ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

If I'm so great, why can't I get a date?

For both. State your gender and list your top 3 hobbies.

>>18344598
Male

Reading
Firearms
Shopping

Ladies, what is your thought on the hotwife/cuckoldry fetish (i.e. we're a couple but you can fuck other men on the side and I'd enjoy it). Not one of those people but I was curious as to what women think since I haven't really seen them talk about it.

>>18344598
Male

Playing piano
Reading
Painting

State your gender.

Your biggest red flags for someone of the opposite gender AND (this is the important part) where you think you learned it was a red flag.

>>18344598
Male

Driving (I'm better than any of you here)
Playing games
Taking care of cats

>>18344633
It's pathetic

>>18344598
Male

athletic stuff - tennis / working out / rock climbing
music stuff - listening to new music / going to concerts / practicing violin
nerd stuff - video Games / computer programing / magic the gathering

>>18344598
Female

Art specifically drawing
Gaming
Film

>>18344649
>implying /adv/ has had enough experience with the opposite gender to have 3 red flags

Male

>>18344649
Assuming we're talking about red flags for potential relationships:

Shy. Shy girls can be really impossible to get anything out of. Learned this from a girl I had a thing for who was so shy there was just no way we could ever be compatible.

No hobbies/interests. Just makes for uninteresting people. Got this one from a bunch of women I've made friends with over the years doing that thing when you first meet where you're kind of assessing whether or not they'd be worth dating, only to discover they're boring. I don't have to be personally interested in your hobbies, you just need to have them.

Romantically naive. Tends to apply mostly to girls who haven't had their heart broken before. They just want and expect very different things out of a relationship than I am able to give.

>>18344598
Cars - working on/driving/car shows/talking shit about cars
Writing - novel length fiction
Ice and inline skating

Quick side-track question, what do you think the percentage of frequently asked question on this board is?
>50% dude depression lmao
>30% break-up stuff
>10% sex related
>5% original and interesting questions
>5% random and not relevant shit

>>18344598
Male
Videogames
Collecting toys
Tabletop gaming
>>18344805
100% whining

>>18344598
Female

Video games
Reading
Drawing

>>18344598
Female

Politics (coupled with economics and history; mostly just reading and thinking)
Music (playing, listening, writing, attending shows)
Travel (mostly around the US, but I've been to Europe twice)

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>>18344598
Male

Browsing 4chan
Watching youtube
Masturbating
(runner up hobbies watching anime and playing video games)

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>>18344688
>music stuff - listening to new music / going to concerts / practicing violin
Ayyyy. I'm >>18344826 . I play upright bass, and am picking up violin. Good luck, homie.

>>18344836
Thanks. Rare to see a girl into economics and politics. Are you a #resist scholar?

>>18344826
>politics
As much as that is an interest for me too, I wouldn't really tell people considering how divided and sensitive everyone is about it lately.

>>18344598
male
-theoretical physics
-lifting
-fantasy world building

>>18344867
buff autist, nice

>>18344871
Not really buff. Intermediate stats, and I don't really see a point going beyond that.
And I don't have autism like most people here. If by that you means problems with socializing or with girls.

>>18344598

Female

ASL
Volunteer teaching
Cooking

>>18344863
Same. Where I live, talking about anything remotely conservative will ruin your reputation. I've had friends talk behind my back for the slightest comments.

>>18344805
Something like that. But is it really surprising to you?

This website is full of neets and shut ins that are trying to figure out what they're trying to do with their life.

>>18344853
>Are you a #resist scholar?
Oh lord.

>>18344598
Female (aged 29)

-Weebaboo and Korean stuff (K-Variety, K-Drama, Manga, VNs)
-Cooking
-Crippling, endless anxiety about everything. Just spent 5 hours researching homeless shelter in my area I am not homeless but what if I was. What would I do. Nobody would help me. Maybe my parents but what if they were already dead. They're going to die. Everyone is going to die. What will I do with all my stuff when/if I become homeless. Do I sell it? What about my extensive anime collection? How fast does it take to get a job? If my fiance lost his job tomorrow, would we become homeless if neither of us can find a good enough job before our savings runs out? What if we had a baby? WHy do homeless shelters close 2 days a week where do the people go?

>>18344649

Woman (see above)

Engaged now, but when I was dating the biggest red flag was when they got very sexually abusive with me when they are drunk. There are a lot of smaller things I feel really judgmental about now. The older I got the less judgmental I got. When I was a teenager everything is a red flag, because I was super judgmental of myself and how I looked to my peers and I viewed my bf as an extension of myself. So wearing "too dorky" of clothes or making weird jokes or not having dated before was a downright dealbreaker. The older you get, the less you care about your peers and the more you just want someone who is decent and good. At least for me.

Not the same as "cock carosel" or whatever. I'm a virgin.

>>18344633

Kinda gross and sad. Its one step above just pimping you out. Because like--does he love you? For polyamorous people it can be okay. Not for me.

>>18344598
Female

Gardening
Cooking
Exercising

Kinda boring I know.

>>18344902
Pretty much. My girlfriend feels more strongly than I do and I have to pretty much beg her not to tell people due to how strongly they react. It's bizarre how upset people get over political leanings these days.

>>18344925
>tfw libertarian
>someone asks who i voted for
>tell them i'd rather not say
>they assume i voted for trump and give me an evil look
>end up telling them i wrote in rand paul because gary johnson is an incompetent buffoon
>they continue giving me the evil look
I just want to be left alone ;_;

>>18344916
>Are you a #resist scholar?
That's what I've taken to calling the people talking about dedicating their master's thesis to "all the struggling queer, transexual and people of color who are systematically oppressed and marginalized by the imperialist white supremacist capitalist patriarchal academic research institutions fuck my professor for asking me to town this down I will not be silenced by the white man" on my facebook feed

>>18344925
>It's bizarre how upset people get over political leanings these days.
Because they don't like being corrected. My great aunt basically threw a tantrum because my mother explained to her how taxes for a small business actually work. Another ditz I used to talk to started demanding access to their tax info because she refused to believe what they said.

Socialist politics mixed with bipolar disorder really is fascinating to watch.

Women I am a fat, unemployed, truly forever alone loser with anxiety and depression. Should I just kill myself?

>>18344946
Yeah.

>>18344633
>>18344633
I already get good dickings, so I don't care too much. I think it's cool to see the polyamory thing work. Our roomie fucks the husband of a married couple next door and then she flirts/fucks whoever else she wants. She seems pretty happy getting so much attention and not being tied down to one person. Then again, all of us are in the BDSM Polyamory scene where all of this is super normal.

On the other side, I eagerly give up my fiancee to other girls that can do something I can't. Also, I love watching/directing/being involved.

>>18344925
My ex-girlfriend almost started crying because I "just don't get" why its racist that the lead role in the Ghost in the Shell movie is played by a white woman. She was emotionally unstable in many ways.

>>18344946
kill this guy >>18344949 first.

>>18344949
Cool. I forgot to mention that I'm bald and probably ugly too. How does one fail so much at existence?

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>>18344955
>its racist that the lead role in the Ghost in the Shell movie is played by a white woman
I wouldn't be able to deal with someone being this retarded. Even the guy who made Ghost In The Shell didn't give a fuck and thought it was stupid that other people did, even the Japanese didn't understand all the fuss.

