you say that....

>>18365395
>idea that you're putting it in a pussy that has seen god knows how many dicks that very day etc.

Not that Anon, but that does sound like what men would think, not women.

>>18365379
I could be with her, ok.
But can I still date other girls?

>>18365401
It's absolutely something that women think as well. Prostitution is legal where I live so it comes up now and then (potentially dating someone who's been with a hooker).

I bet no woman would feel this way about her own vagina even if she was a whore, because it's your own body regardless of what happens to it, but thinking about the concept in a detached way it can gross out women as well.

Why do white men have such a big problem with white women dating black men??

>>18365400
He's saying this because it provides him a world view in which he doesn't have to miss out on quality women because of his racial hang ups. Facing that plenty of attractive, self-respecting women do not find race a dealbreaker or even a factor is painful in comparison because it means facing that you narrow down your dating pool and that your beliefs are far from universal, even among people you otherwise respect or look up to.

>>18365411

To be fair, I don't think that about the vaginas I'm into. I give even less thought to the how many vaginas the other dicks have been into.

For men.

do you have problems with women of a particular race, culture or religion?

>>18365426
Most men don't, you would just think otherwise if you spend too much time on here. Then again to many people there's a difference between a woman who has lived her life and experienced some romance here and there, or someone for who getting railed by an unknown man is literally business as usual and on-going throughout the work day.

>>18365428
In terms of attractiveness or just in general?

>>18365411
>Prostitution is legal where I live
Same here. I think most guys tried it at some point, it's like a rite of passage in my case. I'm talking like, moving into a new institute, I'm the new addition, the senior guys (i'm talking mathematicians, engineers, manager) told me to try "it" out after our conference, the girls would come in. It just happens. It's pretty good sex, too.

>>18365411
Filipino? Thai?

>>18365418
I'm curious about this as well.

>>18365344
She is really good looking.

>>18365437
Dutch, actually.

>>18365436
It's actually still more taboo than might be expected here. I think this is more the case among young people than among adults, though. It is hardly talked about despite many accounts from the sex workers expressing that no, they are not just being solicited by tourists and old men but also regular fathers, younger guys etc.

I guess it doesn't help that there's a lot of media coverage and as it turns out it remains an on-going struggle trying to make sure that the girls working are doing so voluntarily. And it probably depends entirely on the crowd as well, the guys I am most friendly with are all university educated and grew up with middle class culture. I can imagine it would be a different issue in other scenes.

>>18365418
>>18365440
If you ask me it ultimately has to do with the stereotype that black men are hypermasculine and hypersexual. Also the big dick trope.
No fucks are given about white women dating Asian men because those aren't regarded as competition. And some guys might try to argue stats in terms of criminal record etc, but at the end of the day if you date a black man you are dating a person and not some mean based on statistics. Not to mention if you compare women and men, women already date thugs by definition as men are hugely overrepresented in terms of criminal activity.

Sure for some it's no doubt hardcore racist disgust and not seeing black men as really human. But I don't think that's the majority.

>>18365349
Well I am 24 so I guess I do qualify as desperate. But your logic seems ok.

>>18365451
>to make sure that the girls working are doing so voluntarily
you mean they are not? lol
I sometimes hate my job, too I could say I'm not doing my job voluntarily. But most of the time I like it. Perhaps it's the same with prostitutes, they have good customers and bad customers.

>>18365463
I'm talking about willingly opting for a job that will ask a lot of you, and being a victim of human trafficking.

I am not against prostitution being legalized because I think it's even more difficult to regulate human trafficking otherwise, and because it puts them in a very vulnerable position. In countries where prostitution is illegal it is common for prostitutes to be raped if they are caught by police, because they have no legal leverage to do anything against it. What's more, I think a lot of shit jobs involve an element of desperation and people should be allowed to stoop there. If you have an active addiction and a young child, no education, you cannot simply get a factory job and be done with it. Not to mention the desire for human touch is ingrained in our being and it seems a win-win if someone is willing to sell their body and the other to pay for it.

But it's more than just a job that has downsides. If you are a prostitute there isn't just the threat of bodily harm or assault (they all have emergency buttons in case a customer tries to kill them or whatever), but also the on-going humiliation. You are literally standing behind a window presenting yourself as a product to be bought, with men staring, jerking off if they can manage to do so stealthily, laughing and pointing, doing weird dances to ridicule your attempts to look sexy and alluring, videotaping you, knocking on the window and so on.

