I need advice getting myself out of this mess... I posted here

Anyone?

>>18343220
You ignore them. If she wants to decide that her date was "bad" and be stupid about it you have the right to ignore her childish antics.

>>18343220
>So we went on the date and I thought it went well; we ended up making out and holding hands etc.
NICE. High-five, anon.

>Fast forward a couple of days, I tried to set up plans to see this girl again but she gave me a bullshit "I'm busy I'll have to get back to you" response.
Was this your first contact with her after the date?! That might be why she's pissy.

>It also now seems that people in my program that were once very friendly with me are being unpleasant/unfriendly to me
You might just be imagining things. Don't let it bother you. Continue to socialize as normal.

>Thoughts on how to "get myself out" of this?
Time and experience. Even if your program-mates are pissed at you for some reason, it'll settle down if you don't start isolating yourself. I made this mistake in law school after an embarrassing night at the bars. It was 100% in my head, but I let it isolate me from all the friends I'd made that semester, and naturally they stopped talking to me. I regret doing that so fucking much.

>>18343311
>>18343308
Thank you guys, I appreciate the advice. I'm fine if the girl doesn't want to persuade a relationship (if anything that would be a horrible idea being in the same program) but I don't want thing drama as I did literally nothing wrong.

>>18343368
>I'm fine if the girl doesn't want to persuade a relationship (if anything that would be a horrible idea being in the same program)

I forgot to comment on this. Don't worry about the whole "don't shit where you eat" thing. Depending on how big your program is, it doesn't apply to grad school.

Fuck, in my law school we must've had at least a half dozen marriages, and well over a dozen couples break up.

>>18343386
Lol thank you again for your input. There are only 20 people in my program (18 girls and 2 guys myself included) so dating probably isn't the greatest idea to begin with.

>>18343422
>18 girls and 2 guys myself included
Fuck, that sounds awesome.

Honestly I'd just go back to acting normal. Keep interacting with classmates. Yeah, there might be a little drama but it'll settle down.

Seriously though, what contact have you made with the girl since your date? My "best practice" is to try to arrange the next date during the date, and at least text her saying I had fun hanging out with her the same day after I get home. It's one of those things that guys tend to overthink as sounding desperate but is so basic that it's more common courtesy which, if you don't do it, is insulting... like how making a girl pay for her meal used to be a huge insult.

>>18343449
She texted me afterwards saying that she got to work save. I said "I had fun we should do this again" and she said "I had fun too!." I texted her like 3 days later about getting lunch again.

>>18343480
Ah. Well whatever. It didn't work out. Don't beat yourself up about it.

bang one of her friends instead