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>>18344955
>My ex-girlfriend almost started crying because I "just don't get" why its racist that the lead role in the Ghost in the Shell movie is played by a white woman.
I thought it was weirder that they randomly plugged in black people. You can even argue that the company seems to be American based in the movie but it's not like the nips have ever taken a shine to immigration.

>>18344963
The guy also made an orgy all girl in the manga because he "didnt want to draw a guys ass", somehow I have the feeling the people whining about that wouldn't like him.

>>18344958
Yeah good luck killing me over the internet pussy.

I doubt he's even going to do it anyways.

>>18344946

No don't kill yourself.
Who is taking care of you? Your parents? Or are you homeless?
What are you doing to help improve your situation?

There are tons of resources out there to help you.

1) Get mental healthcare (meds are most important get the meds theapy is garbage but who knows it might work for you I guess it does on average idk)
2) Find a job, possibly ask your parents if they can help you get money for job training.
3) Dont need a bf

>>18344649
Male

>Not having any hobbies
If they're not interested in anything, how could they be interested in anyone?
>Racism, homophobia and so on
For obvious reasons
>Chubby/Fat and not doing anything about it
To me, it means that they are lazy, without self-respect or other "mental" flaw(s)
And yes, I do know some people can't do anything about it but that's rare

>>18344946
>>18344969

Sorry change the bf to gf I misread your question.

>>18344955
the only problem I have with that casting is that they didn't choose someone prettier and whiter. And likely cheaper, too.

>>18344977
I think scarjo did an excellent job.

How do I stop my sister from hardcore sperging and loud yelling at me over trivial bullshit and then coming to my room to cry and apologize?

I know that the stereotypical misogynist dude thing is to say that women sperg over trivial matters, but seriously, she's fucking up my day here.

>>18344863
>>18344902
I don't tell just anyone, but it's a must if I want a long-term relationship with, unfortunately. (platonic, academic, romantic).

>>18344853
>>18344940
>Are you a #resist scholar?
No. Absolutely not.

I think it's fine to talk about transphobia and racism and the like, but it can't dominate what should be class-based, anti-capitalist discourse and activism. For example, anti-black racism in America is real, and it originated with dehumanization of African slaves to justify slavery, and then with slavers incentivizing white indentured servants to shun/abuse black slaves, to put down and prevent multiracial slave revolts. Racism is based in economics, so if we want to end racism, we must switch to another economic system. Attacking white Americans or trying to get more black CEO's and politicians isn't going to do anything.

I'm basically an """old school""" leftist. Fuck American political terminology for making "leftist" synonymous with "liberal". I fucking hate those bastards.

The shit you see on Twitter and /pol/ is vapid garbage.

>>18344993

Uh I am not misogynist or a dude and I do think women kinda sperg over trivial matters? Not all but a lot?
But if she apologizes and cries say "no problem I know you love me its okay" Hug her and tell her you have to get back to work. Is she undergoing a lot of stress or suffering from anxiety/depression?

femanons, what is the policy on accidentally kissing and fingering your sister. I'm at my gf's place, she was away, It was 4 AM, her sister probably arrived around this time to crash, there was only one bedroom, she entered the room and just fell on me (she didn't know??) so I thought it's my gf in the dark, so I kissed her and fingered her a little bit and we slept next to each other till the morning. She only resisted a little bit in the beginning, I hugged her, she giggled and said stop it, but that's all, and she's pretty wet, too.
We haven't said a word to each other since then. Holyshit, I couldn't remember clearly, hope she didn't have an orgasm or anything. It has been a few days and things have been calm, so there's no need to tell anyone?

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>>18345001
>if we want to end racism, we must switch to another economic system.

>>18345004
Stress I think. Depression maybe, I know I saw xanax in her room when I was twelve or something.

I just wan't the shrill chihuahua noises to stop. Also the occasional symbolic beating when I talk back to her too. Why would she try to hit someone whos fit with her bony hands? It's like a child assaulting a guard or something.

>>18345006
That's what siblings do, anon. Don't worry about it.

>>18345001
Cool I love how racism magically stops existing in Communism.

>>18345006
This is stupid and reads like some dumb fake porno question. I dont think theres a NEED to tell her but if her sister tells her that is worse so you might want to tell her and be honest now.

>>18345001
pls be in oakland

Should I pursue a girl who has a bf and can't chose between me and him?

>>18345015

Its BECAUSE she is smaller she feels comfortable hitting, if it makes you uncomfortable tell her (kindly but) firmly to stop.

Stress can be super overwhelming, if she's yelling tell her you can't discuss it until she's calmed down because you know she isn't being herself right now. If she just needs someone to talk to in general, keep it to a limited time. Like say, "can we talk at 7?" or something.

>>18345035
No.

>>18345022
No, you're stupid :))

>>18345035

No that is stupid.
Why would you waste your time on a girl who doesn't even know if she likes you? Let alone one who has a bf? How obnoxiously indecisive can you get? Walk away, look for other girls, if she likes you she knows where to find you. No point in wasting time and mental energy on a girl who isn't willing to commit.

>>18344649

Dude here.

Biggest red flag for women would be;
Overly judgemental of things that do not really matter.

See what this Lady put >>18344919
>The older I got the less judgmental I got. When I was a teenager everything is a red flag, because I was super judgmental of myself and how I looked to my peers and I viewed my bf as an extension of myself. So wearing "too dorky" of clothes or making weird jokes or not having dated before was a downright dealbreaker.

Straight up, I'd avoid a girl like this. I don't want to have to answer for the things I do for fun, the dumb jokes I make. I certainly don't need to feel like my life is one big performance piece where I'm trying to convince a panel of judges to give me top marks.

This red-flag is even worse when the turn a blind eye to shit that does matter.

"Yeah, he's cheating on his wife to be with me, BUT HE'S REALLY NICE ONCE YOU GET TO KNOW HIM".

Sadly, I wish it were only teenage girls that act like this. That have this red flag, but I am more than aware of some women in their 40's with this kind of attitude.
Does not bode well for the future.

Oh well, I'm a fucking virgin creep anyway, I don't have to put up with this shit.

>>18344598
Male

Writing
Playing piano
Swimming

>>18345045
>we were going to fuck one night but I said no because I thought I liked her too much
>I choked her with a seatbelt while we made out
>she massages me

>>18345079

There are plenty of other girls who are willing to choose you AND massage you AND have sex with you AND let you choke them (lol wtf).

Have some respect for yourself.

>>18345035
Do you want her? I'd put a hard limit of 1 month into her if you really realy like her. Beyond that and you're wasting your time.

how do i convince a girl to sit on my face and pee on me? i'm a bit shy

>>18345111
>face-sitting
Get a girlfriend.

>pee
Pay a hooker.

>>18344967
Even if I could I wouldn't.
>>18344969
I still have meds but they don't do much and the ones that did had side effects too severe to continue usage.

>>18345111

Ask her about it, ideally over drinks, start with the pee thing because sitting who cares.

"Convince" is the wrong idea. Like you will never "convince" anyone, you aren't making an argument. Either she's up for it or she's not.