I can imagine that being a high class escort who can afford to be picky and demanding about her clients could be fun to some woman. Being a run off the mill prostitute, not so much.

>>18365474
I see.
really made me think.

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>>18365428

>>18365514
eh isnt she on backpage selling pusy now

>>18365399
thanks for the suggestion. I believe I could do it. Hell I'm ok with almost fully clothed sex or cuddling, or doggy style, any type of intimacy that doesn't require a frontal view. Although it's best for both of us that she doesn't ask me to eat her out haha I'm not good at that, probably would screw something up.

>>18365535
Don't suggest stuff like almost fully clothed sex. If she realizes you dislike the sight of her pussy so much that you would rather go for something like that than deal with it, it'll give her a complex and honestly even if only one in a thousand men could cope with her looks down there she would still only damage her odds by becoming weird about it herself as well. And that's assuming the worst case scenario.

You don't get good at eating people out if you never get practice. Do what works for you, but stuff like that is a way to enjoy cool stuff her vagina does/is (other than literally being inside of it) without staring at it. It's really cool to see someone you're crazy about lose their mind being on the receiving end of such direct pleasure.

Gals.

I am 21 and already going bald. Will love elude me forever?

>>18365555
You're not alone in that, although it's unfortunately young. Think of it this way, when you are middle aged you are already 100% comfortable with your lack of hair because you grew used to it while you were still fresh faced, and all your fellow men who only just start to bald will have an identity crisis.

No one dates, let alone loves, someone based on an arbitrary set of standards. You are not "a bald guy". You are an individual with a whole range of qualities and things to offer, who also happens to be bald(ing). If a girl is interested in you and would prefer you with hair, tough shit, you're one of a kind, she can either have someone with a full head of hair or she can have you. And if someone is really into you, they'll want you.

Besides, human sexuality and attraction is more fluid than people typically realize themselves. Traits you never liked can grow on you in no time if they are part of a package deal you adore.

Technically this is for men, but anyone can answer.

As much as I love my boyfriend, he becomes an absolute child on social media. I'm visiting him now, and I sat in silence while he had a Twitter argument with someone. The only time we talked was for him to tell me what the other 'retard' said and how he replied. I ended up lashing out and saying I don't care about his dumb internet slap fights. He's almost 30 and he's not speaking to me now, he's spent most of his time in the bathroom.

Did I fuck up or was I right to say I don't care to hear about a particular topic that I find childish?

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>mfw seeing like 12 year old girls wearing chokers and other slut gear out in the city.
How is this fucking ok?
Why is this rampant degeneracy allowed to infect even children?
Jesus fucking christ I hope to whatever gods that may be that this world burns soon so that the filth of modern decadence can be purged away so that purity may emerge anew.
I don't want to have a family in a society where even kids are sexualized.

>>18365564
Was the argument about something he really cares?

>>18365562

I know it's really not that big a deal unless I make it so; It's just that it kind of grabbed me by surprise at this age. Your answer did cheer me up, so thanks for that.

>>18365554
clothed sex could be sexy right? like I couldn't wait for her to take it off. But ok noted. Also, I think there might be a chance I am the weird one, not her. Because I remember there are porn stars with similar looking vaginas (like Taylor something). So she doesn't have any defect. I think other guys would have no problem, and she is very confident about it, haha no worry about complex.
I will do some research on eating out, too. Thanks.

>>18365564
>Twitter argument
that a thing? kek
what do they even argue about?
politics?

>>18365580
He was publically laughing at someone, then someone chimed in saying he probably shouldn't be an asshole. The rest of the discussion (if you can call it that) was pretty much 'Fuck off retard, you can't tell me what to do'. His behaviour online really makes me cringe.

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>>18365584

>>18365581
Yeah sure, but if you start to do it habitually then she'd need to be pretty thick to not start to suspect that you have a reason to opt for it all the time. Besides, the easiest way to do that is by pulling her panties aside, which still leaves her exposed.
Are you sure it's not just that her inner labia are long(ish)? Many porn stars have had labiaplasty, but in real life women with pussies with prominent inner lips are common as fuck.

>no worry about complex
It's a touchy subject, just like how virtually no man would be unaffected by a sex partner remarking that his dick is too small. Just be on the safe side.

Good luck!

