Relationship Limbo

>>18345837
I also forgot to mention she has a lot of body image issues, could she not want to have sex because of this??

>>18345837
It's almost June. August was what 10 months ago and she's still uncomfortable with anything but a few kisses. That's not taking it slow; she's not into you. You're basically a friend who gets nuggets of affection to keep you around. Cut contact and move on.

>>18345864
I was thinking this, but I'm still puzzled by why she would have me meet her mom? she just said she sees me as a potential partner for the future. girls are confusing as hell

>>18345880
People introduce friends to their moms. There's nothing weird about that.

>she just said she sees me as a potential partner for the future.
She wants to keep you on the backburner while she continues to check out her options. Think about this, do you believe a woman of 21 has no sex drive? Do you have any reason to believe she's gone the last 10 months without sex while you've been waiting for her to let you get further than "a few kisses"?

>>18345905
she could have been sexually assaulted in the past but I think you are right

>>18345905
also she made jokes to her mom while I was there relating to us being a couple

>>18345919
Ah so in 10 months of knowing a woman in her sexual prime, you've kissed her a few times, met her mom and she made jokes about being a couple with you. Yeah, man, just wait a little longer. You're on the path to a fulfilling and sex-filled marriage. Just wait a little longer. You're totally not being strung along or backburnered

>>18345923
this sarcasm, I can dig this, Anon. but yes slap some sense into me

>>18345929
Excuse my condescension anon but I know waiting-for-marriage Christian couples who get more action than you're getting. I won't say there's no hope for this situation but after almost a year she's not acting out any sexual interest in you at all, which means she either has issues with sex or more likely, are getting those needs met elsewhere. Either way, you're wasting your precious time. Pull back from her and find a girl who will be into you. Don't make her a priority at all when you're just an option. Love yourself first anon.

>>18345953
Thanks, Broseph. It seems I always make the mistake of trusting girls too much. but im gonna confront her about this and ask straight up. "where is this going" depending on how she answers is how I will proceed

>>18345953
but that's the thing, she WILL touch me, and rub against me, it's just when I touch HER is when she freaks out, which leads me to think. sexual trauma

she always goes on about respecting her space

>>18345962
It leads me to think you're being led on.

>>18345974
but then why spend money on me? say talk to my mom on the phone it's just weird

>>18345990
Why does it matter?

>>18345995
because normally girls who lead men on don't spend money on them? or actually want to talk to their parents right?

>>18345998
No. I was led on by a girl who did both these things. Why are you searching for any little sign that she's into you. Girls spend money on and introduce friends to their mom all the time. She's not sleeping with you, or doing any kind of sexual favors. You're a friend, nothing more. Is she the only girl you've gotten attention from lately? A guy with a lot of options wouldn't put up with this shit.

>>18346012
it's funny because whenever I get involved with a girl, other girls give me attention. I guess I'm a chronic oneitis sufferer

>>18345837
Homie if she aint fucking you, get away from that. Clearly she just playing.

>>18346049
Im glad I got adv to knock some sense into me