>>18345111
Ask your GF
If she like being eaten, sitting on your face wouldn't be too hard

Peeing on you is another story altogether. You first need to know what she thinks about pee. Is it disgusting? She doesn't care? Does she know that pee is actually clean?
Then you should bring up a conversation on your respective kinks. Tell her that you want her to pee on you ONLY if the answer is yes to the two last questions above and if she told you she has a kink "as disgusting as" urination

Good luck Anon
I'm on the same case as you but my GF love sitting in my face

>>18345120

Try to get new meds tell the doctor they aren't helping. BE yourself in that medical room show them the extent of your anxiety and your pain.

Girls,

Is the "Chad" meme true? Would you really leave your boyfriend the second a "genetically superior specimen" arrives?

>>18345130
why do people like the face sitting thing? seems to me that it would hurt your nose

>>18345165
Same. Or their neck or something. Can you guys breathe well enough?

>>18345165
It's just another position for cunnilingus or anulingus
It doesn't hurt if you do it right, like most sexual things
You have a bit more difficulty to breath at times and you feel more if your partner weight. If you are good with your tongue, she'll probably gonna "fuck" your mouth because of the pleasure and that's when you need strength to control her mouvement

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>>18345151

No I wouldn't leave my fiance for a "genetically superior specimen".

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>>18344598
Female

Art - mostly digital sculpting with Mudbox or digital illustration, but I make jewelry and chainmaille stuff too.
Home stuff - gardening (I need to learn more though), cleaning, and making decorations by hand.
Going to musicals or Cirque Du Soleil shows.

>>18344633
Disgusting.

>>18344649
Female

>Having a really fucking closed-in worldview
I value objectivity and logic when it comes to serious discussions. I constantly overhear people spouting buzzwords and putting zero thought behind arguments, and it's infuriating. Absolutely a generational thing, though. "My opinion is the only correct opinion because I refuse to hear anybody out, and I feel like I should be right" is a really shitty way to look at anything. I feel bad for people who are childish enough to act that way.

>Admitting to experiencing addictive behavior, specifically drinking
Red flag due to having alcoholics on both sides of my family, and drug addicts in extended family. I don't drink or do any drugs because of that, as well. Parents both broke their family cycles of addiction, and I want it to be 100% gone with me.

>Insulting personal interests or hobbies
Red flag because I can't remember a time I wasn't bullied for liking what other people didn't like. Because of that, I'm genuinely afraid of personally insulting OTHER people or judging them. Being my biggest critic is my job, not my boyfriend's.

>Shit hygiene
Series of bad experiences with shitty roommates. I'll clean up after people, but I won't tunnel through Mt. Garbage. Taking a shower isn't hard, either.

Girls:
You're getting married and your fiance wants you to sign a prenup. What do you think?

>>18345219

"Gross, does he want to divorce me? Wtf? Does he have severe hangups about women and/or money?"

Probably result in a long long conversation about money etc. I mean, the fact that he's my fiance in this hypothetical suggests we already love each other. If the prenup was very fair and favorable (and I know my rights) I might sign, or I might dump him. Its just a red flag though.

>>18345219
Depends on the contents and what he expects it to do vs. what a prenup actually does.

>>18345219
"Please don't use this as an excuse to treat me like shit."
Depends what the agreement is though. If it's reasonable and I don't have any concerns about the guy, I probably won't care.

The kind of guys who talk about prenups also talk about the joint assets of a marriage (i.e. a major part of marriage) as being ~their money~.
"Oh no this woman is getting divorced and getting half of HIS money!" kind of thing. Like.....retard men who don't know how a relationship or a partnership actually works.

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>>18345228
>Wow just because he's putting himself in a position of extreme vulnerability where I could rip his life apart on a whim he expects me to agree not to rob him I can't believe him I better find some other more desperate sucker to marry instead.

Women I swear.

>Live in a very small town in Nebraska. Population of a few hundred people
>Had a crush on a girl since I was like 10
>Never did anything with it
>When we were 19 she ended up moving to California
>24 now and she's moved back
>She's been back about 2 weeks
I want to ask her out. Should I tell her I had a crush on her or not?
She's still very pretty and I don't have a girlfriend and there's very limited choice of single girls my age that are nearby.

>>18345242
Prenups get thrown out in court most of the time anyway.

Most women aren't massive greedy Jew cunts though.

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>>18345249
>Most women aren't massive greedy Jew cunts though.

>>18345249
I know they usually do, but I think it would at the very least give me peace of mind.

>>18345242
I don't know where you're from, but where I live, relationship property law doesn't work like that.

>>18345245
I think you should just ask her to hang out in a casual, platonic way, just to welcome her back and see what's going on in her life. Maybe have a few drinks or something, or go get ice cream, or whatever the fuck is available in your town.

If it goes well, end the hang-out by saying that you enjoyed, you really like her, and asking her if she'd like to go on a date with you.

And how far are you from a town/city of over 10,000 or so?

P.S. check out the Sand Hills some time, if you haven't already or don't already live there.

>>18345242

Nah bullshit. She can't "rip your life apart". She gets half, you get half. That is what a divorce is. That is fair. LITERALLY 50/50. She is just as "vulnerable" as you are, if not more so.

>>18345249

Only if they are stupid bullshit prenups that take the attitude that "the money belongs to the MAN", because its considered too unbalanced. Or were verbal, signed under coercion, had the guy lying about how much he owned (ie false pretenses).

Garbage prenups get thrown out. Intelligent and fair prenups which make sure each spouse is treated fairly do not.

>>18345245
Go ahead and ask her out, don't tell her you had a crush on her until a while in and you are reminiscing about the good old days.

>>18345262
The money belongs to whoever earned it you golddigging cunt. Kill yourself.

>>18345262
It's weird how the guys who are keen on prenups on here always seem to be very misguided about how they work, huh?

>>18345262
>one half brings home money
>other half doesnt and spends the other halfs money

No, you keep what you brought in the first place. That's what fair is.

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>>18345262
>fair is taking half of something you didnt work for

>>18345263
hypothetical
>man earns $130k pa after taxes
>woman earns $50k pa after taxes
>they get married
>woman gives up her job to look after kids
>husband is motivated to work harder by kids, ends up making $150k pa after taxes
>they get divorced for whatever reason
>she gets alimony + child support + tip
>she ends up with about $90k of his $150k
how is this not fair?

>>18345280
>woman gives up her job to look after kids
She chose to give up her job. Plenty of families have two working parents. So because she decided to give up her job she then deserves money for a decision she made? Nope. She made her bed so she'll sleep in it.

>>18345284
This.

>>18345280
How about in a purely hypothetical scenario, you still automatically take the man's kids away from him.

>>18344598
Female

Progamming
Piano
Cooking

>>18344598
Male
Vaping
Drugs
Weed
Cars

>>18345263

No it belongs to the couple. That's how marriage works. You are a partnership now. If the guy doesn't understand this, that means he doesn't understand marriage at all. The prenup would get thrown out and rightfully so.

>>18345268
>>18345274

You mean like a homemaker? Who sacrifices for her husbands career?

1) This is a minority of relationships. Most women work outside the home.
2) She deserves EXTRA protections due to sacrificing her own earning potential for his. This is part of a marriage. Part of a relationship. Get over it.

>>18345284

Lol bullshit. When you are a couple these decisions are made jointly. 2 working parent households have benefits and drawbacks. Same with a homemaker.