>>18365589
I mean from my understanding, twitter is only for short messages (twit) right? would be interesting to see how people make argument without throwing poos at each other if they can only use a few words.

>>18365564

Maybe next time say something before you blow up. Don't let frustration build like this. He was being kind of a dick, and you were kind of a dick too.

So I met this girl back in January as she was visiting my City. We go on a date, have sex and continue seeing each other for 4 weeks until she moves back to her city. We live 4 hours apart. We text, snap quite often for a while and I visit her a couple of times each month. Now I haven't visited her because she's busy with exams. It's been 2 weeks but now she won't even text me or call. She said she wanted to see me in June 8th but that was like a month ago. How can I tell if a girl just wants sex but not a relationship? As you can see, I am horrible at rwading signs.

B: did you post yesterday?
A: At night? No
B: i mean after you had left
A: I'm not sure but it's possible
B: ...
A: What? I'm not sure
B: How can you not be sure?
A: Because I don't remember. I don't understand where you're tying to get at
B: whatever. nevermind
A: Actually, no. Finish what you started. But do it fast too.
B: It's my fault for asking. I wasn't getting at anything I just asked a simple question

thoughts on this conversation?

>>18365586

Well, seems to me that the fact you lashed at him for that might hint at some past frustration. That or he was being really obnoxious about that petty fight. If it's the latter then he was in the wrong; otherwise you might have overreacted a bit.

>>18365591
>Are you sure it's not just that her inner labia are long(ish)? Many porn stars have had labiaplasty, but in real life women with pussies with prominent inner lips are common as fuck.

I was saying her vagina looks like one I saw from porn, and I don't like the look of that one. I can't really describe but after an hour of browsing I found the porno I was talking about, here, her vag looks kinda like this http://imgur.com/a/oQS6O

Not really sure how to call this, but it definitely looks different from the ones I'm used to.

>>18365617
bump

>>18365611
If she's stopped contact with you, she's probably not interested anymore. Sorry man. Phone her up and check about th 8th, then leave it. Also if you're in the UK don't forget that's Election Day!

>>18365631
Right, assuming you are talking about how "mound"like her vulva is, what you mean is that she has big/plump (also often called "puffy" in porn) outer labia.

>>18365631

That literally looks like she has a dick.

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Would you classify humans as nervous, timid creatures?

>>18365617
Are we talking about posts on 4chan?
B thinks A made a certain post. A probably did, or posted something else, because A is being angry/defensive for some reason.

It's pretty vague. Maybe A has a drinking problem and makes blackout posts that they can't remember.

>>18365617
B is autistic.
A is pissed.

>>18365745
Young people, yeah, absolutely.

People in general, not so much. I do think it's ingrained in humans to find many social situations uncomfortable and attribute much more weight to discomfort than is necessary or reasonable. But I think most people can overcome that with enough positive/neutral experiences to put things in perspective.

>>18365748
>>18365746
ok, thanks
and yeah it was posts on 4chan

the conversation deteriorated from there and the fallout has been over the past 3 days

i don't know what to do now

Please state your gender in reply: how do you feel about dating a bisexual?

>>18365793
Female. I would be wary and would need to really like him if he had a strong preference for men, and/or I was the first woman he dated.
If this was not the case and I felt secure that I would not be an inferior alternative to him simply by being a woman - great. Sexy.

>>18365793

Male. Whatever, that wouldn't factor into my decision to date someone.

I mean, I don't really expect that to end in a threesome, so what do I care if she fucked girls in the past? And if we ever break up, again, why do I care if she fucks girls now?

I often notice that girls are interested in me, but I always fail to show interest back. Any advice on how to show interest?

>>18365746
>>18365748
ok another question, later A said:

A: Well, you started asking questions like I was lying ("...") or something and that's irritating. So you have the option to explain yourself and fix it

Did B accuse A of, or implying A was lying in the preceding conversation?

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>>18365802
are you retarded?

Hey there, femanons.

Here's the deal. There's this girl I've been friends with for around 5 years, we've been getting pretty flirty as of recently, and I ended up falling for her HARD (of course I did). Just as I say that I love her, she says that she loves me and misses being around me (she lives far away because of college), and a few months back she started sexting me. Every once in a while she just tells me "yeah, so I had sex with [insert name here] the other day" and I get all depressed.
I may be asking the obvious here, but is she just messing with my head? If so, do women get a kick out of playing with other people's feelings? I know she's not a shitty person, so I don't think it's shit morals causing her to do this.

