Sex Advice

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Drink a bit of this beforehand, offer to make her a glass, no matter if she says she doesn't like whiskey press her to have at least a little, it will take the edge off. Be real. Remember to think about something else while doing it, not like withdrawing yourself but try not to let the moment get to you.

>>18350143
don't sweat it, and don't do what >>18350222 says.
not many things are better bonerkillers than alcohol, especially when you're nervous anyway.

>>18350143
>I feel that I am literally going to ejaculate as soon as she looks at my penis.
Maybe. So?

How does this "fuck this up"?

This girl doesn't actually like you or care about you, all she's interested in is getting serviced by your dick?

>>18350143
Grill here.
Stats say that 75% of women cannot orgasm through penetrative sex.
Don't make it all about your cock and what it can and cannot do- focus on giving her a good time: Cunnilingus, fingering, kissing etc.

>>18350283
yeah, focus on being a good sexslave, serving the Mistress and fulfilling her pleasures.

the answer is to masturbate beforehand. and your performance anxiety might totally kill your libido anyway.

that's the catch about premature ejaculation, when you really love a girl and appreciate her you cum in two seconds, but annoying thots get to ride for as long as they want.

anyway you already answered your own question. masturbate beforehand.

oh another tip is to use a condom. that reduces the sensation a lot if you are circumcised especially.

you can even get condoms that numb your penis but I would *not go* that far until you have an idea how long you actually last.

and like I said, if you don't relax you won't be able to have sex at all. you're making a massive deal out of this, when really it isn't. If she really likes you, you're not going to fuck the whole thing up by ejaculating too soon. that's a silly notion.

so your worrying about a really silly notion to begin with.

>>18350291
Don't be a dick. Men cum a lot more than women during hetero sex, and if it's only your pleasure you care about then you should stay home and wank. She'll be just as nervous about making OP have a good time

>>18350301
OP was asking for cues from HIM and your answer just focused on HER pleasure.
Sorry to break it to you, but men aren't inanimate dildos on legs.

>>18350308
OP asked 'what can I do to not fuck this up' and I reassured him that his penis isn't the be all and end all of sex.
Sorry to break it to you, but women are t just sentient fleshlights.

>>18350324
*aren't! You know I meant aren't.

I came in 2 thrusts when I lost my virginity. My girl and me just laughed about it and did it again a few minutes later. Don't overthink it and try to have a good time.

Le bomp

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Stop having sex on a checklist, it'll happen when it feels natural.

>>18350271
This.
Being nervous, ejaculating before hand, and alcohol is a good way to never cum at all.
Stop trying to be a marathon man. Girls don't want it to last too long either. If you go to fuck her and can't get it up or don't orgasm she's going to be more bummed than if you do too soon.

>>18350291
>>18350301
Not OP, it's actually very fulfilling to handle a girl correctly.
I don't have that much experience but I had tons of sex with my ex and she loved being teased/played with A LOT to a point her legs would start shaking.

I mean, you're not even her sexslave, you're actually controlling the fuck out of her and that's hot af if you ask me.

>>18350556
Sorry man, she was laughing at you, not with you.

>>18350143
You do not need to worry about Cumming too quickly. I too was scared of this before losing my virginity, but in reality, you're really nervous. Also you've only ever had an orgasm on your own. To rekease like that in front of another person is not as easy as you'd think the first time.

Also, you cum quick with your hand because you know all the strokes, speeds, firmness etc. That feels good to you. Vagina isn't as forceful, and hers won't k ow what your dick likes yet. It is a very different kind of stimulation.

Don't drink alcohol. If you want a relationship with someone, the first time you see each other naked you should both be sober. You might not think it, but alcohol severely dampens your performance.

If it does happen, and you cum really quick (which you won't) she would rather that than you not cum at all.

We male's put losing our virginity on a pedestal, thinking that vagina is the holy grail, a treasure of immeasurable value. When you fuck, you'll realise it's just a really nice thing to share with another human being and not a divine experience.

You'll be fine Bro, post results after you get laid.

>>18351726
If she was I couldn't care less. I laughed at myself at that time.

>>18351807
You need to worry about it if you cum before you get a boner.

My advice is to stroke yourself instead of letting her touch it - that's a surefire way to cum in two seconds.

>>18350143

Don't worry dude, if you don't let the nerves get to you and she's willing, you'll probably be ready to go after talking shit for a couple of minutes. Chances are just the idea of you having had sex will be enough of a turn on to go again.

Unless she's a complete nonce, she'll understand how things are for guys and their first time and be happy to work with you.
Also, while in the long term premature ejaculation might be annoying, not getting a boner will ruin the mood much faster.

t. Was also 19 when I lost my v's and I busted within two minutes.

Anyway, just enjoy yourself and your girl. You're going to have a LOT of fun over the next few weeks and months and I'm genuinely happy for you.