50/50 is almost always fair, save exceptional circumstances where one spouse comes in with a ton of money. You aren't exceptional. You will need to depend on your spouse, and she on you.

>>18345297
>Who sacrifices for her husbands career?
By choice. Everyone else shouldn't have to pay for someone elses decision that they later regret.

I don't expect to take half her shit and she shouldn't expect to take half of mine.

>>18345297
2 questions.

1: How many men have you gold-dug and are currently living off of their work just because you married them for 2 weeks then left them just as planned.
2: How do you live with yourself being such a horrible horrible human being.

At least thanks to women like you men are wising up and marriage rates are plummeting.

>>18345300
>By choice
Yes. By choice. AND? Whats your point? Also a choice: the man's "choice" to get a job that pays more.

>Everyone else
Who?

>shouldn't have to pay for someone elses decision that they later regret.
Who says she regrets it? Nobody regrets it. She boosted her husband's career and her family. And marriage is about a FAMILY now. You are no longer two individuals. You are a single unit and your finances are one and the same.

>I don't expect to take half her shit and she shouldn't expect to take half of mine.
This mentality does not exist in a marriage. If you are thinking of marriage in these terms, then you are not ready for marriage and if you write a prenup with this mentality (trying to screw over your homemaker wife or what have you), your prenup will be thrown out and you will bitch and it will be hilarious. Marriage is a partnership. You get half of her shit, she gets half of your shit, its right down the middle. Two way street.

Don't like it? Don't get married.

>>18345310

>1: How many men have you gold-dug and are currently living off of their work just because you married them for 2 weeks then left them just as planned.
wtf 0. I don't believe in divorce at all. Engaged to be married, will ride out inevitable economic ups and downs and what have you.

Nobody does this btw.

>2: How do you live with yourself being such a horrible horrible human being.
50/50 divorce = ~horrible~? How entitled can you get?

>At least thanks to women like you men are wising up and marriage rates are plummeting.
That is their choice. As long as they aren't trying to have kids out of wedlock I have zero problem with men not getting married. You don't need to be married. Go become a monk or something for all I care. Marriage is for families, it is a partnership where a man and a woman come together to form something greater than the whole. You become ONE in a marriage and that makes for a 50/50 split.

That said men actually have been shown to benefit post-divorce economically and women hurt the most (single motherhood is an ugly place to be).

>>18344598
Female

Writing
DIY stuff
Work (listing as a hobby because I truly enjoy it and do it in my free time when possible)

>>18345151
Allow be to be brutually honest

I'm not a confident person, I prefer to be the settler. I want my boyfriend to look just a little worse than me, so I can always feel secure and happy with him, and know he's happy with me.
If Chad tries to hit me up I will run screaming in any other direction.

Yes, I know, I'm about to generalize.

Females. Why are you so obsessed with wanting a baby?

>>18345333
I feel like something like this should make me feel mad or disgusted for some reason, but I don't know why. I feel very weirdly ok with this.

>>18344878
Don't be offended. "Autist" is used very frequently by r9k or /v/ or similar such critter. Sometimes it's not an insult, but like an acknowledgement of kinship, or it could be used on any person who studies STEM, has a PhD, or has anything related to higher education, by less fortunate, less educated people.

>>18345337
It's a natural urge to reproduce. You'll find that all life has the same obsession.

>>18344598
male

reading
hiking
games (tabletop or vidya)

>>18345337
I used to be obsessed with having kids at a very young age. We're talking 14-18.
I guess it's instinctual; worked in a kindergarten for a while just to be around kids, especially very young ones, so i could "play mommy".

Then I moved out and got a job. The sweet, sweet freedom of having money, silence and privacy turned me around. i still want kids one day, but not in another ten years or so.

I guess when you live at home, dealing with parents and sibling every day, the idea of having another family member seems more plausible and acceptable. You spend your life wondering about the future, and the media idea of a perfect life is "husband, kids, mortage, van and golden retriever." So that's the end goal. You might want to travel, and go to college, but it seems like the finish line of life is that sweet, sweet two-story home that smells like cooking dinner and doing laundry.
There is something stable and safe in that fantasy.

There has to be a biological aspect to it too, but I don't know anything about that.

>>18345337
Because we're the only sex in the human species that is able to physically bear a child. If there wasn't some kind of "obsession" there, the species would be extinct due to lack of reproduction.

>>18345337

I'm not "obsessed" but:

1) I'm getting older.
2) Family is how we ensure we love and are loved for the rest of our lives. All that matters in the world is love and money.
3) Literally all humanity is driven to have children that is how biology works. Your genes want to replicate themselves.

Never play video games much, but a female friend is asking me to play "the Sims 4" with her. What do girls think about guys who play this kind of game?

>>18345356

Can't speak for everyone but I'd think its ok. Sims is a fun game. I won't think he's gay if that's what you are asking.

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>>18345356
It's one of those games where you can say stuff about relationships and pretend it's about the game, when really you're trying to mine for what the other person thinks about relationships and shit like parenting.
I doubt she's that insidious if she just likes games, but The Sims is a fun series. Like the other anon said, you're not gay for liking The Sims.

Guys,

Would you feel any different about having sex with a girl knowing she was a virgin? Does it put pressure on you, or does it just make you feel good?

>>18345377
I'd be a little concerned that she'd end up not liking sex and avoiding in the future, since the first time is a little painful from what I've heard and some women avoid sex for weeks.

>>18345377
Pressure in my case.

>>18345381
sex for the first time is not supposed to be even a little bit painful, but it often is because girls are nervous and maybe not quite ready, making them not properly wet or relaxed. That can be remedied with foreplay.

>>18345361
>>18345366
uh ok good to know.

I don't think she plays games, not that I know of. She said a friend told her about this game and asked her to play. This game is sort of spreading through her group of female friends. She probably thought it's gay so she asked me to join? (lol)

Girls

Do you mind if the guy comes quick the first round, but lasts long in the second?

>>18345400
I don't expect two rounds, but that sounds like it would be just fine. if my boyfriend comes too quickly he goes down on me to make it up, so it's fun times all around for everyone really

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>>18345356
It depends how creative you can get.

There's a person I know of from 5 years ago who died at the start of this year, I never really knew her but whenever I saw her I always thought she was attractive. After the initial 'oh she died' when I found out, I didn't really give it much more thought. For the past month I keep frequently seeing her in my dreams talking to me, what does this mean? Is it paranormal or just a normal occurrence? My dream last night she was over at my house and we were talking, I mentioned that she is now dead and she was then in a panicked denial about being dead. I just find it strange because I never really knew her (said one or two words maybe once) so I have pretty much no connection to her.

I keep having this problem where I chat with a girl, meet irl, and all we do together is fuck, watch movies/series, eat and sleep. It's nice I guess but maybe 3 times a month nice, not 8. They all leave eventually because I don't spend enough time with them, but honestly, that kind of life more than once a week makes me feel like a slug.

Tl;Dr: Women are uninteresting and shallow, does that make me a misogynist?

>>18345418

That you are generalizing from your small sample? Yes, it does. You might consider you are constantly with women like this for reasons that start with you, not women.

>>18345420
I've considered that, yeah. Shallow, boring girls might be low-hanging fruit. Maybe I should climb some trees.