>>18365793
Female.
If he was out then fine. If not then I'd think he was a closeted homosexual.

>>18365866
Women have different personalities, same as men.
Why don't you talk to her about it? Say you want a relationship, or if not that, say you're not comfortable talking about her sex like bc of your feelings.

>>18365733

yes, that. ugh

>>18365793
are you a bisexual girl? I'm not gonna date bisexual guys obviously
But I had some sweet experience with a bisexual girl last August during my vacation. We shared a room. She introduced herself as a lesbian. After staying with me she became bisexual. Real stroke to the ego.

>>18365834
Somewhat, yes. Because B didn't believe A saying they weren't sure if they posted. Not a direct accusation of lying.

B could have just been shocked A didn't remember. But there was probably a bit of an accusatory tone there.
A could have just been upset at the accusation. But I still think A is a bit too angry/defensive for it to be just that.

Maybe previous situations where B didn't trust A, so A is taking this harder than they should. Otherwise maybe A made whatever post.

>>18365617
>4chin couple
lmao it's actually a good idea, not contaminating the gene pool.

>>18365899
One last question:

Who should take blame for how the conversation developed in this situation?

how do i stop falling in love with every female that displays basic courtesy to me

>>18365940
If they actually wish to resolve things, they both should. And maybe talk about whatever other problems they have, and why this thing about the post escalated that much/quickly.

>>18364806
If a girl asks "Would you date me?" does that mean she likes you? I'm sorry if this question has an Obvieous answer, I'm autistic as fuck when it comes to women

>>18365955
find some girl friends until you get more used to these things

>>18365975
If she has a low self esteem she could be just asking, but she deff is at least a little into you.

>>18366060
Enough that I could ask her out?

>>18365368
Yes. Once i become single dad or when every single girl will reject me.

Until then single moms are below morbidly obese girls. Because you can put these on a diet. But single mom? Euthanazia is not legal. And it would be cruel for the kid. I am not a monster.

>>18365418
Racism and insecurities.

>>18365428
I have problem with gypsies girls. Anything else is negotiable.

>>18365564
He is manchild. Teach him how to speak when you are around and that you wish him behaving like adult. Nothing he cant do for you.

>>18365571
It is called fashion you old geezer. Only perverts like you see degradation in it. For the girls it is just another fashionable otem which will become obsolete in few years.

>>18365802
Ask them on dates. Next effective solution is to put your penis inside them.

>>18365955
By getting real gf.

>>18366065
Yes

Women, why is it considered a "social construct" for a man to only date women who meet the bare minimum standards of sexual fidelity (not even virginity), a healthy weight, and functioning female reproductive organs?
>/pol/
>/r9k/
I've never been there and that's not an explanation.

>>18366097
As if you can know whether she's reproductively viable until you try for a baby years into the relationship.

>>18366097
Something is defined as a social contruct if it varied more between cultures than within. This is the case for monogamy, not really for weight despite what sjws say, and you can't know if a woman is fertile when you choose her.

>>18366112
This

>>18366105
>>18366112
I can tell she's infertile if her "vagina" is actually an open wound that doesn't self-lubricate and needs to be dilated regularly.
Why am I a bigot for thinking that's a deal-breaker? Society did not construct my biological drive to procreate.

>>18366135
Wtf are you talking about? I'm a trainee midwife and none of those things are correlated with infertility. They are however, correlated with a lack of arousal. Maybe try being better in bed?

>>18366135
>>18366149
I think anon means transwomen maybe?

>>18366155
Oh my bad.

I'm a girl and i have a friend who lives far away and he's spending 3 weeks here (he's staying a few minutes away from my house). We're on the last week together, and we like each other more than friends, but haven't done anything (im kissless and said i wouldn't kiss anyone without being his gf, and we're both christian). I'm 20, he's 26.

So, on sunday we we're chilling on the sofa and that was our most careful moment ever. But the next day he gave me the shortest hug ever. Today, we spent a few hours playing chess on the bed. After we finished it, he layed on me but only a few seconds before suddenly getting up and leaving cuz he was late for something (his sister had called him).

Guys, do you think theres a reason why hes acting not-cold then a bit cold out of nothing?

>>18366170
you're pretty deep in the friendzone from the sound of it lol

>>18366170

Maybe he is not into you as much as you are into him. Maybe he is into you but knows you are not ready for that.

