Femanons : Educate me on what you want from relations

>>18341784
>Is this an eventual eventuality, that all females will become complacent if they find a caring significant other?
Yes, and all males will as well. It's not a gendered thing, it is a people thing.

To be healthy and happy in a relationship, you need to understand how to set boundaries while taking care of your partner.
Devote your life to making your partner happy, love them, put effort in making the relationship interesting and fulfilling. But, at the same time, don't take their shit and don't allow them to mistreat you, make sure they are doing their part, make sure they are working to make you happy as well. You don't need to do the same things for each other, but you both need to feel like you are getting from the relationship more than what you are putting.

This is something very hard to do, and probably it will take you a lot of self reflection and hard work to learn how to do it if you tend to allow your partner to take advantage of you. Almost no one does this purposely, it's easy to start taking your partner's work for granted.
Make sure you communicate a lot with your partner and tell them when they are crossing boundaries or what you expect from the relationship. Make sure you both put a lot of work in the relationship. Make sure you value yourself and you don't let your love for your partner destroy your self worth.

Hope this helps you somehow.

>>18341784
Your practice gf is not a real relationship pig fucker just kill yourself. Tl;dr 10 yrs of autistic trash

>>18341784
I don't know man, i've been in a relationship with a girl for 1 year and things were from amazing to meh and FUCK YOU quite quickly. She's the type of girls who love to be independant but would repent on the sight of losing me and will cry and make a huge drama but still not willing to give away any of her "freedom" in order to keep me.
I would just want a normal girl who is willing to give as much as i give and put me in first priority over the rest of the people/duties. But i guess this is a problem for today's women since they prioritize their own personal interests over their partners.
This is key for love, if making your partner happy cannot be your number 1 priority then you're not ready for love. I'm not saying you should jump from a building in order to love, but you cannot think about your parents friends or a shitty job as more important than your so called significant other. I just cannot accept anymore girls saying they love me and then telling me they cannot move back with me because they want to be close to their parents or have a job in their own city. Fuck that, really. that's just plain egotism

>>18342006
sorry i'm a maleanon, but still wanted to have my opinion on the issue since i've felt little bit related to your situation.

A guy who isn't limp dicked from too much porn use. Faithful as well.

>>18341784
>tfw this shit always happens to me, never the other way around
>tfw bitches lose respect for you when you take shit from them and devote yourself to taking care of them wholeheartedly
>tfw you give someone everything, they take it greedily while moving on from you in a romantic sense
>tfw you are still emotionally dependent on them, but you get an emotional reward from caring from them and let them neglect your emotional and physical needs because you are a giver not a taker
>tfw it's over and you don't know how to walk away

>>18342127
Are you me?

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A good partner in a relationship to me has these qualities.

Tender lover that fucks with passion. There really has to be a connection and communication there, and it's not a show of strength or as simple as dick size. Just be in the moment and explore touch and restraint and building that passion up together as a co-operative activity.

Emotionally vulnerable and willing to heal from past traumas. If we're in it for the long run, we probably both have some issues we should get out on the table. Obviously for some men and women there might be some deal-breakers in there so it's important to always be honest with each other.

Each partner needs to have their own lives, passions and projects going on. Create shit together, not necessarily babies, but anything from cooking together or collaborating on a drawing, do activities that make you inhabit the same mind space if that makes sense. My boyfriend and I recently wrote a free verse poem by taking turns writing, but only knowing the last word came before you start. That's the kind of shit that keeps magic in a relationship.

>>18342284
Perhaps. Shit's so fucked up bro. I wish bitches weren't fucking insane and heartless.

>>18342006
>still not willing to give away any of her "freedom" in order to keep me.

What freedom?

>to give as much as i give and put me in first priority over the rest of the people/duties

Which people, and duties? Context matters.