>>18345428

I was hasty to call you a misoginist. How old are you? People get a lot more engaging as they get older.

>>18345434
25, but I mostly fuck 16-19 year olds. Like I said, low-hanging fruit. I'm considering changing my policy on accepting easy pussy. I mean sure, I think it's natural for men to accept 99.9% of all the pussy they're offered, but I think it says a lot about a person's maturity if he can turn it down.

>messaging virgin girl
>say something sweet
>she replies with "Awww... I want flowers from you, now"
>send picture of flowers
>no reply
Was that a code for "I want to meet you", to send her actual flowers (I don't even have her address yet) or what?

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>>18345418
>I don't spend enough time with women I date
>Women are uninterested and shallow
If you're wondering why you can't hold a relationship, you answered your own question. Resorting to buzzwords doesn't solve your lack of interest in them, which is likely causing them to lose interest in you.

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>>18345466
>"I want flowers from you"
>send picture of flowers

fun stuff, anon

and she was probably just saying she likes you, but the smooth reply would have been to ask her out and bring flowers on the date.

>>18345476
Women are boring as fuck, tho.
9 times out of 10, if I wanna do something, I do it with a dude, because I get all the social interaction that a woman can give me, but ten times better, and without the bullshit and drama.
If I want to stick my dick into a wet hole, I choose the woman. Because I'm not gay. Which is a shame.

>>18344598
Female

Drawing
Vidya
Programming (this is my job but it's a hobby as well)

>>18344598
Male

Reading (SF/non-fiction/lit fic)
Climbing
Shitposting

Guys, what prompts to confess your problems or worries to a girl you know but aren't very close friends with?

>>18345678
Nothing at all. I don't know of any guys that do this. Women though, that's a different story...

Girls, what is the ideal penis size?

>>18345678
If I think she can help solving my problems.

I know a lot of guys here say they want a virgin gf when they are virgin. But what about girls, do girls also prefer to lose their virginity to a guy who's also a virgin?

>>18345773
No

>>18345416
bump

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>>18344598
Male
>Discussion
Politics, Religion, Sex (the 3 taboos)
>Watch/ play
Vidya, Movies, TV
>Hobbies
Reading, cooking, nature

Kinda surprised the ration is 10F to 13M on here

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Why do men generally prefer white chicks?

>>18345773
Oh man, my current gf is a virgin. She's just so cute when she starts talking about it and asks me stuff, but gets easily shy about it at the same time.

>>18345813
Their skin color is more appealing to the eye.

>>18345813
Low hanging fruit.

Do girls badmouth men who seems to have a crush on one of their friends ? There's that girl I like and when I heard her laugh a few meters away, I looked to confirm it was her and I noticed that one of her friend was already looking in my direction and laughing

>>18345813
What men? When you say "white", do you mean white and black men? If they identify as such, they most likely will like white more because they are racist. Using terms like white and black are racist in themselves because white and black are not places you can say you hail from. It's also a very simple, child's equation of white= light, clean, pure and black= dark, dirty, evil

>Don't want to be racist? Don't classify as black or white

>>18345813
cuz just look at the alternatives, then look at that pic, white skin is aesthetically superior

>>18345839
Not him, but like 80% of my black friends prefer white women. I know there is a lot of cuck/bbc meme around this topic, but there is a lot of truth to it. The ''black men lusting for white girs'', that is.

>>18345831

No. It's not about the guy. I'd never badmouth a friend's potential romantic interest, because I genuinely wish she'd find someone. It's only sweet if a guy has a crush on my friend, but I will tease her endlessly about it and laugh my ass off at her expense for sure. Especially if the crush is mutual and neither her nor the guy do anything about it, those situations are the funniest. So, it's not badmouthing, it's more like
>"He's looking at you, I swear! He seems cute, you should talk to him. Now your face is going all read. Oh damn, this is hilarious."
type of thing.

>>18345813
Eurocentric beauty standards. Europe has pretty much conquered most of the world. Western influence is exceptionally strong. Plastic surgeons and cosmetic companies make a killing off of nose jobs, double eyelid surgery, and skin bleaching products.

Our preferences are not immutably innate. Our values are constantly being shaped by society, even before we're conscious of them.

Still, individuals can find other races more attractive, even after heavy exposure to white-biased society, and a few exceptions don't negate the general trend.

>>18345377
I'm chatting with a virgin girl now. It would make me feel special. I'm a nice person and I want her first time to be nice, even if it isn't awesome.

>>18345416
>caring about dreams

>>18345487
Am I autistic?

>>18345678
Sometimes it is good to get an unbiased person's perspective?

>>18345852
My statement still stands. Do they identify as black or celebrate their roots? Perfect example would be Dominican men; majority are dark skinned. Do they like majority "white" girls? No, because they don't identify as "black", even if other people will do it for them.

Also, I'm terrified of being seen carrying flowers. Is this really needed?

>>18345867
Okay, thank you very much
Even if the part about mutual love remind me of how it's never going to happen and how at the end of the year I'll say farewell to her and never see her again

>>18345881
>Do they like majority "white" girls? No, because they don't identify as "black", even if other people will do it for them.
What?

>>18345678
Literally no other option?

>>18345908
People will look at others and classify "white or black", even if the victim doesn't themselves.

>>18345852
Because western culture dominates the world practically, and with it comes western beauty standards.
>Flat, vertical faces
>Straight, narrow noses
>Separate, thin eyebrows
>Narrow lips
>Wide set, open eyes
Mongoloid and Negroid skull structures don't have these, while Caucasoid skull structures do.

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You people want the real pill on this white beauty thing? It's the fact that caucasian facial features are more aesthetic, combined with the scientific fact that white/light colour is a feminine trait and black/dark colour is a more masculine trait.

Look at albinos if you don't believe me.

>>18345947
Dark hair, bright eyes, red lips and cheek is such a hnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng combo.

>>18344598
Male
Vidya, competitive scenes and singleplayer stuff
Writing (fanfiction, tabletop game worldbuilding and running them)
Travel

And my research work, I love it but it's not a hobby


>>18345330
What do you write and what do you do at work? People who like their work are cool

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>>18345958
I take offence to that.

>>18345971
damn she used to hot man

>>18345971
Only reason why I still watch the prequels.

Pro-tip to girls: this is the best pose ever:
>>18345971

>>18345947
Who is this chick?

>>18345947
>>18345971
wow, /adv/, you managed to post somebody of the apperance not below the average today!
I'm so proud

>>18345416
oh yeah, totally paranormal!
man, you are a medium. Contact you local medium asap and start helping people connect with their dead families

>>18344919
how the sweetest fuck, with all those absurd mental problems and never fucking, did you manage do get engaged?
how?

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>>18344598
Male
-Cooking
-Photography
-Learning about fields of law I don't practice

For women who lost their v-card as adults, consensually, what circumstances led to you being willing to sleep with a guy and give up your virginity?

>>18345947
>>18345971
How do I into gf like either of these?

>>18345984
Noted, thanks for the tip!

>>18345984
maybe for footfags

>>18346120
Footfag here. Yep. It's the best pose.