>>18364865
ignore other two r9k autists. It seems she likes you more than a friend, that's why it hurts. And the other guy is probably actually a sperg.

>the princess still hasn't replied to my text from 6 hours ago
*abloobloobloo*

>>18366170
> he layed on me

Has he ever had a girlfriend before? Maybe he's awkward at showing he's interested, hoping you'll make the first real move, and is having trouble figuring out this tension of if y'all can have an actual relationship or not.

Just ask him.

>>18366097
Sexual fidelity is actually a social construct.
The rest is actually a preference that makes sense biologically.

Girls

Do you actaully enjoy penetration?

>>18366211
I can take it or leave it. The sensation of it is nothing to me, but I like the closeness and the performative element of it.
Clitoral stimulation is what works for most women myself included.

>>18366155
Yes! Am I talking to children here? I thought it was obvious.
>Sexual fidelity: if you won't date a woman who's "sexually liberated" with a different man each week and has no intention of settling down, you are supporting the SOCIAL CONSTRUCT that promiscuous women make poor long-term partners, and your preference is invalid.
>Healthy weight: If you won't date an obese women, you are supporting the SOCIAL CONSTRUCT that obesity is unhealthy and unattractive, and your preference is invalid.
>Functioning womb: if you won't date a trans woman, you are supporting the SOCIAL CONSTRUCT that romantic relationships have a purpose beyond personal sexual gratification, and your preference is invalid.
They're basically saying the only reason I have any of those standards is because the PATRIARCHY told me to, and not because they benefit me in any way.

>>18366192
>>18366175

Yes, he's had previous relationships, but I havent. We made a deal that we would be friends until we can live close.

>>18366068
>It is called fashion you old geezer. Only perverts like you see degradation in it. For the girls it is just another fashionable otem which will become obsolete in few years.

>pervert
>Sees degeneracy in being over sexual

Nigga those are polar opposites. And it just being fashion isn't an excuse.

It's like saying "We are just having a fun time!!!" When you are snorting enough cocaine to kill a baby elephant.

Either give an example as to why it's ok/not degenerate, other wise tuck your tail between your legs and walk away.

>>18366224
So you don't want penis vaginal sex or suck his dick or anything right?

>>18366219
Well why don't you go and get a woman who fits your criteria then?

>>18366228
no, he either

>>18366219

Just because it's a social construct doesn't make it "wrong". Sorry, but both positions are true here. Your preferences ARE a social construct. It's not wrong to have them, though. Just be nice when talking about them.

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>>18366226
Chocker is literally fashion item for average girls. It is not their fault that for older generation and memers on 4chan it means black belt is sucking dick.

And even if teens know its original source, it is even better. Teens want to rebel, provoke, protest against anything adults and parents are trying to force on them.

Piercings, colored hair, stupid tattoos, terrible fashion it is all part of puberty for majority of below average teens who are stupid or have so strong puberty they simply cant controll themselves.

IT IS NOT DEGENERACY. And still it is done by some, but not all.

It is just fashion.

>>18366232
then It could be that all the "cold" "not cold" might just be your imagination.
Or more likely he ended the hug quickly because his dick was hard and he didn't want to poke you.
Same with laying on you at the bed. His dick is probably at the limit of bursting.

>>18366254
>IT IS NOT DEGENERACY
>It is just fashion.
Oh dear, did you forget that most fashion designers are gay men whose models are usually starved to look like pre teen Chinese boys?

>>18366264
How is this fallacy called?
It feels like combined ad hominem and
http://lucidphilosophy.com/19-appeal-to-authority/

That have absolutely nothing common with it. It is like necklace. And it works like this. Girls go to public. See another girl with new fashion thing. Instantly copies it to keep up with the competition.

No cock sucking is involved lol.

>>18366254
Again, you ignored how fashion isnt an excuse. Give an explanation of how it isn't degeneracy, girls who dress in revealing clothing, fashion or not, ARE more open to a degenerate life style.

Jesus is this your first day on the internet?

>>18366282
>No cock sucking is involved lol
Enjoy waiting for that virgin QT3.14, incel.

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Girls--

There's a girl I like at work. She has a boyfriend. It's my birthday Thursday and she wants to take me out drinking. I don't drink and she knows this, but seems insistent I drink with her. Is there any chance this is an opportunity for me to drop some hints about how I feel, or is she just being friendly?

