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Hi there /adv/, my GF and I have been through some rough patches lately, I've asked some qs here before and they've helped in regards to us, however it's taken a bad turn.
GF wanted to break up because stress and everything built up after too long and yeah, not fun, but then she's changed her mind after one night and I don't know if my feelings will allow me to be with her again. I don't know what to do RN, should we get back or just not?
We're both 18yo's and have been dating since 16.
TLDR she said she wanted to breakup and now she says she doesn't, I don't know if I can deal with that.
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Bump.
Please help, i would like opinions before I do or say something that is too late.
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>>18350836
you must deal with that. people can have hard times. it would be ok, and if it goes wrong you will lose nothing.
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>>18350967
What I would like to hear is that am I an idiot to just agree to get back together or should I just go through with it and break it off officially?
Thanks for the reply
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>>18350988
you are not an idiot because you give your gf of 2 years a one more chance. just make it sure that there is no other reason behind her behavior
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>>18350836
You don't owe nothin' to nobody. Soon the world will swallow the two of you up and you'll be as good as dead. Being together ain't gonna solve that, just going to make your miserable existence worse.
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>>18350995
In this case it isn't a one more chance sorry, I didn't mention it in my OP, but this has happened so many times leading up to this, each time her saying she wanted to break up and then we'd forget about it. Each time I become a bloody pussy and cry my eyes out. This time instead of saying j want to break up she straight out said I'm breaking up with you, and then asked if we could meet in person to discuss it, so yeah I'm broken desu
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>>18351010
dude that makes a difference. i know these kind of relationships. she takes control of you and the relation between you. you shouldn't feel like you obey what she wants. also if this makes you sad you have to end it.
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>>18351017
That's what I'm thinking.
I'm thinking she doesn't realize she doesn't want me, but actually is just scared to be lonely.
It's driving me nuts because then she makes it out as if I'm the bad guy, but we had so many good times and I think I'm just living off the memories.
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>>18351043
yeah, i'm sorry to say that but it's not about relationship anymore, you both are clinging to the memories.
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>>18351052
It's funny cause it's what I was thinking, but I didn't want to be told that.
God this whole thing sucks. Doesn't help when we're in the middle of several assessments.
Thanks.
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>>18350836
Do what you feel it's needed to do OP.
Think it this way, whatever course of action you take it's gonna be rewarding in a possible future. With that being said, if you feel like you can talk this through and stop that behaviour of hers good for you.
Just keep in mind that you're the one that knows her the most, not us.
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>>18351153
That's fair thank you
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