Girls
I'm a pretty nice guy and socially awkward guys, I suck at being mean and barely flirt by teasing. Is there any hope of my getting a gf?

how do i make a move on a coworker tho

i'm a retail scrub

Is getting a particular person to be attracted to you an ongoing process or should someone be attracted to you in the first few minutes or hours of meeting you?
Can a girl change her mind and go from not being interested in a guy to being interested?

>>18346338

I was friends with my bf for 2 years before I made a move on him. Sure, there was a low-key spark of interest there along the way, but I didn't want to do anything about it until I was sure. But in general, me and any female friends I've talked to about this all prefer to know the guy a bit first, before anything romantic could potentially happen. So, yes, it's possible to develop (or at least deepen) interest over time and nothing has to happen right away. Depends on the girl too, probably. I know some who have crushes quickly and those fade just as fast, so the window is narrow. It might be different with them.

>>18346149
why do some guys like feet?

>>18346394
why do some girls like puking on your chest?

>>18346394
According to some neat evolutionary studies I looked at, it looks like some guys evolved to find feet sexually appealing because it helps stop the spread of STDs. The highest times of prevalent foot fetishes, that we're guessing based on the amount of pictures featuring feet at the time, are the 13th century (gonorrhea) the 16th century and 19th century (syphilis) and today there's the major STD of AIDS.

>>18346338

Attraction can develop over time, but if someone rejects you, then don't try to change their mind.

>>18345053
Made me think my current relationship over from a new perspective.
She doesn't have the red flag you're talking about, but something kind of similar, and I feel that it would be a big problem for me in the long run.

Going to have a serious talk with her next time we meet.

>>18346460
>evolution
>caused by occurences regarding single generations
>thrice
>during the last 700 years

it wasn't a very good study, anon

>>18346394
There's a bunch of theories, but no one knows for sure. One guess is that the area of the brain responsible for the motor function of feet happens to be next to the one responsible for sexual arousal... or something along those lines. I don't know crap about biology.

If you're asking for a guy with a foot fetish to explain it to you based on his experience though, we can't. We just find feet attractive the same way others find boobs or asses sexy - which, by the way, are fetishes too.

>>18346516
>which, by the way, are fetishes too.
no, they are not.

By both any DSM and ICD, a fetish is the sin equa non of sexual arousal, meaning you can't even get hard without it present

>>18346529
Obviously medical definitions are going to differ from what is used popularly or within alt sex communities.

>>18346529
I can't get hard if the girl is missing her feet tho

>>18346550
fuck the alt sex and their dark age vocabulary

>>18346394
Because girls' feet are skinny (footfags usually don't like fat girls, btw), delicate, smaller than ours, softer, cleaner, etc.

>>18346556
lol

Bump >>18345889

>>18345889
>>18346566

It's not. Also, work on your neurosis, I'm sure flowers aren't the only thing you have problems with.

Happy now? What kind of answer were you expecting?

>>18346572
I was expecting a debate on whether flowers are needed or not. I don't think I have a choice, though.
Are you a guy? Do you bring flowers? Do you care if people on the streets judge you because of the flowers?

>>18346599

I'm a guy. I don't mind carrying flowers. No, I don't feel obligated to do it, though. They are a nice gift on birthdays and important shit, but otherwise completely avoidable.

Do you think people judge you on the street a lot?

>>18346599
Flowers are good for special occasions, I wouldn't go full bouquet on dates.

Also, noone is going to judge you for carrying flowers. At most some females will get jealous because they never receive any.

>>18346599
>whether flowers are needed or not

Needed for what? Mother's day? Wedding? Funeral? A date? Yes/yes/yes/no.

>>18346608
>No, I don't feel obligated to do it, though
Yeah, but she has already said that she wants it. I don't want to disappoint the virgin princess who might be my first gf.
>Do you think people judge you on the street a lot?
That's what people do, isn't it? For example, when you are in a waiting line doing nothing, don't you judge others?

>>18346619
OK, I won't buy a huge bouquet.

>>18346624
First date.

Lets say you're a cute girl in lecture hall and I wanted to approach you. How would you envision me successfully meeting you in class?(Theres plenty of time to talk because the teacher is always 15 minutes late and we get a 20 minute break.)

I tend to be kind of awkward when I initially meet people btw. Im notorious among my friends for making bad first impressions.

Any advice is great. Thanks in advance.

>>18346629
>First date
No, definitely not.
>she has already said that she wants it
And do you expect her demands not to escalate? You sweet wee lamb.

>>18346629
>when you are in a waiting line doing nothing, don't you judge others?

Nope, I usually don't. I mean, I might get annoyed at someone yelling on their phone or doing something that actually affects me in some way. Someone just standing there, though? Why care?

You are not that important to strangers on the street.

>she has already said that she wants it.

Then... why are you even asking? She wants them. This is not about dating conventions, she asked you for them.

>>18346629
>when you are in a waiting line doing nothing, don't you judge others?
what?
why would I?

And what kind of a bad judgement is "this guy is going to make someone happy"?

>>18346637
>one anon says no
>>18346639
>other anon says yes
Which one is it? We need more votes!

>>18346643
That's not what people think.
>lol, this fag/creeper is going to give flowers to his ugly bitch
This is what people think.

>"this guy is going to make someone happy"?
I'd gladly live in a world where this is common (the act and the thought).

>>18346664
You have more serious problems than carrying flowers desu

>>18346670
this.

>>18346664

Man, leave your head and search for another one. This got bad beyond repair

>>18346670
:(
>>18346681
._.
Don't give up on me, bros!

girls who use tinder

how do you like the conversation to be?
how flirty do you like it?
what do you like to talk about?
etc etc

>>18346682
Look, we already told you that no one gives a fuck about some guy with flowers.
If the girl wants some, just buy her a rose or some shit, nothing over the board.

>>18346682
it's your lucky day, I'll give you one more post. One, so you must straight forward do exactly as I say:

repeat after me, firmly and surely:
"I am anon, a normal guy living in a normal world. While there are mean and stupid people around me, they are greatly outnumbered by the kind, happy and helpful ones. Not to mention the ones that never gave a fuck and never will"

Now, you should:
1)go for the flowers. Pick a little, nice bouquet or a single rose. While experiencing problems, ask the staff who'll definitely be happy to help you
2)wearing good clothes leave and go towards the lucky girl's house
3)on your way, have yoour back straight and a smile on
4)think only about your mission, don't stray with your thoughts
5)reach her house, deliver your fine gift, kiss, have babies or whatever you kids do those days


Do as I say, you'll recieve an A+
do not and live a miserable life

>>18346664

Which one is what? Give her flowers or don't. Get proffesional help for you paranoia.

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GUYS:

How do you measure weight underwater if its with your sister and you both do it?

>>18346692
>>18346695
Thank you, bros.

>>18346722
>Get proffesional help for you paranoia.
What if I tell you that the girl is almost finishing the psychology course? :^)

>>18346738
>What if I tell you that the girl is almost finishing the psychology course?
she must be either really terribly at psychology, for dating with you or one of those helpful moralfagette girls, who ruin their lifes to do something good for the helpless of our world

in either case I'm a bit sorry for her

>>18346729
You're reading too much into a stale pasta.

>>18346738
I would recommend not sharing that particular bit of information with her. Ever.

>>18346768
>>18346770
>in either case I'm a bit sorry for her
No. :(
I sperg with you guys to avoid sperging with her. I promise I've been good to her.

