Hey /adv/ So I think I'm bisexual, leaning to guys. I

>>18346110

I'm in the same boat, except female. Only thing that got me over the desire to bang girls was to fall in love with a guy. I still check out chicks on occasion, but cheating on him isn't an option, so it never goes further than that. Mind over matter and emotion over desire, etc. Not sure if that's helpful, but it's what worked for me.

>>18346208
Thanks, but the problem is that I don't really spend that much time with the girl - she lives in a city next to mine and we meet every two or three days.

And during that time I feel a really strong need to bang a guy. Also she knows about my bisexual tendencies, but doesn't know how strong they are.

We never talk about this, I'd be too ashamed. Also I'm not sure how she would react if I told her that I slept with a guy, especially because I'm a bottom.

>>18346110
First, you will have much more luck asking in
>>>/lgbt/
and lurking in gay and bisexual threads.

Secondly, you cant cure your sexual orientation. Denying it will only bring trouble in long run.

If you want to have relationship with girls and occasonaly fuck dudes, just find girl which is into threesomes.

Install grindet and tap sone ass. Maybe after few nights you will realize that being gay is better. Or not worth it at all.

Whatever you will do, make sure you know what yku want before you find yourself cheating your wife with your boss from work.

Dont pretend you are something you are not, that ia recipe for ultimate disaster. Buy condoms, aids in homo sex is very real.

>>18346110
Oh David, those pants will live on forever.

>>18346110
Just because you want to fuck guys doesn't mean you have to.
If someone is in a straight relationship with a girl, and they want to fuck other girls, they don't. Because that's cheating.
If you end up in a straight relationship with a girl, and you want to fuck other guys, you don't. Because that's cheating.

You don't have to pretend those desires aren't there. You just don't act on them.

>>18346569
No. I won't make peace with it. I just feel like it's not me, I feel really ashamed about it. I don't want to fuck a guy.

>>18347170
Sure dude. I will tell you what you are. Homophobe. And the most vocal anti homo people are the closet ones.

Seriously, stop pretending, try to lie down on your bed, close your eyes, breathe deeply and think really hard about what you find attractive and what not. Imagine you live in world where nobody can judge you and concentrate on what you REALLY want.

>pro tip
Being bottom male is hot. And until you have working testicles and are able to impregnate female, you are as manly as it gets.

>tip 2
You can try get some girl into pegging you. Maybe that will allow you to curb your fetish and allow you to stay faithful for your future wife.

Seriously, if you are planning on some traditional family thing, you have to build relationship on trust. Lies will get you into failed marriage fast. Some girls are into kinky shit. Accept who you are and then find working compromise.

Are you sure you arent forcing yourself to like girls because that is what is normal?

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>>18346110

you don't. on the contrary as time goes on you will find out that you DO find them attractive, you are just confused as to what 'attractive' means based on other peoples standards, and in time you will even want to date them.

literally every guy i ever dated once said
>id never date a guy, i just like them for sex.

its part of the transition. welcome ot the tribe brother.

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>>18347220
Please, are you a falseflagging homophobe from /pol/? You sound like one.

I'm not a fucking homophobe, I live in Spain. I know a shit ton of gays, one of them is a close friend of mine, my parents have absolutely nothing against them (they even went on a parade once) and I couldn't care less about other people being homosexual.

I just don't want to be one, because it's a lifestyle that I don't want to have. And I fell in love with a girl, I find girls pleasing aesthetically and guys just fucking turn me on which makes me mad.

>Being bottom male is hot.

No, fuck you. It's hot in your opinion, not in mine. There's nothing that makes me interested in it other than fucked up chemicals, because only my dick finds it attractive.

>And until you have working testicles and are able to impregnate female, you are as manly as it gets.
Never said I'm not, don't punch shit like "you just think that you aren't manly enough" down my throat when I don't say it.

>Are you sure you arent forcing yourself to like girls because that is what is normal?
Yes I am, I find them aesthetically pleasing. It's just that thought of getting penetrated by a dick sounds more hot than fucking a girl. For example, I wouldn't want to make out with a guy, but making out with girls makes me more horny that actually fucking them.

Also
>because that is what is normal
What are you talking about? You sound like a out of touch reality progressive, who the fuck other than street thugs in slavic countries and /pol/ people doesn't accept gays in current year?

>>18347293
Then I guess I should either attempt brainwashing myself or suicide.

>>18347322
Hey, no need to be rude. I am just shooting random thoughts because obviously i dont know you. No need to take it as personal insults.

So if you truly are bisexual, you can just go, date some girl and from time to time fap to some gay porn to keep the desires down right?

And about the gay shaming, even when you live in "tolerant" countries, some guys are still super insecure about it. And judging by the tone of your replies, i think i am hitting close to home. Still no need to rage anon.

>suicide
Please dont joke like that anon. You already told it, you tried being bottom and i bet you loved it. It was fun. Killing yourself is super boring. Everything has solution.

So, what about girl pegging you? Would that be acceptable for you?

>>18347344
I'm just getting mad because I have trouble accepting it.

>gay shaming
Again, I'd like to ask what do you mean. I don't know a single person who openly dislikes gays.

>Everything has solution
Doesn't seem like I can fix my gay tendencies, does it?

Yeah, pegging sounds fun, always wanted to try it.

>>18347357
How old are you? We have threads about people asking how to not be gay from time to time and the only real advice is to accept what they are and that being gay is sometimes easier than being straight.

And by gay shaming i mean your own personality having this huge troubles accepting it.

Since when you discovered porn and which type is your most popular?

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>>18347322

>only my dick finds it attractive

>>18347375
19 years old.

My personality has huge trouble accepting it because I feel like it completely doesn't fit me and is simply not who I am, yet everytime I feel horny I'm reminded of how it really is.

I discovered porn when I was 10. At first I found teens and threesomes with two girls the most attractive. Then I switched to 20-25 year old blondes. And now traps and gay porn.

First kiss at 13, blowjob at 16. At 17 I was supposed to have sex with a girl but I was so stressed out and on drugs that I couldn't get it up. Maybe it was because I was gay too. When it comes to gay experiences - made out with two guys on a party while playing spin the bottle but didn't enjoy it in the least. It seemed disgusting even, even those nobody had a problem with what we were doing.

>>18347595
*though, not those

>>18346292
Are you sure you're not gay and just repressing it? You just sound like I am with any of my friends that are girls except I'm gay and they're fine with that.

Not saying you shouldn't cure it, just saying knowing how bad the cancer is could be the first step to chemo

>>18347357
> every problem has a solution
> issue has no solution
> ergo issue isn't a problem


There you go buddy

>>18346110
Find yourself a trap babe

>>18347595
> kissed guys in fromt of everyone he's ashamed to show gayness to
Shocker that you didn't enjoy it there bud, you're hiding it, just get over yourself, stop being selfish and just BE FUCKING HAPPY - DO YOU NOT SEE THIS? DO YOU NOT SEE THE FUCKING SIMPLE ANSWER RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOUR GOD DAMN NOSE?

This is what you're worried about? You're depressed because your dick gets hard to men? Watch gay porn while you fuck women, get a pussy boy, I don't fucking know or care - if you aren't afraid of others judging you (WHICH YOU CLEARLY FUCKING ARE YOU REPRESSED FAGGOT)

Just why won't you let yourself be happy? You're just like a woman who bitches about all her friends hating her for being succesful.

>>18346110
Pegging.

>>18347680
I didn't enjoy it because it wasn't in any way hot for me. As I said earlier, I don't find men aesthetically attractive and making out with them doesn't turn me on.

I couldn't ever be happy with a gay lifestyle.