How hard is it for people to quit there porn or fetish addictions? Since I desciovered the internet, I've been lookign at a huge variety of various porn and kinks, and I realise that I have wasted so much time on porn and fetishes. So I want to quit it completely and focus on better things. How hard is it to do this? And is it bad to completely give up porn? I've read that some couples still occasionally watch it, but I feel its bad to watch it multiple timnes a week. Plus as we all know by visiting threads like H and D, theres a lot of weird stuff out there. I hope that by giving it up my life will become more positive and enjoyable.
I am doing nofap and I'm on my 13th day. It's hard, but if you're rally committed you can make it withouth going mad.
>>18357843
Yeah I joined there site as well, watched some of the videos they have posted there, read some threads on how others are coping. I hope to make some progress. I think most i've ever managed is two weeks or so. Need to try harder.
For me, I went on a several day trip to an amusement park with a bunch of pals, we all had a blast and I started to actually get feelings for one of them. Sense then I haven't felt the need to fap or look at porn. Even being surrounded on it on here doesn't set me off. I haven't fapped in a month now and I haven't felt the need to since then. And that's saying a lot because I was a porn fiend.
I'd do this:
1. Leave 4chan or at least get on a board that isn't littered with porn (maybe this board or interests).
2. Go on a multi-day trip with friends, or be in a situation where you're forced to not fap for an extended period of time
3. Get a girl you actually have feelings for an start talking to her. Hopefully a shot at real love might distract you from masturbation.
4. Get your dick wet, fuck someone, most people who I've seen lose their virginity don't go back to fapping.
Hope this helps.
20 years of anime porn and going strong.
Just having sex doesn't stop anything and stopping entirely isn't going to help either. I was having sex regularly with a female friend of mine and the fetishes didn't go up in a puff of smoke. Tuesday morning before going to work, I would still look up porn and do the needful. Then again that evening after having played video games, surfed the web, and watched tv for 5 hours (or more) I would do it again before bed.
Yep, cutting out that 30 minutes is really going to help out in you being happy.
Why do you want to give up porn?
>>18357977
Its just been making me very happy as of late, and I feel that I've been wasting my time watching and masturbating to porn and fetishes. Plus I've read various stories about people who can't have sex with real woman cause there brains have been wired to only get off to strange internet porn and fetishes. People have told me not to quit it completely and just tone it down a little. But some stuff might be a bit too strange for most people, i've wierded out some people online with my stranger kinks i've aquired from places like D here on 4chan.
>>18358036
What fetishes
>inb4 footfag
>>18358036
>Something makes me happy
>It's bad
>>18358042
Whoops meant to say unhappy
I used to fap all the time to porn, but honestly once I got a girlfriend I haven't had the interest to. I haven't even fapped to a great extent, and if I do it's to the thought of my girlfriend.
>pic unrelated