sex

Is your sex drive that high anyway?

Sometimes sexual interest just dies out. You could try spicing things up in the bedroom to rekindle your interest (fucked if I know how to go about that though). At any rate, it's pretty natural to feel a drop in sex appeal as a relationship stretches on, as far as I know.

I've got a kind of low sex drive and I'll usually have sex between two times a week to once a fortnight, depending on what my stress levels are etc once the honeymoon period is over.

>>18348732
Been with my bf for 9 years, fuck every other day at least.

It's not normal to have no drive at all for your girlfriend.

>>18348732
Yes she picked up another girl who now lives with is. She is hyper jealous though of me and other girl so cockblocks spot.. .still I fuck my f2f into of another girl that's ok in my book.

>>18348844
I think youre in a wrong thread m8

>>18348732
Stop watching porn and your sex drive will come back

>does your gf make you horny?
No and she only gets mad when I try to bring up the fact that she should work out.

>>18348732
You should be sexually attracted to your girlfriend. If you're not, you need to figure out why. When was the last time you remember having fulfilling sex? What was different between then and now. Do you think you would be more sexually attracted to her if you could work a little novelty into the sexual routine, fetishes and toys and such, or do you think that wouldn't have any effect?

Gotta get to the root of why you're not sexually attracted to her. Could just be that whatever sexual attraction you had before isn't there anymore. It happens.

I have had this problem with my bf of 3 years many times, but usually the problem for me is that it's very frequent and I had emotional issues with him because of fights.

I find that talking about it and exercising helps. I'm not sure how active you are, but it can really change the body functionality.

Otherwise, do you think there was/is a reason that made you feel not attracted? Did you use to like having sex with her?

>>18349129
Me and you in the same boat nigga, I tried getting my lady to eat healthier but not work

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>>18349120
I rarely watch porn..
but anyway, porn is not the issue here. I have no problem to get horny or have sex with other girls. Its just that she became very asexual in my eyes even though nothing really changed about her. (I mean she hasnt gotten fatter or uglier or anything)


>>18349146
I seriously doubt that that novelty would do eny difference. Im not into that kinda stuff and actually turns me off.
now that Im thinking about it, maybe its because we have been spending a lot of time together recently. Apart of going to work we have been pretty much together all the time for the last year or so. She rarely goes somewhere without me.

>>18349155
we both go to gym on regular basis.
at the beginning of our relationship we used to have sex every day. The frequency slowly declined with time and now its only once or twice per week at most.

>>18348732
You are 100% gay my friend.

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>>18349288
Im 100% im not gay, my friend, as Ive fucked many girls in my life and they all turned me on while men literally disgust me.

>>18349293
>Im 100% im not gay
You have to accept the truth about yourself. This isn't healthy Anon.

>>18348732
No...the pnly time a girl makes me horny is if she acts like a literal whore. Talking dirty...really dirty. Grabbing my junk. That type of thing. Problem is most of those girls really are whores. The best sex is with whores. I got me a wholesome girl...she dont do that. Therefore sex is boring. However when she dresses slutty i get hard. For instance she put on maybe 10 lbs. She tried on a dress from 6 years ago. Her tits were barely being held in the dress and her ass eas stretching it out. Basically i ripped my pants off with a rsging hard on and was like NOW...BED..IN DRESS.. but she just kinda was like "....noooo i dont feel like it"

I guess you can say my sex life sucks shit.

>>18348732
This is your subconscious telling you that you don't want to be there homes move on. Always got that feel with my girlfriends after a while. Found a girl I've wanted since the moment I met her fuck all the time ever changing don't get bored. Move on man you'll find someone better. Trust man.

>>18348787
This. You should consider ending the relationship.

>>18348732
I'm 24 and a virgin.

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>>18349283
I don't get it. I have been with my gf for 4 years and during all that time we had sex once per week, too at most too. And she got me insanely horny during all those years. I thought once or two per week was a satisfying sex life, but over here people complains if they dont fuck at least once every two days.

>>18348732
All day. The second she sits by me. The good thing is she is cool and interesting so i can atleast ignore what my other brain is saying for a while.

>>18349348
Just by slutty stuff for her to wear for you around the house when you two are alone.

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>>18350174
you mean your MEMbrain!?

>>18348732
>this is her body looks like

nigga you gay. Get in there and eat that asshole like a starving man on a thanksgiving dinner

>>18349160
Another guy here. Can confirm. They flip out if you even so much hint that they are getting fat. Should we just be okay with that shit? Just lay of the junk food you fat bitch.

>>18349129
>my gf has a bit of a belly
>is aware of her weight
>is okay with me talking about it
>both working to help her diet and start a workout regiment
>already seeing progress

Feels good man. Most women are shit tier at staying in shape though

>>18350540
The dream. A woman who is reasonable and doesn't yell 'then break up with me!!!' when you mention her weight.