I don't have any friends, nor have I ever had any friends, so I'm pretty bad at reading into this sort of thing.

>>18366287
Oh, so it is not only about chokers. Should have said so sooner.

Yea, girls like attention. And each generation is getting more and more bolder. But hey, at countries with hot climate they were always showing a lot of skin unless it was muslim land.

And do you know who is to blame? Parents. They mostly dont care, are scared to discipline their children and more than often are as degenerate as their kids. But still, there is no reason to go full retard and claim the western girls are lost case.

>first day on the internet
Now dont go insulting people jist because they dont share your mindset or opinion. Imagine therr still exist people who havent lost hope and optimism. Maybe dont read r9k and pol too much.

>>18366291
I dont need virgin. I want wife who isnt afraid of sucking my dick. Who cares she got training on that beforehand. I will jist tell her to never talk about past history and will be happy incel. No problem with that.

>>18366295
Stop being dumb and ask her on date. Do not confess love or feelings, just ask her on date. Good luck.

>>18366295
she has a boyfriend and is just beind friendly.

>>18366295
Sounds like you could do with a friend more than an unfaithful lover. Try to build a friendship with her.

Question for men:
>be me, dating a new guy
>first time we sleep together
>make out for a bit, then he's penetrating me. After a while he's clearly gonna come
>HE asks 'are you going to cum?' to me

Why the fuck would a bloke think that? What in a man's life would teach him that a woman would cum just when he's going to, from a sex act made to be enjoyable for men?!

>>18366382

Watch a porn movie and you'll see women "cuming" from penis in vagina all the time. A lot of men ignore that you can actually add more stimulation to such a sex act, and think the motion is just as good for you all as it is for us. He is just inexperienced, you can talk to him about it so next time you enjoy yourself some more.

>>18366310
>should have said so sooner

The original poster even said
>chokers and other slut gear
And even then the parents should be doing something about it, and I get it if you are wearing barely anything in beach weather, I live near the beach, but when I travle inland and seeing girls wear booty shorts and a revealing jacket and complain how it may be too cold for them to go to the party they were going to get fucked up at, you begin to question when the parents are just being a liberal with their children and to the point of their parents not caring their child is a lowlife slut.

And Im not insulting you based opinion Im insulting you based on your intelligence.

>/pol/ and /r9k/
Dont make fun of the boards you hail from.

>>18366382
He was hoping that he could please you with his hard dick.
When it's soft and you haven't cum, that's a fail for him.

>>18366382
My lord how dare he act if you are enjoying sex, did you contact 999?

>>18366386
Why would someone believe what they see in porn though?!
He's not even inexperienced, he's several years older than me and has thus had more sexual partners. Do all other women just humour this behaviour?

>>18366392
triggered.jpg!
No but seriously, it's one thing to expect you to enjoy it, another to think you'd cum from it. Imagine if you were going down on a grill and she was like did you cum bbz

>>18366393
>older than me and therefore has had more sexual partners.

That's not how it works, how old are you?

>>18366393

Older doesn't equal more experience. And sex ed is not very good in most schools, so what else besides porn and real experiences does a man have to learn more about female sexuality?

>>18366398
Well there is a difference between "Did you?" and "are you?"

>>18366399
Perhaps I should have said older than me and has unsurprisngly had more partners. I know it's not a linear thing just in this case he has.
I'm 23, he's 28.

>>18366393
even if he doesn't believe in porn he would believe in making women cum from power of his dick

very liberating experience. highly recommended. Seems you missed it though, too bad.

>>18366401
That seems like a petty semantic point no?
My point was just why would you think someone would cum at all from a sex act which is for pleasuring the other party.

>>18366400
I know how many sexual partner's he's had. It's a decent number, larger than mine, and he left school a decade ago.

>>18364810

As long as they are hygenic and well-kept like a normal human being, us guys couldn't give less of a shit

>>18366398
I dont get why are you so mad. Either explain to him how sex works for girls and maybe force him to eat you out as apologize or question yourself for allowing inexperienced guys casually sex you up and calling them blokes.

>>18366389
So how are you going to solve this problem anon? Will you go to politics or will you have big family and explain to your children to not behaving like sluts?

And seriously, why are you so triggered by teens behaving like teens? I mean they dont really have any other choice in the matter.

Or should we start implementing sharia?

Hey females of the human species.