>>18346738

It's way better to avoid dating your therapist. But I'm feeling this is trolling now.

>>18346804
Neither she is my therapist nor I am trolling.

>>18346810
>Neither she is my therapist nor I am trolling.

Then why do I care about her background in pchology?

if he/she fucks around after your first date, what do you do?
for me personally, even if we're not a couple YET I'd immediately cut contact
if a person has ANY intentions to meet me again they should definitely stay clear of any other sexual relations

what do you think? why is it that for some people is sex just some fun they practice with everyone they can get their hands on? you can't be any more intimate than having sex

>>18346820
Because it's kind of funny how you guys think I am crazy and I am talking to an almost psychologist.

>>18345813
Idk gurl, it's not just my dick saying "I want that", it's my whole body. It's kinda weird man.

>>18346830
well, I had that one gf. She was cool and brave and I liked her a lot. Anyway, we fucked the first night after we met, had a solid 7times per day fucking routine, calmed down a bit during the next twoo weeks, but not much. And after a month we became a couple.
Later on she admitted to having sex once after we met, but before we called it a couple.

I wasn't jumping happily andI felt a bit bad, but fuck - we both kept to the clearly spoken rules. I can't find anything wrong with that, even if I don't like it. It's just as if I imagined her taking a shit - I'd prefer her not to ever do it, but demanding so would be fucking ridiculous.

tl;dr relationships are based on rules, and only breaking the rules qualifies as a red flag

>>18345813
I generally prefer chicks with a slightly darker skin tone

but you can't always get what you want anyways
can't transfer characters between bodies etc
so who gives a shit
no successful relationship is based purely on looks, not talking about your tinder fuckbuddy here

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Why aren't women funny?

>>18346850
stand-up comedians are almost never funny

Virgin here, might get laid tonight. How do I go about telling this girl I'm a virgin? Is that a bad idea, should I just not tell her? Also, should I shave my pubes? I've never had a reason to before and I don't know if it's a common thing really.

>>18346859
Wait until after you have sex with her if you feel like you just HAVE to tell her that you are/were a virgin.

First time posting here,but im in a weird situation and need help from femanons. Theres this girl from uni, im first year, she is sedond year, we had similar courses the entire second semester, talked to her once or twice, never fot her name.

She was talking with one of my friends, which is the assigned "group leader" of our class about getting some study material because she couldnt come to the class.

She funnily said that if my friend cant give her the study material right then that she can talk to "that blonde and smart guy from your class" (i guess she didnt know my name either).

I never talked to her about being in the same class with the other dude, so idk how she knew.

Is there a chance to be more than aquantainces with her or am i dreaming too much?

>>18346846
>chicks with a slightly darker skin tone
Post pic

>>18346859
Don't tell her, I didn't and she still thinks that I've banged several chicks before her.

>>18346859
Don't tell her, you can talk about this if you are a couple or whatever the day after or so

do you think she might like pubes or not? what kind of girl is she? most girls today like shaved men, inb4 some femanon explains how I'm wrong because of her opinion
maybe just trim everything and don't shave, whatever looks best on you

>>18346859
You shouldn't shave right before having sex, stupid. It might cause discomfort and increases the chance of getting diseases.

How many girls does Chad date at the same time and how does he do that?

Why are there so many women that want to be abused/dominated? My last two relationships ended because of stuff like "if you're not willing to choke me, then you're not a real man."

I just don't find it attractive and person I find it deeply mentally disturbing that so many women want to be raped.

>>18346877
t. nu-male

>>18346869
not gonna post private pics on the chans, my friendo, nice try though

I mean tanned girls
guess you know what they look like, not like they are so rare

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>>18346874
3-4 and because he is Chad.

>>18346884
What? Post sample pic.

When a girl gives me her number, writes me first some days later and then invites me to party with her and her (girl)friends, shes 99% interested in me?
We also talked a bit about how she is single since february and still slowly adapting to it.
Im overthinking arent i?

>>18346909
You're autistic.

>>18346909
Yes.

Is admitting jealousy bad?

How can you tell if a girl is trying to let you down easy or is legitimately just busy?

I asked a girl out the other day and she said yes but then I gave her a day and she said she was working that day then I gave her another day and she said she was also working that day. I asked her what day she had off and she said she'll check but I haven't heard back from her. I go to school 3 hours away so I can only do it specific days until I get out.

She did say yes when I asked her out though and she gave me her contact info/number/snap and everything and genuinely sounded like she wanted to meet up and replies when I text her. I also already knew her before (high school) but matched with her on tinder and we were pretty good friends at one point. I had a crush on her for like 2 years but haven't seen her in a while so that's why I care about this when I normally wouldn't.

if you go to a party and a girl makes small talk with you for 20 minutes and you make her laugh a lot does it mean she wants your cock or is she just that bored

>>18346942
depends, rate your jealousy on a scale from 0 to psycho that can't ever leave his/her side for a second and decide
>>18346909
>>18346973
both the same
you're overthinking it
just go with it and see if it leads to anything

>>18346997
Maybe 5. But it's pretty reasonable.

I don't really want to get into more detail. I'm just asking if it's off putting or something. As to my jealousy is caused by something reasonable, I'm assuming it's fine.

>>18347012
if the jealousy has a good reason talking about it is always the right way
and unless you're only together for a week you should be fine anyways, shouldn't be "off putting"

>>18347052
Thanks.

>>18344649
Male

>biggest red flag
Constant fits of rage for things out of her control (weather, traffic, bad service) or things where the only blame is on herself (waking up late, forgetting stuff, failing a test, etc.).
I'm okay with listening to anyone venting even if they scream bloody murder but listening to someone going from calm to choleric in less than two seconds makes me want to be very far from that person.

I learned it from personal experience, my father and sister are very irritable people and it hurts me to see them like that. I know shit sucks sometimes but getting too flustered to even control your tone too often is hazardous for your health, add to it that it's painful to your loved ones to see you overwhelmed by negative emotions so easily.

>>18344573
Hetero Femanons,

What keeps you fucking males?

>>18344691
>>18344691
>>18344817
Attention whores, Prolly all twitch whores


>>18344826
HAHAHAHA YOU ACTUALLY THINK THAT YOU ARE SMARTER ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND POLITICS!!

My Sides politics is for the men, I know that was a biiiiig word for you though
>>18345647
Yeah, like a woman is smart enough to write code, Nice job anyway I'm sure it must be gr8 piggy backing a mans creation

>>18344691
By film you probably mean fifty shades of grey or vain shit where are bitch get's chad

>>18347155
Chad

>>18344573
Hi. I'm a grill. Why do you make these shitty threads any way?

>>18347191
Get the fuck out of here now you attentionwhore


HAY GUIZZZZ ZLOOOK AT ME I AM A GRILL BUT AM NOT LIKE OTHER GIRLS HAHAHAHAHAHAH ISN'T AMY SCHOOMER SOOOOOOOO FUNNY I AM SOOOO DEPRESSED CHAD DIDN'T TALK TO ME FOR AN HOUR!!!111!!

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>>18345416
My bet is that she is just a symbol your subconscious took with her form to represent something your mind is trying to wrap up.

Let her rest in peace and instead analyze what is bothering you inside related to the nature of the other symbols in those dreams (the theme of conversations, places, etc).