I'd just want to know what small things you get really happy about that your boyfriend can do for you?

>>18366403
Liberating for whom? I don't think men really need sexual liberation...

>>18366406

Well, any number is bigger than zero. Sorry, you left that joke right there, I'll be serious now.

Did he also tell you how many orgasms he gave them? Really, have an open conversation with him about sex. Or not. Whatever you prefer.

>>18364810
actually I have a fetish about this. I prefer smooth and well made finger nails. Would fap to pics

>>18366408
Yeah fair game, I am a bit overriled about this. I was just hoping for some insight but I guess I'm just venting now.
>calling them blokes
what's wrong with this though?

>>18366402
That makes more sense, he may have just had an autistic moment, men always have to try and proove themselves to women, it's nature, not that men are trying to act bigger than they are to compensate.
>>18366405
>why would you think someone would cum at all from sex which is pleasuring from the other party.

Holy shit that was fucking hillarious, that made it sound likes you didnt feel anything.

Ok, thats not what he was thinking.

Women cumming first is common courtesy, it's like holding the door open but instead of holding open the door he is shoving his tiny cock in you.

>>18366411
Yeah I think I'll have to. We were just getting high and shooting the shit, I wasn't interrogating him on his sexual past. But I did ask 'do you think you're good at sex' beforehand and he said yeah and women say he is.

>>18366413
>I was just hoping for some insight

to have some insight you need to read and reflect and re-read, not read and reply in 2 mins.

But venting is what this thread is good for anyway.

>>18366413
No need to get so mad, you know therr actually are women out there who orgasm from penetration, maybe he just wagered you're one of them.

>>18366413
I am not native speaker, but bloke to me sounds very rude. Like dumbass or similiar.

And really, guys view on female sexuality is very warped and twisted by porn. And there are still girls super passive, afraid of voicing their opinion on sex and rather pretend to have orgasm than teaching their partner to what to do.

>>18366408
>So how are you going to solve this problem anon? Will you go to politics or will you have big family and explain to your children to not behaving like sluts?

It'd be easier to have raise children not to be like sluts. Also, I guess politicians cant have families from the way you say either I have a family or go into politics.

And Im not triggered, Im not prepubescent like you.

>They really dont have a choice in the matter
Oh yes I forgot the teens are hypnotized to act like degenerates. Listen, teens have complete control over what they wear unless they belong to a highly christian family. And even then there isnt a problem.

People can dress and act revealing with out being a degenerate. You can drink alcohol and not be an alcoholic.

>>18366416
>Holy shit that was fucking hillarious, that made it sound likes you didnt feel anything.
There is almost no sexual sensation in most women's vaginas. Having a dick in there is like having it in your mouth. Sure I can feel it but it doesn't feel arousing.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Myth_of_the_Vaginal_Orgasm

>>18366427
Kek, I'm a britfag, bloke is our version of 'guy'. Casual way to say man.

>>18366421
Yeah I know. But this is exactly what gets me so mad, that anyone would think that. It's such a minute percentage of women, it's the equivilent of assuming a guy is into pegging with no evidence or something.
Anyway, let's say rant over now.

>>18366428
There's actually good neurological research saying that teens literally can't control themselves, underdeveloped frontal cortex and all that grandpa.

>>18366398
I don't know how to explain this to you but many girls cum just from penetration. I'm genuinely sorry that you don't but you need to chill out. This dude asked you a pretty basic question so I'm not sure why you're so angry at him .

>>18366442
Should've done the good ol reacharound then.

>>18366442
Litterally every girl I've been with has. Sorry you dont.

>>18366428
Ok i admit you completely lost me in your arguments. You are not happy with current development in teens culture, mainly how girls are dressing up. Probably also with what they do in their free time.

But then again, what should we disscuss about? What do i do with such information?

Everybody knows that old generation always called new generation stupid/degenerate. That is how it always was. Because the society and its values are always shifting.

Why do you feel you are superior? Is this really only about girls fashion? Because personally i dont like slutty girls too and just evade them. Live and let live is my motto.

What is your problem anon?

>>18366446
Not her but they really don't. Like maximum 20% of women.
Grills may be faking it with you.

>>18366455
Literally they're faking it and this is what gives men this false impression.

>>18366457
Is there any good research on that 20% or is it just like, your opinion?