Read this book.

>>18345813
Well from personal experience, they're much nicer and accepting, but I like all races if we're speaking in terms of sex.

>>18347213
Tje white FHO is probably the most whoriest of all other races favouring the poor uneducated brown man (i am not racist) ALl women are bad howver the white woman is the stupidest and bitchiest, no white woman has ever actually accomplished anythign.

For females;is a guy being fat an immediate turn off?

>>18347201
Alright, well I was going to talk about how I'm actually guy commenting on how dumb this entire thread concept is now, but I guess this can also qualify as an answer to my question.

>>18347191
They're a fixture and I suppose they lower the general relationship queries that'd come up as OPs otherwise. There are more than enough of them as is.

Also, tits or gtfo.

>>18346867
she loves you. its meant to be anon this is a match made in heaven

>>18347206
I thought that was your captcha

>>18347222
I actually am black, but I am educated, but that is true.

>>18347212
well, if you were here like yesterday, you'd learn a fuckload on female ejaculation, masturbatory techniques and edgeing.
shit was informative

tl;dr you are lame

>>18347286
meant for

>>18347212

>>18347292
cuck
>>18347286
all women are whores and just have to think about chad
>>18347285
You are one of the good ones

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>>18347286
>yfw qt girls are into bestiality

>>18347298
>>18347222
>>18347201
0/10

>>18347299
Women are not smart enough to have fetishes

this question is for both boys and girls

why is there a retarded tripfag in this thread?

>>18347298
I'm 99% sure that you're just some chick trying to make men look bad.

>>18347306
it's mostly because internet is for everyone and not just for those who finish the primary school

>>18347306
I'll have you know I happen to not be retarded and infact have an iq of 135, You have not taken the black pill you are infact still biologically thinking in order that you might receive a single mother wife.

>>18347298
Yeah sure I guess I'm "one of the good ones" or whatever.

>>18347306
Its a public trip.

How does being being bored with sex equate being bored with life? I heard this recently and do not understand.

>>18347376
nothing to understand about cliche maximes

>>18347396
This is true. It still is an illogical statement.

>>18347376
When roasties get bored with sex they cheat on men

>>18347414
>>18347376
I've never heard the phrase before, but I will say it certainly sounds like the sort of gay shit you'd read from a magazine or something trying to sound energetic and snappy.

Maybe what they're trying to say is that you have so many options available to you in regards to sex that being bored with sex might as well mean you're bored with life.

Shitty thought process, I'll admit.

Does chest freckle jannie still post here?

>>18347430
I am inclined to agree. Makes ZERO sense to me. There's so many things to do besides have sex and it's other related activities.

>>18347532
Its. Damn phone.

>>18347532
And to be quite honest, I don't have sex more than once or twice a year, if that.

>>18347550
maybe that's the reason you don't like it

>>18347223
Yes

>>18344573
Women (or guys)

What the first thing that pops in your mind when you see a guy reading at a coffee shop?

>>18347169
>Yeah, like a woman is smart enough to write code, Nice job anyway I'm sure it must be gr8 piggy backing a mans creation
I know you're a lame troll but the first programmer in history was a woman, genius.

Everybody, just state your sex please:
how much of a turn off for you is tobacco smoking?

>>18347628
male
95% turn off

>>18347628
male
99% turn off

>>18347628
Female, it's a dealbreaker for me.

>>18347605
I wonder what he's reading

>>18345812
K

Women

Do you like muscular men who are dominant.

>>18347628
female
100% a turn off. i have asthma and could literally die because of this.

>>18347652
now you're overexagerrating.

>>18347638
>>18347639
>>18347640
>>18347652
wow, didn't expect a reaction this strong.
I hate it and thought it would be worse for me, but it turns out to be I can leave peacefully with smokers. They just have to wash their teeth before kissing

Do females dislike overconfidence? Do females even care about confidence anymore, is it still a desire able trait?

>>18347656
then you know nothing about asthma.
everytime im around people smoking it triggers my asthma and i've been hospitalized many times because of attacks. do i need to fax you my medical records? do your research :^)

>>18347697
it so happens I have asthma myself and I never had any problems with smoke

>>18347628
Male.
80% turnoff. I could probably bang a smoker if she was hot enough, but I'm not getting into a committed relationship.

I told my tinder date about how Jews run the media and she said she had a good time but won't call me back did that have something to do with it?

At what point should I permanently give up on trying to date?

>>18347715
i sense that you're lying and you fail to consider how triggers in asthma vary by the individual. are we seriously trying to anonymously prove this on 4chan? why the heck would i lie.

https://www.cdc.gov/tobacco/campaign/tips/diseases/secondhand-smoke-asthma.html

its amazing what a bit of research can do.

I'm male.

>>18347605
I wouldn't even notice you.

>>18347628
ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING!

>>18347730
That's up to you.

>>18347735
look, I'm in no position to question medical diagnoses and neither are you.
I have been diagnosed with asthma, tht's all I know. My lungs are pretty small and I get tired quickly, but have never had any attacks after the age of three.

I'm not claiming you are bullshitting, my initial comment was driven by disbelief rather than sensing any bad intentions in you.
But don't you claim bullshit on my words either

>>18347730
about the moment you have to ask for dating help on 4chan

>>18347759
>after the age of three
then your asthma isn't that bad. you're lucky. thats why it doesnt trigger you. i can say everyone i know that has asthma actively avoids places where smoking is allowed. i get attacks a few times a year because the laws here aren't taken seriously.

have a good night, anonymous.

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>>18347564
Never said I didn't like it. I just don't seek it out actively unless I am actually into the person. I haven't met somebody I'm actually into for going on seven years now.

>>18347628
Male. No. Especially if it's weed. Love stoner chicks.

>>18347628
Male. 95% turn off.

>>18347628
Pffft... I'll do it. I don't get people who think its so disgusting.
Second hand smoke can't be nearly as bad as first hand.

I don't smoke (cept green stuff, which is completely fine as long as you're not doing every day), but I know some smokers and I don't get why people make such a big fucking deal about it, frankly.

I mean, its not a turn on, but I'll still sleep with you and might actually date you (...if I was into that to begin with).
For a relationship (again, if I was into that), I would be a little more cautious, but its whatever. If I wanted a baby, I'd be a little worried. But you know, even then a lot of people quit because its so hard to smoke when you are pregnant.
I know someone who quit that way.

>>18347169
You do not represent the MRA community, scum. Back to ImGoingToHellForThis.

>>18344826
Where are you on the political spectrum?

>>18344598
Male

Birdwatching
Hiking
Politics

>>18344598
Female

Cooking
Housework
Babysitting

>>18345984
lol no its not. I'm a footfag and I'm still like nah not really.

...
I just like looking at girls cross-legged in short skirts to be honest.
The best pose is just any pose that spreads the legs and shows feet.

>>18345989
>Natalie Portman
>Average

I'm sorry you live entirely on the internet and can only physically accept like 1 out of every 1000 eligible women who cross your path. I'm also sorry that this 1 woman is out of your league.

How do I tell if a girl is ACTUALLY on her period? She'll let me finger her but not actually fuck her. Is she just trying to avoid sex? I didn't see any blood.

>>18347729
depends, did you use the words "good goyim"?