>>18366460
lmao stop projecting your shitty sex life onto other girls

>>18366444
Thanks for not providing any

>Grandpa
even if I were above the age of 40 why would that matter?

>>18366464
lmao stop providing other girls with shitty sex lives

>>18366457
>>18366460
So since we have estabilished that females have almost no pleasure from primal act called copulation aka piv sex, lets discuss what girls really enjoy and boys can do with them to enjoy it too.

>mutual masturbation?
Anything else?
Also could piv in certain position combined with fingering girl work?

Feedback ladies please.

>>18366465
Yeah im sorry, but i am phone, so I can't be bothered to post links...

And I only used grandpa as a cheeky way to make fun of your prudeness, you throwing around words like degeneracy, like they actually mean something outside of the subjective moral frame you've constructed for yourself you silly you.

>>18366475
kek you sound really butthurt
I'm glad I'm not your bf. You get pumped and dumped a lot huh?

New thread is up.

>>18366456
I don't have a problem with people doing what they like within reason, there should be no law to keep people from doing what they like. Also Im sorry you were not smart enough to understand an argument.

It should be said that people who act degenerate should be shamed from society instead, if they dont want to be an outcast, they can change, and usuall do, or die alone like they deserve.

>>18366475
Wait, so you're telling me the liquid was just piss, the screams were fake, the shivering was obviously traumatic shock and the feelings of guilt over orgasming too fast to please me were just a delusion?

>>18366486
You are trusting a pamphlet written by a radical feminist, not even a doctor lol.

>>18366495
It's all a sham bro everyone knows women don't enjoy sex.

>>18366479
Is it really a bad thing to not want people to live a destructive life style many people have regret having in the first place?

>>18366493
Slut shaming would work if majority of people shared same mindset. Not gonna happen in 21st century. Sorry.

Just look at trannies and other stuff like swjs, racism or even deciding who should be usa president. Society cant be more divided even if you tried.

And i like it how you continuously trying to insult my intelligence :-D
Not sure why when i am the only
>bloke
trying to respond to you, but whatever. And as i said, only parents have power to slap and put their children in line. But hey, in some countries (sweden?) it is illegal to slap your children. So soon nobody will be able to controll teens anymore.
End of civilisation is near?
:-)

>>18366514
>end of civilisation
It better be soon, Platon talked about degenerate youth ruining civilisatiom thousands of years ago already!

>>18366260
is it possible from a hug? and we layed only for a few seconds

>>18364863
If she doesn't want to have sex with you but is still masturbating then she probably feels like there's an issue with the relationship but she probably doesn't want to deal with it because she's worried it will turn into a big ordeal or she will hurt your feelings. Most of the time issues in the relationship manifest themselves in the bedroom.The important thing here is to talk it out. let her know that she can tell you anything honestly and that you won't be offended or angry. It could also be that she doesn't enjoy sex with you for whatever reason and doesn't know how to address it.

I'd start by asking her if there's anything in the relationship that she's unhappy with. If the problem isnt with the relationship itself I'd then move on to telling her how the lack of intimacy makes you feel. Really stress your emotions when you talk about this. Many women feel like sex is purely physical for men and don't understand the role it plays in feeling close to their partners. Finally if those two aren't the issue ask her if you're satisfying her in bed and what you could do to improve on that.

>>18366211
Not really honestly. It feels okay for me, but I have to concentrate really hard and focus on the mental aspect. If I don't concentrate it just feels like pressure, but every woman is different. My hope is that one day it will feel good for me though.

how do you stop obsessing over a person youre dating? my dumbass keeps thinking about her all the time both good and bad thoughts and I feel like a fucking mental patient.

>>18365308
Don't do it for the "experience". my boyfriend and I were both virgins when we started dating and messing around and experimenting/learning with someone who knows as little as you do is a lot hotter than doing it with a hooker to "get it over with".

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Has any /fit/ anons had luck on tinder without even trying? I'm starting to get into shape, and I wanna know if at some point bitches will just begin lining up. I'm already relatively fit. I would say roughly a 8/10 if not higher. I want to be getting pics like so (pic related) on regular basis.

>>18367122
Just wait it out. Eventually you'll start to notice her flaws and you'll pass through this honeymoon phase.

Do girls prefer dicks to be circumcised or uncut?

guys or girls:
whats the deal with long distance? im moving to SD for college but the girl im pursuing will be in LA. I really like her but i dont know how distance will affect us. What should i do?